My Walk https://videopress.com/v/iwUoOJgG?resizeToParent=true&cover=true&preloadContent=metadata&useAverageColor=true https://videopress.com/v/NoAfemU6?resizeToParent=true&cover=true&preloadContent=metadata&useAverageColor=true Protests against Prop 50 Last Saturday, on my walk, I came across some protesters. I drew near to see what they were protesting about. It was about Prop 50. Of course, there were other issues, but Prop 50 stood out on the placard of many. Have you heard about it or … Continue reading Proposition 50: What California Voters Need to Know in 2025
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When Polarization Shows Up in Society — and in Our Homes
We often hear the word polarizing used to describe public figures — leaders, celebrities, activists — who stir up strong feelings of either admiration or resentment. The truth is that anyone standing up for truth is polarized because s/he is making the other person pause and consider another (or other) aspect(s) of an issue, if … Continue reading When Polarization Shows Up in Society — and in Our Homes
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A very Happy Friday to you all. I hope everyone is doing great. Apologies for being AWOL, but, I’m still alive … segueing into and working on other things at the moment. Will keep you informed. I’m sure you’re all hearing the news … our nation is indeed at a Turning Point. It’s the time … Continue reading Hello WordPress Fam
When the Camera Doesn’t Lie: A Frank Analysis of Andy Byron’s Viral Moment
Andy Byron and Kristin Cabot were caught on Coldplay’s “kiss cam.” Credits: Grace Springer via Storyful What was your reaction on seeing that viral video? I was disgusted. It was supposed to be a fun night out. A Coldplay concert. A kiss cam. A playful tradition. But for former Astronomer CEO Andy Byron and HR head … Continue reading When the Camera Doesn’t Lie: A Frank Analysis of Andy Byron’s Viral Moment
Trading Bricks for the Breeze: Why Some People Choose to Live on Yachts Instead of in Homes
Yachts Parked on The Sea I walk along the beach at least three days a week and meet a lot of people. I also love to strike conversations on various topics with the people. One of such conversations is why they chose to live on their yachts, instead of on land in a home. This … Continue reading Trading Bricks for the Breeze: Why Some People Choose to Live on Yachts Instead of in Homes
Why Our Parents Didn’t Make It Financially Big — And How We Can
Hard Word doesn’t equate Wealth They worked hard. Gave their best. Sacrificed much.Yet, for many of our parents, financial greatness never quite happened. So what held them back? And more importantly — what can we do differently? Let’s unpack it. They Chose Security, Not Scalability Our parents valued safety — and who can blame them? … Continue reading Why Our Parents Didn’t Make It Financially Big — And How We Can
I have been in a comatose (literally!)
https://videopress.com/v/qTeDwcw3?resizeToParent=true&cover=true&preloadContent=metadata&useAverageColor=true I have been sleeping all these years (or was it comatose?) and finally woke up by a word I read. Yes, you got that right - a word! Well, maybe six words which said “died at 39, buried at 70!” It hit home like thunder striking at my heart and fire shot through my … Continue reading I have been in a comatose (literally!)
“Wealth Is a State of Mind” – Napoleon Hill
A lady who works hard but her money does not equate to her hard work “Money does not come to the busy, nor to the needy, nor even the deserving… Wealth is not earned by toil alone. There are millions of men who toil harder than the wealthiest, but who only receive a fraction of … Continue reading “Wealth Is a State of Mind” – Napoleon Hill
Moral Clarity and When Truths Collide: Your Truth, My Truth — Which is Right?
Moral Clarity/Compass Moral Clarity in a Subjective World We are now in an age where moral clarity is seen as offensive — because if I say something is objectively wrong, it implies someone else is objectively wrong too. And that’s uncomfortable. So society often leans toward moral relativism — the belief that morality depends on … Continue reading Moral Clarity and When Truths Collide: Your Truth, My Truth — Which is Right?
Freedom of Religion and the Fight for Moral Clarity in America
America still The Beautiful, Great, and Wonderful America was founded on the bold ideals of liberty, justice, and the inalienable rights of all people. Among those rights, freedom of religion stands tall — enshrined in the First Amendment, protected by law, and deeply tied to the conscience of the nation. But somewhere along the journey … Continue reading Freedom of Religion and the Fight for Moral Clarity in America
America at 249: Still the Land of the Free?
America celebrates Independence Day On this day, July 4th, 2025, we pause to commemorate the birth of a nation — 249 years since thirteen colonies declared independence from British rule. The words of the Declaration of Independence continue to resonate through the generations: “We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created … Continue reading America at 249: Still the Land of the Free?
Part 5: ✈️ Lessons from the Sky: Reflections at 30,000 Feet
Pressure is real either up air in the cabin Cabin Pressure & Emotional Pressure — What’s Holding You Together? Somewhere above the clouds, while sipping lukewarm tea and listening to the hum of the engine, I had a quiet realization: no one here looks like they’re under pressure, but we all are. The plane cabin … Continue reading Part 5: ✈️ Lessons from the Sky: Reflections at 30,000 Feet
Part 4: ✈️ Lessons from the Sky: Reflections at 30,000 Feet
The Quiet Connections of Strangers Passing Strangers & Parallel Lives — The Quiet Connections We Overlook There’s a moment during boarding when you lock eyes with strangers. People trying to find their seats, stowing bags, checking for outlets. You share a nod, a smile, maybe an apology as you shuffle past. And then, for the … Continue reading Part 4: ✈️ Lessons from the Sky: Reflections at 30,000 Feet
Part 3: ✈️ Lessons from the Sky: Reflections at 30,000 Feet
Everyone’s Going Somewhere … But Are We Headed in the Right Direction? Sitting in the cabin of a plane, looking at the sea of passengers ahead and behind, I’m struck by a quiet truth: we’re all in motion. We’re all going somewhere. But motion isn’t the same as direction. And direction isn’t the same as … Continue reading Part 3: ✈️ Lessons from the Sky: Reflections at 30,000 Feet
Part 2: ✈️ Lessons from the Sky: Reflections at 30,000 Feet
Of Layovers, Delays & Detours — When Life Doesn’t Go According to Plan You know that sigh you let out when you hear the announcement:“Ladies and gentlemen, your flight has been delayed…”Or worse: “We’re being rerouted due to weather.” Nobody claps. Nobody celebrates. Because we love control. We love certainty. We want smooth, predictable journeys … Continue reading Part 2: ✈️ Lessons from the Sky: Reflections at 30,000 Feet
“So You Think You’re Ready …”
eBook Cover I’m passionate about many things, particularly, marriage, family, and relationships. I’ve blogged tons about it and have been working on a book to share my experiences. The book is taking much longer than anticipated, but this eBook marks the first step. If we all “prepared” for marriage, I’m sure there’d be fewer divorces, … Continue reading “So You Think You’re Ready …”
Part 1: What Being in the Air Taught Me About Life on the Ground … ✈️ Lessons from the Sky: Reflections at 30,000 Feet
Soaring between the clouds, problems look smaller There’s something surreal about being suspended in the air —thousands of feet above the earth, watching the clouds float by like cotton dreams. In that quiet space between departure and arrival, time seems to pause, and the soul begins to whisper. The stress of planning and getting ready … Continue reading Part 1: What Being in the Air Taught Me About Life on the Ground … ✈️ Lessons from the Sky: Reflections at 30,000 Feet
Intro: ✈️ Lessons from the Sky — Reflections at 30,000 Feet
A lady in a window seat of an airplane Sometimes, we need to leave the ground to see things clearly. Life doesn’t always make sense when you’re in it. But every now and then, God gives you altitude—space, silence, and stillness—to gain perspective. Another trip, found me 30,000 feet above ground, sitting in a window … Continue reading Intro: ✈️ Lessons from the Sky — Reflections at 30,000 Feet
What a Series! What a Game 7!!
Thunder Win First Title Of OKC Era - View now in the NBA App - https://nba.shar.estori.es/go/9386b006-762b-8cf4-536a-3a1a9eb372ee/f15336b7-6124-de44-5a4a-3a1aacc5b71d Congratulations to the Oklahoma City Thunder on winning the franchise's first ever championship. What the trio of KD, RW, and JH couldn't fulfill during their time, the young trio of SGA, JW, and CH got done in 2025. The … Continue reading What a Series! What a Game 7!!
Gratitude: A Gentle Power That Transforms
Are you one who pauses to acknowledge all that God has done and is doing in your life? Great, if you are. But, if you’re not, it’s not too late to get started. Praising God when life is good doesn’t take much effort. But, when you can complain about everything and the broken kitchen sink, … Continue reading Gratitude: A Gentle Power That Transforms
To All Fathers In The WordPress Community
Happy Father’s Day
Happy Birthday to Me
Yet another year - the second anniversary of my 60th. 60 has never been so good. With the “No King” protests all over the nation, my day was very quiet. I hope your neighborhood wasn’t so chaotic. Grateful yet again for my life: Thank You, Father God for all the good You made come my … Continue reading Happy Birthday to Me
Series Title: When Life Doesn’t Add Up: Part 3: When Playing It Safe Becomes Playing Small
You didn’t want to fail.You didn’t want to disappoint anyone.So you stayed where it was safe — in the role you knew, the lane you understood, the space that felt predictable. You told yourself, “I’m just being wise.”But deep down, something else was at play: fear. The fear of looking foolish.The fear of wasting time.The … Continue reading Series Title: When Life Doesn’t Add Up: Part 3: When Playing It Safe Becomes Playing Small
The Pink Full Moon
I read about the pink full moon last week but totally forgot about it today. Driving on a bridge, I couldn't resist stopping to take the shot - it was so pretty. Thank goodness no cars were coning. I must have caught it towards the tail end of its pink 🤪 It did look pinkier … Continue reading The Pink Full Moon
Work Hard or Work Smart: Which would you rather do?
Work Hard vs Work Smart Great question — and the short answer is: the ideal is to work both hard and smart. You don’t have to choose one over the other. But understanding the difference between them helps you maximize your time, energy, and results. 🔍 What’s the Difference? 🛠️ Working Hard Means putting in … Continue reading Work Hard or Work Smart: Which would you rather do?
Ten (10) Years Seems Just Like Yesterday
A few photos of Dad June is my birth month and I look forward to it every year. However, it’s also the month that our Dad left this world, and our brother barely three weeks after. Today marks the 10th year. A Decade Without You, Daddy Dearest, Yet Forever With Us: A Tribute to Our … Continue reading Ten (10) Years Seems Just Like Yesterday
There Are No Perfect Parents or Families
There’s none that’s perfect: none, and an emblem canceling the perfect inscription We all begin our lives with a limited lens. We grow up thinking our family is the standard. As children, we see our parents and families as the entire world. Our parents are either everything or, for some, not enough. That their way … Continue reading There Are No Perfect Parents or Families
A Parent’s Anguish: When Adult Siblings Stop Speaking to Each Other
A parent in the middle of adult siblings squabbling There are few things more heart-wrenching for a parent, especially a mother, than watching their children—once close, bonded by shared memories, secrets, and laughter—drift apart or worse, become estranged. When adult siblings stop speaking to one another, it doesn’t just affect them; it pierces the parent’s … Continue reading A Parent’s Anguish: When Adult Siblings Stop Speaking to Each Other
Happy 🌺 Memorial Day: A Reflection
A military salute to those who never came back home Memorial Day isn’t just about backyard barbecues, store sales, or kicking off summer—it’s a sacred moment in the American calendar. It’s the day we hit pause to honor those who laid down their lives in service to the country. Soldiers, sailors, airmen, and marines who … Continue reading Happy 🌺 Memorial Day: A Reflection
Mental Wellness for Families: Building a Home That Heals, Not Hurts
Mentally Aware Happy families Welcome to the Family Wellness Series—a heartfelt journey into creating mentally and emotionally healthy homes. Whether you’re a parent, caregiver, spouse, or sibling, these posts are designed to help you foster connection, heal wounds, and build a legacy of love and stability. Because when the home is whole, everyone inside it … Continue reading Mental Wellness for Families: Building a Home That Heals, Not Hurts
Mental Wellness for Couples: Strengthening Love from the Inside Out
Mental health awareness The month of May is almost over. But do you remember that it is the Mental Health Awareness Month? Or did you, like me, almost or totally forgot? Though we’re nearing the end of it, there’s never a bad time to talk about the one thing that affects every part of our … Continue reading Mental Wellness for Couples: Strengthening Love from the Inside Out
Promiscuity: Understanding the Causes and Finding Healing
A life basket containing possible causes of Promiscuity Why are some people promiscuous? You might know someone who is and, I hope like I do, you wonder why they are so. This is definitely not about judging but to deep dive into the why - is it biological, a disease, self-inflicted, or what? Promiscuity—defined as … Continue reading Promiscuity: Understanding the Causes and Finding Healing
Happy Mother’s Day
Bunch of Pink Roses for Mom She is Still My Mother She is still my motherThough the world has changed its pace,She walked with grace, unhurried,In faith’s quiet embrace. She knew hunger but fed others,Knew silence yet raised her voice,Knew struggle but bore laughter,As if it were her choice. With hands that held the heavensWhen … Continue reading Happy Mother’s Day
Part 2: The Quiet Grief of an Unlived Life
Downloadable version of post Because sometimes, what hurts most is not what we lost — but what we never allowed ourselves to live. It’s not always the loud tragedies that break us.Sometimes, it’s the slow ache.The quiet realization that life — the one you were supposed to have — didn’t quite happen. You smile. You … Continue reading Part 2: The Quiet Grief of an Unlived Life
What a Series!
Warriors Advance To Conference Semifinals - View now in the NBA App - https://nba.shar.estori.es/go/e800b787-56b9-0af6-7693-3a19abc648ff/481e7f4a-b244-5a13-9719-3a19b0b17113 A fierce battle. But Congratulations are in order for the Golden State Warriors on advancing to the second round of the Season's Playoffs. They showed supremacy, talent, and class on a hostile Houston ground. I didn't think the #7Warriors-#2Houston 1st Round … Continue reading What a Series!
Boldness Is a Superpower – God’s Gift, Not Arrogance
A lion staring Boldness is not simply a character trait—it is a spiritual gift and divine superpower. 2 Timothy 1:7 reminds us, “For God has not given us the spirit of fear, but of power, and of love, and of a sound mind.” Yet, in a world that often glorifies silence or false humility, boldness … Continue reading Boldness Is a Superpower – God’s Gift, Not Arrogance
Orange and Yellow Hibiscus
Part 2: Should the son be slighted because of the father?
Credits: People Credits: Fox News Deion and Shedeur Sanders This is the question posed regarding the recent Shedeur Sanders’ NFL Draft issue. Read Part 1 to better understand this post. In a hyper-competitive and image-sensitive world, things aren’t always fair. From a fairness standpoint: absolutely not: a son should not be slighted because of the … Continue reading Part 2: Should the son be slighted because of the father?
Part I: When Legacy Becomes Liability – The Unspoken Rules Behind Shedeur Sanders’ NFL Draft Snub
Shedeur Sanders. Credits: Yahoo Sports: “This one is personal. I’m not an avid football fan per se - only watching when it gets to playoffs and championships. However, this year’s draft being in the news after the end of Round 1, got me curious as the whole process unfolded. I couldn’t shake what it revealed … Continue reading Part I: When Legacy Becomes Liability – The Unspoken Rules Behind Shedeur Sanders’ NFL Draft Snub
Part 1: When You’ve Done Everything Right, But Life Still Feels Wrong
when you’ve done everything right There’s a quiet ache that comes when you’ve done your best…You worked hard,kept your head down, did what you were told.You stayed honest.You took the narrow road.You followed the rules.You stayed out of trouble. You tried to live right — even when no one was watching. You were taught that … Continue reading Part 1: When You’ve Done Everything Right, But Life Still Feels Wrong
Intro Post to Launch a New Series: When Life Doesn’t Add Up — An Invitation to the Ones Who Tried
when life doesn’t add up You did what they told you to do.You stayed in line.You were responsible.You tried to be good.You worked hard — not just at your job, but at life.At showing up.At holding it all together.At being the person everyone could count on. But quietly, painfully, you’re asking:Why am I still stuck?Why … Continue reading Intro Post to Launch a New Series: When Life Doesn’t Add Up — An Invitation to the Ones Who Tried
Who’s got my acorn?
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Is Truth Absolute or Subjective? The Battle Between “My Truth” and “The Truth”
your experience is real, but it is not always the truth in a universal sense. We live in an era where phrases like “Speak your truth” or “That’s just my truth” are thrown around with ease and applause. On the surface, these words sound empowering — liberating, even. But when you dig a little deeper, … Continue reading Is Truth Absolute or Subjective? The Battle Between “My Truth” and “The Truth”
When Sponsorships Overshadow Salaries: The Ethics of Corporate Priorities
A soccer team sponsorship In recent years, we’ve seen a massive surge in corporate sponsorships — especially from platform -based, tech and fintech companies. From high-profile sports events and e-sports tournaments to music festivals and influencer partnerships, these companies are investing heavily to stay visible and relevant in the public eye. But there’s a growing … Continue reading When Sponsorships Overshadow Salaries: The Ethics of Corporate Priorities
2025 NBA Playoffs starts Tomorrow
Credits: NBA - Playoff Schedule What a season! 2024/25 NBA Season was indeed a season. Much happened quickly that I couldn’t keep pace with. But, now, it’s Playoff Time. Teams contended to this point and will continue to do so as it kicks off tomorrow. Which Team takes home The coveted Larry O’Brien Cup? Switch … Continue reading 2025 NBA Playoffs starts Tomorrow
The Paradox of Being a First-Born Child: A Blessing and a Burden
“First of My Kind” I was the first, the opening line, A chapter written before the ink was dry. Their love was fresh, their hands unsure, I learned the rules, then watched them blur. I wore the crown of oldest child, But bore a weight that never smiled. Expected much, forgiven less, The test run … Continue reading The Paradox of Being a First-Born Child: A Blessing and a Burden
The Irony of Doctors and Medications: When Healing Feels Like a Trap
I met a 29-year-old man recently who, through a weary sigh, told me he’s been trying to convince his doctors to take him off his medications — but they won’t. They either change the medication, raise the dose, or recommend adding a new one. It’s a frustrating cycle. He feels stuck. Powerless. Like his life … Continue reading The Irony of Doctors and Medications: When Healing Feels Like a Trap
Why are we unawares?
It’s a really good question. The Acura Grand Prix is happening now and all weekend in Long Beach, California. The Acura Grand Prix is indeed a big deal, yet surprisingly not all residents are aware of it. I wonder why how it is not uncommon for people to miss out on major events happening right … Continue reading Why are we unawares?
The President’s Words
Do the President’s words hold economic power? Absolutely.When a single statement can tank or revive the stock market, it’s clear the President’s voice carries more than opinion — it carries weight. Explore how language, tone, and perception play into global confidence, and why the U.S. President’s microphone might be the most powerful in the world. … Continue reading The President’s Words
Let there be Eggs …
Abundance of Eggs Costco having these many eggs, both pasture-raised and cage-free, still on their shelf at noon, is a sign that the egg shortage is over. Don’t mind the sign that still reads “Limit 3 Eggs.” During the rationing period, Costco would have sold out of eggs by noon. If Costco has these many, … Continue reading Let there be Eggs …
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