Proposition 50: What California Voters Need to Know in 2025

My Walk https://videopress.com/v/iwUoOJgG?resizeToParent=true&cover=true&preloadContent=metadata&useAverageColor=true https://videopress.com/v/NoAfemU6?resizeToParent=true&cover=true&preloadContent=metadata&useAverageColor=true Protests against Prop 50 Last Saturday, on my walk, I came across some protesters. I drew near to see what they were protesting about. It was about Prop 50. Of course, there were other issues, but Prop 50 stood out on the placard of many. Have you heard about it or … Continue reading Proposition 50: What California Voters Need to Know in 2025

When Polarization Shows Up in Society โ€” and in Our Homes

We often hear the word polarizing used to describe public figures โ€” leaders, celebrities, activists โ€” who stir up strong feelings of either admiration or resentment.ย  The truth is that anyone standing up for truth is polarized because s/he is making the other person pause and consider another (or other) aspect(s) of an issue, if … Continue reading When Polarization Shows Up in Society โ€” and in Our Homes

When the Camera Doesnโ€™t Lie: A Frank Analysis of Andy Byronโ€™s Viral Moment

Andy Byron and Kristin Cabot were caught on Coldplayโ€™s โ€œkiss cam.โ€ Credits: Grace Springer via Storyful What was your reaction on seeing that viral video? I was disgusted. It was supposed to be a fun night out. A Coldplay concert. A kiss cam. A playful tradition. But for former Astronomer CEO Andy Byron and HR head … Continue reading When the Camera Doesnโ€™t Lie: A Frank Analysis of Andy Byronโ€™s Viral Moment

The Spirit of Haman: How the Ancient Story of Esther Still Speaks Today

https://videopress.com/v/Z1jyv3c6?resizeToParent=true&cover=true&preloadContent=metadata&useAverageColor=true The story of Haman in the Book of Esther is more than just an ancient tale of palace intrigueโ€”itโ€™s a timeless reminder of the dangers of unchecked ego, misplaced power, and hidden agendas. Though he lived in the Persian Empire over two thousand years ago, Hamanโ€™s spirit lives on. In churches, workplaces, families, and … Continue reading The Spirit of Haman: How the Ancient Story of Esther Still Speaks Today

Trading Bricks for the Breeze: Why Some People Choose to Live on Yachts Instead of in Homes

Yachts Parked on The Sea I walk along the beach at least three days a week and meet a lot of people. I also love to strike conversations on various topics with the people. One of such conversations is why they chose to live on their yachts, instead of on land in a home. This … Continue reading Trading Bricks for the Breeze: Why Some People Choose to Live on Yachts Instead of in Homes

Why Our Parents Didnโ€™t Make It Financially Big โ€” And How We Can

Hard Word doesnโ€™t equate Wealth They worked hard. Gave their best. Sacrificed much.Yet, for many of our parents, financial greatness never quite happened. So what held them back? And more importantly โ€” what can we do differently? Letโ€™s unpack it. They Chose Security, Not Scalability Our parents valued safety โ€” and who can blame them? … Continue reading Why Our Parents Didnโ€™t Make It Financially Big โ€” And How We Can

I have been in a comatose (literally!)

https://videopress.com/v/qTeDwcw3?resizeToParent=true&cover=true&preloadContent=metadata&useAverageColor=true I have been sleeping all these years (or was it comatose?) and finally woke up by a word I read. Yes, you got that right - a word! Well, maybe six words which said โ€œdied at 39, buried at 70!โ€ It hit home like thunder striking at my heart and fire shot through my … Continue reading I have been in a comatose (literally!)

When Power Dated Wealth: Lessons from a Relationship Gone Wrong

They were unstoppable. One wanted to change the world with rockets.The other wanted to rule it with laws. But like so many relationships โ€” romantic or otherwise โ€” it all started with admiration โ€ฆ and ended in memes, silence, and passive-aggressive tweets. In our fictional satire, Max Titan and Preston Valor symbolized what happens when … Continue reading When Power Dated Wealth: Lessons from a Relationship Gone Wrong

Moral Clarity and When Truths Collide: Your Truth, My Truth โ€” Which is Right?

Moral Clarity/Compass Moral Clarity in a Subjective World We are now in an age where moral clarity is seen as offensive โ€” because if I say something is objectively wrong, it implies someone else is objectively wrong too. And thatโ€™s uncomfortable. So society often leans toward moral relativism โ€” the belief that morality depends on … Continue reading Moral Clarity and When Truths Collide: Your Truth, My Truth โ€” Which is Right?

Freedom of Religion and the Fight for Moral Clarity in America

America still The Beautiful, Great, and Wonderful America was founded on the bold ideals of liberty, justice, and the inalienable rights of all people. Among those rights, freedom of religion stands tall โ€” enshrined in the First Amendment, protected by law, and deeply tied to the conscience of the nation. But somewhere along the journey … Continue reading Freedom of Religion and the Fight for Moral Clarity in America

America at 249: Still the Land of the Free?

America celebrates Independence Day On this day, July 4th, 2025, we pause to commemorate the birth of a nation โ€” 249 years since thirteen colonies declared independence from British rule. The words of the Declaration of Independence continue to resonate through the generations: โ€œWe hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created … Continue reading America at 249: Still the Land of the Free?

Part 5: โœˆ๏ธ Lessons from the Sky: Reflections at 30,000 Feet

Pressure is real either up air in the cabin Cabin Pressure & Emotional Pressure โ€” Whatโ€™s Holding You Together? Somewhere above the clouds, while sipping lukewarm tea and listening to the hum of the engine, I had a quiet realization: no one here looks like theyโ€™re under pressure, but we all are. The plane cabin … Continue reading Part 5: โœˆ๏ธ Lessons from the Sky: Reflections at 30,000 Feet

Part 4: โœˆ๏ธ Lessons from the Sky: Reflections at 30,000 Feet

The Quiet Connections of Strangers Passing Strangers & Parallel Lives โ€” The Quiet Connections We Overlook Thereโ€™s a moment during boarding when you lock eyes with strangers. People trying to find their seats, stowing bags, checking for outlets. You share a nod, a smile, maybe an apology as you shuffle past. And then, for the … Continue reading Part 4: โœˆ๏ธ Lessons from the Sky: Reflections at 30,000 Feet

Part 3: โœˆ๏ธ Lessons from the Sky: Reflections at 30,000 Feet

Everyoneโ€™s Going Somewhere โ€ฆ But Are We Headed in the Right Direction? Sitting in the cabin of a plane, looking at the sea of passengers ahead and behind, Iโ€™m struck by a quiet truth: weโ€™re all in motion. Weโ€™re all going somewhere. But motion isnโ€™t the same as direction. And direction isnโ€™t the same as … Continue reading Part 3: โœˆ๏ธ Lessons from the Sky: Reflections at 30,000 Feet

Part 2: โœˆ๏ธ Lessons from the Sky: Reflections at 30,000 Feet

Of Layovers, Delays & Detours โ€” When Life Doesnโ€™t Go According to Plan You know that sigh you let out when you hear the announcement:โ€œLadies and gentlemen, your flight has been delayedโ€ฆโ€Or worse: โ€œWeโ€™re being rerouted due to weather.โ€ Nobody claps. Nobody celebrates. Because we love control. We love certainty. We want smooth, predictable journeys … Continue reading Part 2: โœˆ๏ธ Lessons from the Sky: Reflections at 30,000 Feet

โ€œSo You Think Youโ€™re Ready โ€ฆโ€

eBook Cover Iโ€™m passionate about many things, particularly, marriage, family, and relationships. Iโ€™ve blogged tons about it and have been working on a book to share my experiences. The book is taking much longer than anticipated, but this eBook marks the first step. If we all โ€œpreparedโ€ for marriage, Iโ€™m sure thereโ€™d be fewer divorces, … Continue reading โ€œSo You Think Youโ€™re Ready โ€ฆโ€

Part 1: What Being in the Air Taught Me About Life on the Ground โ€ฆ โœˆ๏ธ Lessons from the Sky: Reflections at 30,000 Feet

Soaring between the clouds, problems look smaller Thereโ€™s something surreal about being suspended in the air โ€”thousands of feet above the earth, watching the clouds float by like cotton dreams. In that quiet space between departure and arrival, time seems to pause, and the soul begins to whisper. The stress of planning and getting ready … Continue reading Part 1: What Being in the Air Taught Me About Life on the Ground โ€ฆ โœˆ๏ธ Lessons from the Sky: Reflections at 30,000 Feet

Intro: โœˆ๏ธ Lessons from the Sky โ€” Reflections at 30,000 Feet

A lady in a window seat of an airplane Sometimes, we need to leave the ground to see things clearly. Life doesnโ€™t always make sense when youโ€™re in it. But every now and then, God gives you altitudeโ€”space, silence, and stillnessโ€”to gain perspective. Another trip, found me 30,000 feet above ground, sitting in a window … Continue reading Intro: โœˆ๏ธ Lessons from the Sky โ€” Reflections at 30,000 Feet

What a Series! What a Game 7!!

Thunder Win First Title Of OKC Era - View now in the NBA App - https://nba.shar.estori.es/go/9386b006-762b-8cf4-536a-3a1a9eb372ee/f15336b7-6124-de44-5a4a-3a1aacc5b71d Congratulations to the Oklahoma City Thunder on winning the franchise's first ever championship. What the trio of KD, RW, and JH couldn't fulfill during their time, the young trio of SGA, JW, and CH got done in 2025. The … Continue reading What a Series! What a Game 7!!

A Manโ€™s Enemy Is Within His Household: Understanding Matthew 10:36

Things that can cause enmity โ€œA manโ€™s enemies will be the members of his own household.โ€โ€” Matthew 10:36 (NIV) The above scripture, on which this post is based, is a piercing truth โ€” one that stings more deeply than betrayal from a stranger ever could. Itโ€™s one thing to face opposition from the world, but … Continue reading A Manโ€™s Enemy Is Within His Household: Understanding Matthew 10:36

Series Title: When Life Doesnโ€™t Add Up: Part 3: When Playing It Safe Becomes Playing Small

You didnโ€™t want to fail.You didnโ€™t want to disappoint anyone.So you stayed where it was safe โ€” in the role you knew, the lane you understood, the space that felt predictable. You told yourself, โ€œIโ€™m just being wise.โ€But deep down, something else was at play: fear. The fear of looking foolish.The fear of wasting time.The … Continue reading Series Title: When Life Doesnโ€™t Add Up: Part 3: When Playing It Safe Becomes Playing Small

Work Hard or Work Smart: Which would you rather do?

Work Hard vs Work Smart Great question โ€” and the short answer is: the ideal is to work both hard and smart. You donโ€™t have to choose one over the other. But understanding the difference between them helps you maximize your time, energy, and results. ๐Ÿ” Whatโ€™s the Difference? ๐Ÿ› ๏ธ Working Hard Means putting in … Continue reading Work Hard or Work Smart: Which would you rather do?

When God Doesnโ€™t Act Swiftly When We Need Him To: Understanding Divine Delay in the Face of Wickedness

A Reminder that Delay is not Denial Thereโ€™s a moment most believers experienceโ€”watching wickedness thrive while righteousness suffersโ€”and wondering, โ€œGod, where are You?โ€ Why does it seem that evil gets a free pass while justice is delayed? Why doesnโ€™t God strike down wrongdoers right when we need Him to? These are deeply human questions. Even … Continue reading When God Doesnโ€™t Act Swiftly When We Need Him To: Understanding Divine Delay in the Face of Wickedness

A Parentโ€™s Anguish: When Adult Siblings Stop Speaking to Each Other

A parent in the middle of adult siblings squabbling There are few things more heart-wrenching for a parent, especially a mother, than watching their childrenโ€”once close, bonded by shared memories, secrets, and laughterโ€”drift apart or worse, become estranged. When adult siblings stop speaking to one another, it doesnโ€™t just affect them; it pierces the parentโ€™s … Continue reading A Parentโ€™s Anguish: When Adult Siblings Stop Speaking to Each Other

Sunday/Christian Reflections: Satanโ€™s Snares โ€“ How the Enemy Traps the Uninformed

Stay Alert โ€ฆ Avoid Satanโ€™s Snares In todayโ€™s world, full of voices, choices, and distractions, many are unknowingly stepping into traps laid by the enemy. The Bible warns us that Satan is cunning, relentless, and strategic. He doesnโ€™t waste time setting traps for those who are alert and armedโ€”he targets those who are uninformed, careless, … Continue reading Sunday/Christian Reflections: Satanโ€™s Snares โ€“ How the Enemy Traps the Uninformed

Happy ๐ŸŒบ Memorial Day: A Reflection

A military salute to those who never came back home Memorial Day isnโ€™t just about backyard barbecues, store sales, or kicking off summerโ€”itโ€™s a sacred moment in the American calendar. Itโ€™s the day we hit pause to honor those who laid down their lives in service to the country. Soldiers, sailors, airmen, and marines who … Continue reading Happy ๐ŸŒบ Memorial Day: A Reflection

Satanโ€™s Snares โ€“ How the Enemy Traps the Uninformed and Ignorant

The many snares of Satan In todayโ€™s world, full of voices, choices, and distractions, many are unknowingly stepping into traps laid by the enemy. The Bible warns us that Satan is cunning, relentless, and strategic. He doesnโ€™t waste time setting traps for those who are alert and armedโ€”he targets those who are uninformed, careless, or … Continue reading Satanโ€™s Snares โ€“ How the Enemy Traps the Uninformed and Ignorant

Mental Wellness for Families: Building a Home That Heals, Not Hurts

Mentally Aware Happy families Welcome to the Family Wellness Seriesโ€”a heartfelt journey into creating mentally and emotionally healthy homes. Whether youโ€™re a parent, caregiver, spouse, or sibling, these posts are designed to help you foster connection, heal wounds, and build a legacy of love and stability. Because when the home is whole, everyone inside it … Continue reading Mental Wellness for Families: Building a Home That Heals, Not Hurts

Mental Wellness for Couples: Strengthening Love from the Inside Out

Mental health awareness The month of May is almost over. But do you remember that it is the Mental Health Awareness Month? Or did you, like me, almost or totally forgot? Though weโ€™re nearing the end of it, thereโ€™s never a bad time to talk about the one thing that affects every part of our … Continue reading Mental Wellness for Couples: Strengthening Love from the Inside Out

Promiscuity: Understanding the Causes and Finding Healing

A life basket containing possible causes of Promiscuity Why are some people promiscuous? You might know someone who is and, I hope like I do, you wonder why they are so. This is definitely not about judging but to deep dive into the why - is it biological, a disease, self-inflicted, or what? Promiscuityโ€”defined as … Continue reading Promiscuity: Understanding the Causes and Finding Healing

Satanโ€™s Snares โ€“ How the Enemy Traps the Uninformed and Ignorant

Satan cages his victims with snares In todayโ€™s world, full of voices, choices, and distractions, many are unknowingly stepping into traps laid by the enemy. The Bible warns us that Satan is cunning, relentless, and strategic. He doesnโ€™t waste time setting traps for those who are alert and armedโ€”he targets those who are uninformed, careless, … Continue reading Satanโ€™s Snares โ€“ How the Enemy Traps the Uninformed and Ignorant

Which Gas Is Best For Your Car? Ranking the Top Oil Marketing Companies in the U.S. โ€” From Best to Worst

A ranking guide of US gas stations I have wanted to do a comparison of oil marketing companies for a long time now, but other topics have pushed it back until now. A recent incident finally prompted the overdue post. My regulars are Chevron, Shell, Mobil, Costco, 76, or Arco andI know the effect of … Continue reading Which Gas Is Best For Your Car? Ranking the Top Oil Marketing Companies in the U.S. โ€” From Best to Worst

Part 2: The Quiet Grief of an Unlived Life

Downloadable version of post Because sometimes, what hurts most is not what we lost โ€” but what we never allowed ourselves to live. Itโ€™s not always the loud tragedies that break us.Sometimes, itโ€™s the slow ache.The quiet realization that life โ€” the one you were supposed to have โ€” didnโ€™t quite happen. You smile. You … Continue reading Part 2: The Quiet Grief of an Unlived Life

What a Series!

Warriors Advance To Conference Semifinals - View now in the NBA App - https://nba.shar.estori.es/go/e800b787-56b9-0af6-7693-3a19abc648ff/481e7f4a-b244-5a13-9719-3a19b0b17113 A fierce battle. But Congratulations are in order for the Golden State Warriors on advancing to the second round of the Season's Playoffs. They showed supremacy, talent, and class on a hostile Houston ground. I didn't think the #7Warriors-#2Houston 1st Round … Continue reading What a Series!

Boldness Is a Superpower – Godโ€™s Gift, Not Arrogance

A lion staring Boldness is not simply a character traitโ€”it is a spiritual gift and divine superpower. 2 Timothy 1:7 reminds us, โ€œFor God has not given us the spirit of fear, but of power, and of love, and of a sound mind.โ€ Yet, in a world that often glorifies silence or false humility, boldness … Continue reading Boldness Is a Superpower – Godโ€™s Gift, Not Arrogance

Part 2: Should the son be slighted because of the father?

Credits: People Credits: Fox News Deion and Shedeur Sanders This is the question posed regarding the recent Shedeur Sandersโ€™ NFL Draft issue. Read Part 1 to better understand this post. In a hyper-competitive and image-sensitive world, things arenโ€™t always fair. From a fairness standpoint: absolutely not: a son should not be slighted because of the … Continue reading Part 2: Should the son be slighted because of the father?

Part I: When Legacy Becomes Liability – The Unspoken Rules Behind Shedeur Sandersโ€™ NFL Draft Snub

Shedeur Sanders. Credits: Yahoo Sports: โ€œThis one is personal. Iโ€™m not an avid football fan per se - only watching when it gets to playoffs and championships. However, this yearโ€™s draft being in the news after the end of Round 1, got me curious as the whole process unfolded. I couldnโ€™t shake what it revealed … Continue reading Part I: When Legacy Becomes Liability – The Unspoken Rules Behind Shedeur Sandersโ€™ NFL Draft Snub

Part 1: When Youโ€™ve Done Everything Right, But Life Still Feels Wrong

when youโ€™ve done everything right Thereโ€™s a quiet ache that comes when youโ€™ve done your bestโ€ฆYou worked hard,kept your head down, did what you were told.You stayed honest.You took the narrow road.You followed the rules.You stayed out of trouble. You tried to live right โ€” even when no one was watching. You were taught that … Continue reading Part 1: When Youโ€™ve Done Everything Right, But Life Still Feels Wrong

Intro Post to Launch a New Series: When Life Doesnโ€™t Add Up โ€” An Invitation to the Ones Who Tried

when life doesnโ€™t add up You did what they told you to do.You stayed in line.You were responsible.You tried to be good.You worked hard โ€” not just at your job, but at life.At showing up.At holding it all together.At being the person everyone could count on. But quietly, painfully, youโ€™re asking:Why am I still stuck?Why … Continue reading Intro Post to Launch a New Series: When Life Doesnโ€™t Add Up โ€” An Invitation to the Ones Who Tried