A very Happy Friday to you all. I hope everyone is doing great. Apologies for being AWOL, but, I’m still alive … segueing into and working on other things at the moment. Will keep you informed. I’m sure you’re all hearing the news … our nation is indeed at a Turning Point. It’s the time … Continue reading Hello WordPress Fam
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When the Camera Doesn’t Lie: A Frank Analysis of Andy Byron’s Viral Moment
Andy Byron and Kristin Cabot were caught on Coldplay’s “kiss cam.” Credits: Grace Springer via Storyful What was your reaction on seeing that viral video? I was disgusted. It was supposed to be a fun night out. A Coldplay concert. A kiss cam. A playful tradition. But for former Astronomer CEO Andy Byron and HR head … Continue reading When the Camera Doesn’t Lie: A Frank Analysis of Andy Byron’s Viral Moment
The Spirit of Haman: How the Ancient Story of Esther Still Speaks Today
https://videopress.com/v/Z1jyv3c6?resizeToParent=true&cover=true&preloadContent=metadata&useAverageColor=true The story of Haman in the Book of Esther is more than just an ancient tale of palace intrigue—it’s a timeless reminder of the dangers of unchecked ego, misplaced power, and hidden agendas. Though he lived in the Persian Empire over two thousand years ago, Haman’s spirit lives on. In churches, workplaces, families, and … Continue reading The Spirit of Haman: How the Ancient Story of Esther Still Speaks Today
“Wealth Is a State of Mind” – Napoleon Hill
A lady who works hard but her money does not equate to her hard work “Money does not come to the busy, nor to the needy, nor even the deserving… Wealth is not earned by toil alone. There are millions of men who toil harder than the wealthiest, but who only receive a fraction of … Continue reading “Wealth Is a State of Mind” – Napoleon Hill
Moral Clarity and When Truths Collide: Your Truth, My Truth — Which is Right?
Moral Clarity/Compass Moral Clarity in a Subjective World We are now in an age where moral clarity is seen as offensive — because if I say something is objectively wrong, it implies someone else is objectively wrong too. And that’s uncomfortable. So society often leans toward moral relativism — the belief that morality depends on … Continue reading Moral Clarity and When Truths Collide: Your Truth, My Truth — Which is Right?
Part 5: ✈️ Lessons from the Sky: Reflections at 30,000 Feet
Pressure is real either up air in the cabin Cabin Pressure & Emotional Pressure — What’s Holding You Together? Somewhere above the clouds, while sipping lukewarm tea and listening to the hum of the engine, I had a quiet realization: no one here looks like they’re under pressure, but we all are. The plane cabin … Continue reading Part 5: ✈️ Lessons from the Sky: Reflections at 30,000 Feet
Part 4: ✈️ Lessons from the Sky: Reflections at 30,000 Feet
The Quiet Connections of Strangers Passing Strangers & Parallel Lives — The Quiet Connections We Overlook There’s a moment during boarding when you lock eyes with strangers. People trying to find their seats, stowing bags, checking for outlets. You share a nod, a smile, maybe an apology as you shuffle past. And then, for the … Continue reading Part 4: ✈️ Lessons from the Sky: Reflections at 30,000 Feet
Part 3: ✈️ Lessons from the Sky: Reflections at 30,000 Feet
Everyone’s Going Somewhere … But Are We Headed in the Right Direction? Sitting in the cabin of a plane, looking at the sea of passengers ahead and behind, I’m struck by a quiet truth: we’re all in motion. We’re all going somewhere. But motion isn’t the same as direction. And direction isn’t the same as … Continue reading Part 3: ✈️ Lessons from the Sky: Reflections at 30,000 Feet
Part 2: ✈️ Lessons from the Sky: Reflections at 30,000 Feet
Of Layovers, Delays & Detours — When Life Doesn’t Go According to Plan You know that sigh you let out when you hear the announcement:“Ladies and gentlemen, your flight has been delayed…”Or worse: “We’re being rerouted due to weather.” Nobody claps. Nobody celebrates. Because we love control. We love certainty. We want smooth, predictable journeys … Continue reading Part 2: ✈️ Lessons from the Sky: Reflections at 30,000 Feet
Part 1: What Being in the Air Taught Me About Life on the Ground … ✈️ Lessons from the Sky: Reflections at 30,000 Feet
Soaring between the clouds, problems look smaller There’s something surreal about being suspended in the air —thousands of feet above the earth, watching the clouds float by like cotton dreams. In that quiet space between departure and arrival, time seems to pause, and the soul begins to whisper. The stress of planning and getting ready … Continue reading Part 1: What Being in the Air Taught Me About Life on the Ground … ✈️ Lessons from the Sky: Reflections at 30,000 Feet
Intro: ✈️ Lessons from the Sky — Reflections at 30,000 Feet
A lady in a window seat of an airplane Sometimes, we need to leave the ground to see things clearly. Life doesn’t always make sense when you’re in it. But every now and then, God gives you altitude—space, silence, and stillness—to gain perspective. Another trip, found me 30,000 feet above ground, sitting in a window … Continue reading Intro: ✈️ Lessons from the Sky — Reflections at 30,000 Feet
A Man’s Enemy Is Within His Household: Understanding Matthew 10:36
Things that can cause enmity “A man’s enemies will be the members of his own household.”— Matthew 10:36 (NIV) The above scripture, on which this post is based, is a piercing truth — one that stings more deeply than betrayal from a stranger ever could. It’s one thing to face opposition from the world, but … Continue reading A Man’s Enemy Is Within His Household: Understanding Matthew 10:36
Happy Birthday to Me
Yet another year - the second anniversary of my 60th. 60 has never been so good. With the “No King” protests all over the nation, my day was very quiet. I hope your neighborhood wasn’t so chaotic. Grateful yet again for my life: Thank You, Father God for all the good You made come my … Continue reading Happy Birthday to Me
Series Title: When Life Doesn’t Add Up: Part 3: When Playing It Safe Becomes Playing Small
You didn’t want to fail.You didn’t want to disappoint anyone.So you stayed where it was safe — in the role you knew, the lane you understood, the space that felt predictable. You told yourself, “I’m just being wise.”But deep down, something else was at play: fear. The fear of looking foolish.The fear of wasting time.The … Continue reading Series Title: When Life Doesn’t Add Up: Part 3: When Playing It Safe Becomes Playing Small
When the Enemy Came to Visit
A man paying an unexpected visit to a lady I wasn’t expecting anyone that day. The sky was overcast, the kind of gray that makes you want to curl up in a blanket with a good book and pretend the world outside doesn’t exist. But the knock on the door was loud—intentional. Not the kind … Continue reading When the Enemy Came to Visit
Work Hard or Work Smart: Which would you rather do?
Work Hard vs Work Smart Great question — and the short answer is: the ideal is to work both hard and smart. You don’t have to choose one over the other. But understanding the difference between them helps you maximize your time, energy, and results. 🔍 What’s the Difference? 🛠️ Working Hard Means putting in … Continue reading Work Hard or Work Smart: Which would you rather do?
When God Doesn’t Act Swiftly When We Need Him To: Understanding Divine Delay in the Face of Wickedness
A Reminder that Delay is not Denial There’s a moment most believers experience—watching wickedness thrive while righteousness suffers—and wondering, “God, where are You?” Why does it seem that evil gets a free pass while justice is delayed? Why doesn’t God strike down wrongdoers right when we need Him to? These are deeply human questions. Even … Continue reading When God Doesn’t Act Swiftly When We Need Him To: Understanding Divine Delay in the Face of Wickedness
There Are No Perfect Parents or Families
There’s none that’s perfect: none, and an emblem canceling the perfect inscription We all begin our lives with a limited lens. We grow up thinking our family is the standard. As children, we see our parents and families as the entire world. Our parents are either everything or, for some, not enough. That their way … Continue reading There Are No Perfect Parents or Families
A Parent’s Anguish: When Adult Siblings Stop Speaking to Each Other
A parent in the middle of adult siblings squabbling There are few things more heart-wrenching for a parent, especially a mother, than watching their children—once close, bonded by shared memories, secrets, and laughter—drift apart or worse, become estranged. When adult siblings stop speaking to one another, it doesn’t just affect them; it pierces the parent’s … Continue reading A Parent’s Anguish: When Adult Siblings Stop Speaking to Each Other
Mental Wellness for Families: Building a Home That Heals, Not Hurts
Mentally Aware Happy families Welcome to the Family Wellness Series—a heartfelt journey into creating mentally and emotionally healthy homes. Whether you’re a parent, caregiver, spouse, or sibling, these posts are designed to help you foster connection, heal wounds, and build a legacy of love and stability. Because when the home is whole, everyone inside it … Continue reading Mental Wellness for Families: Building a Home That Heals, Not Hurts
Satan’s Snares – How the Enemy Traps the Uninformed and Ignorant
Satan cages his victims with snares In today’s world, full of voices, choices, and distractions, many are unknowingly stepping into traps laid by the enemy. The Bible warns us that Satan is cunning, relentless, and strategic. He doesn’t waste time setting traps for those who are alert and armed—he targets those who are uninformed, careless, … Continue reading Satan’s Snares – How the Enemy Traps the Uninformed and Ignorant
Part 2: The Quiet Grief of an Unlived Life
Downloadable version of post Because sometimes, what hurts most is not what we lost — but what we never allowed ourselves to live. It’s not always the loud tragedies that break us.Sometimes, it’s the slow ache.The quiet realization that life — the one you were supposed to have — didn’t quite happen. You smile. You … Continue reading Part 2: The Quiet Grief of an Unlived Life
Part 2: Should the son be slighted because of the father?
Credits: People Credits: Fox News Deion and Shedeur Sanders This is the question posed regarding the recent Shedeur Sanders’ NFL Draft issue. Read Part 1 to better understand this post. In a hyper-competitive and image-sensitive world, things aren’t always fair. From a fairness standpoint: absolutely not: a son should not be slighted because of the … Continue reading Part 2: Should the son be slighted because of the father?
Part I: When Legacy Becomes Liability – The Unspoken Rules Behind Shedeur Sanders’ NFL Draft Snub
Shedeur Sanders. Credits: Yahoo Sports: “This one is personal. I’m not an avid football fan per se - only watching when it gets to playoffs and championships. However, this year’s draft being in the news after the end of Round 1, got me curious as the whole process unfolded. I couldn’t shake what it revealed … Continue reading Part I: When Legacy Becomes Liability – The Unspoken Rules Behind Shedeur Sanders’ NFL Draft Snub
Part 1: When You’ve Done Everything Right, But Life Still Feels Wrong
when you’ve done everything right There’s a quiet ache that comes when you’ve done your best…You worked hard,kept your head down, did what you were told.You stayed honest.You took the narrow road.You followed the rules.You stayed out of trouble. You tried to live right — even when no one was watching. You were taught that … Continue reading Part 1: When You’ve Done Everything Right, But Life Still Feels Wrong
Intro Post to Launch a New Series: When Life Doesn’t Add Up — An Invitation to the Ones Who Tried
when life doesn’t add up You did what they told you to do.You stayed in line.You were responsible.You tried to be good.You worked hard — not just at your job, but at life.At showing up.At holding it all together.At being the person everyone could count on. But quietly, painfully, you’re asking:Why am I still stuck?Why … Continue reading Intro Post to Launch a New Series: When Life Doesn’t Add Up — An Invitation to the Ones Who Tried
Is Truth Absolute or Subjective? The Battle Between “My Truth” and “The Truth”
your experience is real, but it is not always the truth in a universal sense. We live in an era where phrases like “Speak your truth” or “That’s just my truth” are thrown around with ease and applause. On the surface, these words sound empowering — liberating, even. But when you dig a little deeper, … Continue reading Is Truth Absolute or Subjective? The Battle Between “My Truth” and “The Truth”
The Paradox of Being a First-Born Child: A Blessing and a Burden
“First of My Kind” I was the first, the opening line, A chapter written before the ink was dry. Their love was fresh, their hands unsure, I learned the rules, then watched them blur. I wore the crown of oldest child, But bore a weight that never smiled. Expected much, forgiven less, The test run … Continue reading The Paradox of Being a First-Born Child: A Blessing and a Burden
Acura Grand Prix is happening in Long Beach
Flags of contestants It’s the 50th Anniversary of the world-class, and America’s #1 Street, Race. Packed with fun activities for the weekend. Free tickets (valued at $44) are also available for today for Long Beach residents. Here’s the weekend schedule Weekend schedule For more details, download their app or check the event website. I’ve always … Continue reading Acura Grand Prix is happening in Long Beach
Have Church Leaders Failed God’s People—Or Are We Looking in the Wrong Direction?
Follow me as I follow Christ In recent years, the veil has been lifted on some disturbing truths within the Church. Stories of secret sins, financial manipulation, sexual abuse, and toxic leadership — once whispered rumors — are now headlines. The very shepherds entrusted to tend God’s flock have sometimes become wolves in disguise. And … Continue reading Have Church Leaders Failed God’s People—Or Are We Looking in the Wrong Direction?
Let there be Eggs.
Different Types of Eggs. Egg prices rose to $14 for a dozen in some areas of Southern California; not sure what egg prices are nationwide. Eggs in my neighborhood used to cost $2.99 to $7.99; depending on the type of eggs you buy (white, brown, pasture-raised, free range, etc.) and where you shop for your … Continue reading Let there be Eggs.
Spring Clean Your Relationship: A Fresh Start for Love
Ways to spring-clean your relationship As winter fades and spring emerges, there’s a collective urge to declutter, refresh, and start anew. Just as we deep-clean our homes and clear out the dust of the past season, our relationships also deserve a reset. Today, March 20, is the arrival of spring and marks not only a … Continue reading Spring Clean Your Relationship: A Fresh Start for Love
Polyamory and Polygamy: A Disrespect to the Women Involved
In recent years, polyamory and polygamy have gained attention as alternative relationship structures. Some argue that these practices offer freedom, personal fulfillment, and unconventional expressions of love. However, beneath the surface, these arrangements often reveal a stark reality: they thrive at the expense of the women involved. A man cannot engage in multiple relationships unless … Continue reading Polyamory and Polygamy: A Disrespect to the Women Involved
Walking with God: Understanding the Stages of Faith
“Now faith is the substance of things hoped for, the evidence of things not seen.”Hebrews 11:1 KJV Many believers start their walk with God full of excitement and wonder, experiencing immediate answers to prayer and feeling His presence so strongly. But as time goes on, they notice things begin to change—prayers aren’t answered as quickly, … Continue reading Walking with God: Understanding the Stages of Faith
Timely Rainbow
A photo of a rainbow taken on Wednesday, March 12, 2025 at 4:44 PM Growing up, we always got excited when the rainbow appears in the sky. As kids, we would say prayers when one appears. Looking back, those prayers were what I now termed as silly prayers; like, we hope the airplanes would arrive … Continue reading Timely Rainbow
Empowering Women in Relationships:
The month of March has been declared Women’s Month. What better month to serve as a reminder to talk/write about empowering women in every aspect of life: in business, marriage/family, work space, education, politics, governance, STEAM, etc. This post is however about empowering women in relationships, especially in marriage. Empowerment in relationships isn’t about control … Continue reading Empowering Women in Relationships:
Satan Fights Potential Power Couples the Fiercest: The Outcome depends on Who’s in Your Inner Circle?
Power couples and the terms that define them Power Couples Who are Power Couples? We all know them, but probably don’t address them as such. They are two individuals who are both very successful or influential in their own right, and together, they create a dynamic duo that has an even greater impact. They’re often … Continue reading Satan Fights Potential Power Couples the Fiercest: The Outcome depends on Who’s in Your Inner Circle?
Part 3: Polyamorous Men: Why Do Men Have Tons of Children?
A man surrounded by his children This is the third in this Series. We’re talking about men and their multiple relationships, especially in marriages, and the women who aide them. We acknowledge that it’s an age-long issue. But, should we allow it to remain forever? Jump in and let’s have a conversation to understand all … Continue reading Part 3: Polyamorous Men: Why Do Men Have Tons of Children?
Part 2: Polyamorous Men: Why Do Men Sexually Desire Multiple Women in Relationships and Marriage
This is the second in this Series. We’re talking about men and their multiple amorous relationships, especially in marriage, and the women who aide them. Jump in and let’s have a conversation to understand all points of view. In Part 1, we discussed whether men were naturally wired polyamorous. We looked at the various factors … Continue reading Part 2: Polyamorous Men: Why Do Men Sexually Desire Multiple Women in Relationships and Marriage
A Series: Are men naturally wired polyamorous?
An illustration of a man surrounded by several different women, each with unique appearances and expressions. This is a three-part Series (could be more) delving into men, their multiple relationships, and the women who aide them. Polyamorous by Nature? The question of whether men are naturally wired to be polyamorous is a complex one, involving … Continue reading A Series: Are men naturally wired polyamorous?
Your Bank Mistakenly Deposits a Large Sum Into Your Account: Now What?
An unexpected windfall from yourbank Imagine checking your bank account and suddenly seeing trillions—or even just millions—mistakenly deposited. It sounds like a dream come true, but in reality, it can quickly turn into a legal and financial nightmare if handled incorrectly. Chase Bank recently made headlines after mistakenly depositing over $2 trillion into a customer’s … Continue reading Your Bank Mistakenly Deposits a Large Sum Into Your Account: Now What?
Of Prophets and Their Prophetic Words
An illustration of a prophet delivering a prophetic word, surrounded by divine light and a captivated audience. Do you know what a prophetic word is? Have you ever received one (or more) and do you know what to do with it? “… the one who prophesies edifies the church.”1 Corinthians 14:4 NIV What, in the … Continue reading Of Prophets and Their Prophetic Words
Becoming: The Key to Attracting What You Desire
Become your Authentic Self In a world obsessed with chasing success, love, wealth, and happiness, few realize that becoming is more powerful than pursuing. Rather than desperately running after things, true fulfillment often comes when we become the kind of person who naturally attracts those things. Whether it’s achieving success, finding love, or gaining respect, … Continue reading Becoming: The Key to Attracting What You Desire
The Power of Choice: Why Choosing Wisely Whom You Marry Is Essential
How do you know who it’s going to be? Marriage is one of the most significant decisions anyone can make. It is not merely a social contract or a romantic endeavor; it is a life-altering commitment that can either elevate your existence or become a source of profound sorrow. The adage, “Divorce is evil so … Continue reading The Power of Choice: Why Choosing Wisely Whom You Marry Is Essential
Photos from the Debut Art Show
In the art world, anything and everything makes for art! All is well in love and peace, including Art Shows; especially when it is your daughter’s very first. It makes it extra specially in love and peace and joy. I can’t say how proud I am of this resilient young lady who is a chip … Continue reading Photos from the Debut Art Show
The Hierarchy of Honoring People in Your Life
A framework for Honor Do you have a framework for honoring people in your life? If not, I’ll offer you one and you let me know your thoughts on it. The Bible says, “Honor the Lord with your wealth, with the firstfruits of all your crops;”Proverbs 3:9 NIV And Jesus said: “honor your father and … Continue reading The Hierarchy of Honoring People in Your Life
Happy Friday Photos
Hello all, hope your day is going great. It’s Friday and while some still will be grinding, others have put in their 40 hours (or more) and are looking forward to a restful or fun weekend. Whatever you’re doing, make it fun - have fun working or have fun resting. While you do, enjoy these … Continue reading Happy Friday Photos
The Wounded Soul: How It Disconnects the Spirit and Misaligns the Body
God reveals to redeem. - Prophet Tomi Arayomi God has been dealing with me on this topic of wounded souls that needs to be healed. At first, I didn’t understand why I was coming across folks who have been wounded. We meet, and strike a conversation; the conversations often flow from one topic to the … Continue reading The Wounded Soul: How It Disconnects the Spirit and Misaligns the Body
Part 2: Dynamic Pricing and Apartment Rentals
Dynamic pricing, often referred to as real-time or surge pricing, is a pricing model strategy powered by algorithms and data analytics where the cost of a product or service fluctuates based on market demand, competitor prices, time of day, or other variables., Surprisingly, dynamic pricing is prevalent in the real estate rental market. We touched … Continue reading Part 2: Dynamic Pricing and Apartment Rentals
Walking Wounded: Healing the Soul Wounds We Carry
Walking Wounded He allows difficult situations in order to build faith in his people; but there’s more that he wants to do in and through us. He wants us to feel what he feels. - Victory Family Center (VFC) We are all walking wounded, carrying soul wounds and hurts buried deep within. Some wounds are … Continue reading Walking Wounded: Healing the Soul Wounds We Carry
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