Downloadable version of post Because sometimes, what hurts most is not what we lost — but what we never allowed ourselves to live. It’s not always the loud tragedies that break us.Sometimes, it’s the slow ache.The quiet realization that life — the one you were supposed to have — didn’t quite happen. You smile. You … Continue reading Part 2: The Quiet Grief of an Unlived Life
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Part 3: Polyamorous Men: Why Do Men Have Tons of Children?
A man surrounded by his children This is the third in this Series. We’re talking about men and their multiple relationships, especially in marriages, and the women who aide them. We acknowledge that it’s an age-long issue. But, should we allow it to remain forever? Jump in and let’s have a conversation to understand all … Continue reading Part 3: Polyamorous Men: Why Do Men Have Tons of Children?
American Citizenship for Sale to the Highest Bidders
US Citizenship For Sale President Donald Trump recently unveiled a proposal introducing a “gold card” visa program, that offers a pathway to U.S. citizenship for a $5 million investment. This initiative aims to replace the existing EB-5 Immigrant Investor Program, which currently requires a minimum investment of $1,000,000 in a U.S. business that creates at … Continue reading American Citizenship for Sale to the Highest Bidders
Becoming: The Key to Attracting What You Desire
Become your Authentic Self In a world obsessed with chasing success, love, wealth, and happiness, few realize that becoming is more powerful than pursuing. Rather than desperately running after things, true fulfillment often comes when we become the kind of person who naturally attracts those things. Whether it’s achieving success, finding love, or gaining respect, … Continue reading Becoming: The Key to Attracting What You Desire
Trump, another man?
Photo of Donald Trump on Election Night Trump and Biden both call for smooth transition in historic Oval Office meeting - ABC News President-Elect Donald Trump just visited the White House at the invitation of outgoing President Joe Biden. Click on the above link to watch. As I watched the event and Trump’s speech, I … Continue reading Trump, another man?
Are you a Disruptor and a Divisor?
Do you know that boldly speaking out about issues—especially controversial ones—can indeed lead some to view you as “divisive” and “disruptive,” but this doesn’t necessarily make you divisive in a negative sense. Yes, being divisive and disruptive can absolutely be positive, especially when the goal is to inspire change, shed light on important issues, or … Continue reading Are you a Disruptor and a Divisor?
Stability in Governance: A Case To Change the Four-Year Term
The regular four-year election cycle in the United States 🇺🇸, and most countries of the world, often leads to a cycle of policy shifts as new presidents undo the work of their predecessors. This creates a stop-start dynamic that can be destabilizing for the country. While the current system provides checks and balances through term … Continue reading Stability in Governance: A Case To Change the Four-Year Term
Equity with Kindness
https://youtu.be/fXAlfh6QKQs?feature=shared Credits: YouTube Reelblack OneStevie Wonder and Paul Macartney’s Song was so apropos in 1982 as it is in 2024; 40+ years after. Treating each other equitably and with kindness is the foundation of a more harmonious and just society. Nobody wants to be on the receiving end of negativity, especially when it comes in … Continue reading Equity with Kindness
Inglewood, CA: Fast Becoming “The City That Never Sleeps”
The City of Inglewood, once known primarily for its residential neighborhoods and proximity to Los Angeles, has rapidly transformed into a vibrant entertainment and economic hub. Earning the City of Angels its new reputation as “The City That Never Sleeps.” The latest addition of the Intuit Dome, new home of the Los Angeles Clippers, complements Inglewood’s … Continue reading Inglewood, CA: Fast Becoming “The City That Never Sleeps”
Relocating from a Higher Cost of Living Area to a Lower One: California vs. Texas or Ohio
I visited Texas (Austin and Houston) this past weekend. It’s not my first time in Texas or these cities. But the first time that I actually paid some attention! The food was different (southern) and portions were big. I chose not to visit any food franchise available in California. Speeding is highly frowned upon with … Continue reading Relocating from a Higher Cost of Living Area to a Lower One: California vs. Texas or Ohio
Nigeria at 64
Nigeria celebrated its independence from Britain yesterday, October 1st. https://youtu.be/EaM9CIf-oiA?feature=shared Music made about Nigeria 40 years ago still apropos today. Credits: YouTube/Lawal At 64 years of independence, Nigeria finds itself at a critical juncture, still grappling with challenges that have impeded its full development. As the largest economy in Africa and with a rich cultural … Continue reading Nigeria at 64
Choices
People with “Choice” Signs You have a Choice. I have a Choice. We all have Choices. We need to remind ourselves that we are never boxed in or locked up in any unfavorable situation or circumstance. None should ever say or feel that they never have a Choice. It is a matter of whether you … Continue reading Choices
Can People Really Change?
Do you think people can really change? Like really make an effort to change who they are, wipe clean the mistakes they made and become a better …Can People Really Change? . . . Happy New Year 2021 once again my people. I pray the very best of the year, that will compensate for the … Continue reading Can People Really Change?
Are you a People Pleaser?
Credits: Vanessa Van Edwards Are you a people pleaser and would rather please everyone rather than yourself or God? Are you afraid to say ‘NO?’ Are you “too nice or too agreeable?” Do you allow everyone to walk all over you? “Are you desperate to gain other people’s approval while neglecting your own needs?” If … Continue reading Are you a People Pleaser?
Real Talk with Kirk Franklin
http://www.youtube.com/playlist I didn't want to blog today, but couldn't resist sharing this because it's church-day Sunday. And though not all houses of worship are opened, we can still do church in our homes. The video just popped up on my phone. . . .Change and issues begin with dialogue/conversation. What does one do when the … Continue reading Real Talk with Kirk Franklin
Can The U.S. Police Change?
Photo by Jacoby Clarke from Pexels The Police’s primary responsibility (officers and departments), in any country, is the prevention and detection of crime, maintaining law and order, and safety of its citizens. The former duties (i.e., prevention and detection of crimes) are, in my opinion, implicitly clear though this duty is now relegated because “The Police” are busy … Continue reading Can The U.S. Police Change?
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