Ah, love and marriage! They say love makes the world go round, but in marriage, it also makes the dishes get done, the car mysteriously refill with gas, and the last slice of cake magically end up on your spouse’s plate (even when you really wanted it).

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🤍❤️💗 Happy Valentine’s Day! To all lovebirds out there, let today not be the only day you shower her/him with your bestest love version. Cultivate and integrate whatever you do today into your daily marriage/relationship routine. 💗❤️🤍

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Love in marriage isn’t just about grand gestures or sweeping romance; it’s about the little things, the everyday choices that show your spouse, “I choose you, again and again.” True love changes how we behave; it shapes what we won’t do to our spouse and what we feel compelled to do, simply because we love them.

So, here’s a fun (but very real) list of 30 things someone in love will NEVER do to their spouse—plus 30 things they WILL do, just because!

30 Things Someone in Love Will NOT Do to Their Spouse

1. Intentionally hurt their feelings—because love protects, not wounds.

2. Disrespect them in public or private—because honor is key.

3. Compare them to someone else—because they are uniquely yours.

4. Betray their trust—because trust is hard to rebuild once broken.

5. Ignore their needs and emotions—because love listens and responds.

6. Take them for granted—because appreciation keeps love alive.

7. Refuse to apologize when wrong—because pride has no place in love.

8. Hold grudges—because forgiveness is a gift love gives freely.

9. Dismiss their dreams and ambitions—because love encourages growth.

10. Shut down communication—because love seeks understanding.

11. Criticize them harshly—because love corrects with kindness.

12. Keep secrets that could harm the marriage—because love thrives on honesty.

13. Make them feel alone in tough times—because love stands firm in storms.

14. Mock their insecurities—because love reassures.

15. Neglect their physical and emotional intimacy—because love nurtures connection.

16. Withhold affection as punishment—because love isn’t conditional.

17. Forget special dates (anniversaries, birthdays, etc.)—because love remembers.

18. Speak negatively about them to others—because love defends.

19. Make decisions that affect both without consulting them—because love considers.

20. Laugh at their failures instead of lifting them up—because love builds.

21. Use hurtful words in arguments—because love values words.

22. Fail to show appreciation for the little things—because love notices.

23. Let resentment fester—because love seeks resolution.

24. Give up when things get tough—because love endures.

25. Allow others to disrespect them—because love protects.

26. Put work, hobbies, or social media above quality time—because love prioritizes.

27. Refuse to compromise on important matters—because love meets in the middle.

28. Belittle their efforts—because love encourages.

29. Stop trying to win their heart daily—because love is active, not passive.

30. Forget why they fell in love in the first place—because love keeps the fire burning.

30 Things Someone in Love Will Be Compelled to Do for Their Spouse—Just Because

1. Kiss them goodbye (and hello!)—even when running late.

2. Save them the last bite of their favorite meal—even if you wanted it too.

3. Hold their hand, even in silence—because love needs no words.

4. Tell them they look amazing—even when they’re in sweats.

5. Encourage them when they doubt themselves—because love lifts.

6. Celebrate their victories like they’re your own—because love is selfless.

7. Send a random “I love you” text—just to make them smile.

8. Bring them their favorite snack without being asked—because love remembers.

9. Watch their favorite show (even if you secretly hate it)—because love compromises.

10. Laugh at their jokes (even the corny ones)—because love enjoys the moment.

11. Pray for them daily—because love covers.

12. Defend them, even when they’re not around—because love protects.

13. Massage their shoulders after a long day—without being asked.

14. Brag about them to others—because love is proud.

15. Check in during the day—just to say hi.

16. Surprise them with small gifts or notes—just because.

17. Let them have the remote sometimes—even when the game is on.

18. Listen to their stories, even if you’ve heard them before—because love cherishes.

19. Take care of them when they’re sick—with extra TLC.

20. Make them coffee (or tea) just the way they like it—because love is thoughtful.

21. Put effort into date nights—even after years of marriage.

22. Apologize first, even when it’s hard—because love values peace over pride.

23. Take interest in their hobbies—because love shares life.

24. Surprise them with a spontaneous trip or outing—because love keeps things exciting.

25. Whisper sweet nothings, even after decades together—because love stays playful.

26. Respect their personal space and boundaries—because love honors.

27. Encourage them to take care of themselves—because love wants them at their best.

28. Stay up late talking, just like when you first met—because love cherishes connection.

29. Show up for them, in every season—because love is constant.

30. Keep choosing them, over and over again—because love is a daily decision.

Final Thoughts: Love in Marriage Is…

Love in marriage isn’t about perfection; it’s about intention. It’s about what you choose not to do out of respect, and what you feel compelled to do out of sheer adoration.

So, to all the husbands and wives out there: What’s one thing on this list that you already do? And what’s one you’ll start doing today—just because?

Let’s celebrate love, in marriage, where it matters most; starting today, not because it’s Valentine’s, but just because you love and cherish your significant other.