Many people enter relationships hoping to find fulfillment, validation, and happiness through their spouses. However, the truth is that a strong, healthy relationship starts with self-love. You cannot fully love someone else if you don’t love yourself first. When you cultivate self-love, you bring confidence, emotional stability, and a sense of completeness into the relationship … Continue reading Self-Love Focus: Loving Yourself First to Love Your Spouse
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When Your Own Household Becomes Your Enemy: The Cost of Following Jesus
Is your faith Inherited or Chosen? One of the most challenging aspects of faith is realizing that sometimes, the greatest opposition comes not from strangers, but from those closest to us — our own family, friends, and community. Jesus warned about this when He said: “A man’s enemies will be those of his own household.” … Continue reading When Your Own Household Becomes Your Enemy: The Cost of Following Jesus
Why Do the Wicked Prosper? A Biblical Perspective
Many people have wondered why the most ruthless, immoral, and even atheistic individuals seem to be the wealthiest and most influential, while the kindest and most righteous often struggle. This apparent contradiction can be frustrating, leading some to question God’s justice. However, the Bible addresses this issue in depth, offering wisdom, reassurance, and a broader … Continue reading Why Do the Wicked Prosper? A Biblical Perspective
⏳ January’s Last Dance: A Fri-Yay Reflection ⏳
January came in with a bang, so bold, Now it’s slipping away—my, what a hold! Did we not just toast to a brand-new year? Yet here we are, February near! The clock won’t pause, the days won’t wait, Time moves fast—it’s never late. A blink, a breath, and poof, it’s gone, Another month, another dawn. … Continue reading ⏳ January’s Last Dance: A Fri-Yay Reflection ⏳
Challenges and Outcomes of Marrying the Wrong Person: A Three-Part Series
Different married couples Marriage is often portrayed as a union of love, trust, and mutual respect, but the reality is that not every marital journey unfolds as smoothly as expected. For some individuals, saying “I do” to the wrong person can lead to a myriad of challenges and outcomes that profoundly impact their lives. From … Continue reading Challenges and Outcomes of Marrying the Wrong Person: A Three-Part Series
The Fine Balance Between Bluntness, Honesty, Tact, and Wisdom
The Rungs of the Ladder We all know someone who is so blunt that they alienate people away from, with their bluntness and truthfulness, than they draw towards themselves. I used to be and once fell at the bottom rung of that ladder. But, thank God, that I am no longer there. I moved up … Continue reading The Fine Balance Between Bluntness, Honesty, Tact, and Wisdom
The Weavers of False Tales
The Weaver spinning their false tales, capturing the surreal and dramatic essence of their deceptive craft. Know a Weaver There’s always one in every corner. In the shadowed corners of the human soul, There lie the weavers of stories untold. Their tongues are silver, their words a snare, They spin false yarns to make hearts … Continue reading The Weavers of False Tales
Will you Support a Great Cause?
http://www.instagram.com/reel/DE7yJuBv1rz/ Support a great cause while carrying a meaningful reminder! Purchase art keychains designed with love, and know that every donation goes directly to supporting the victims of the California wildfires. These unique keychains feature vibrant artwork and symbolize hope, resilience, and community spirit. Your contribution counts and can make a difference in providing immediate … Continue reading Will you Support a Great Cause?
Turning Mistakes and Failures into Tools for Others’ Success
 We all make mistakes. We all face setbacks. It’s part of being human. However, what truly matters is how we learn from those experiences and, more importantly, how we share those lessons with others. Many people are quick to learn from others’ successes, but what if the real power lies in learning from their … Continue reading Turning Mistakes and Failures into Tools for Others’ Success
Trump and Obama Camaraderie Video: No Friend or Foe in Politics
https://youtu.be/CbKC7TbXnG4?feature=shared Did you see this video of former President Obama and President-Elect Trump? It was shot during President Carter’s funeral.What comes to your mind? Won’t you say that it looks like a genuine, happy conversation, between two buddies? 🤔 Doesn’t it? Only in politics; American politics, that is, that one day you’re arch enemies and … Continue reading Trump and Obama Camaraderie Video: No Friend or Foe in Politics
Towards Financial Freedom: A Married Couple’s Guide to Unity in Finances
Marriage and Money Introduction “When two become one” isn’t just about sharing a last name or a home. It’s about uniting every aspect of your lives, including finances. For many couples, navigating money matters can be one of the most challenging and rewarding parts of marriage. Whether you’re newlyweds or seasoned partners, building a solid … Continue reading Towards Financial Freedom: A Married Couple’s Guide to Unity in Finances
Gatekeepers: Physical and Spiritual Perspectives of Their Roles – Part 1
physical and spiritual gatekeepers, each fulfilling their roles of allowing or denying access. Gatekeepers hold a unique and critical role in both the physical and spiritual realms. At their core, they are protectors, regulators, and stewards of access, responsible for safeguarding valuable assets, maintaining order, and ensuring only what is permitted or worthy gains entry. … Continue reading Gatekeepers: Physical and Spiritual Perspectives of Their Roles – Part 1
12 Tips For Building Good Relationships: A Guide to Thriving Connections
Good relationships are the foundation of a fulfilling personal and professional life. Whether it’s a friendship, romantic relationship, workplace, business, or neighborhood connection, nurturing strong bonds enriches our lives with trust, support, and mutual growth. But good relationships don’t just happen; they require effort, patience, and intentionality. Good relationships don’t just happen; they require effort, … Continue reading 12 Tips For Building Good Relationships: A Guide to Thriving Connections
The Day After Christmas: A Time to Recuperate
Is Boxing Day about the Boxing Gloves or the Gift Boxes? The day after Christmas often feels like an emotional and physical whirlwind. The weeks leading up to December 25 are filled with preparation: shopping for gifts, planning family gatherings, cooking feasts, and decorating homes. While Christmas Day is the crescendo of this festive symphony, … Continue reading The Day After Christmas: A Time to Recuperate
Part 2: The Paradox of Insurance
The different types of Insurance Here's a concise overview of Part 1 of this article listing the essential insurance types for comfortable living in the U.S.: 1. Health Insurance is essential to cover medical expenses, which can be exorbitantly high without insurance. Types of health insurance are private (through employers or the marketplace), Medicare (for … Continue reading Part 2: The Paradox of Insurance
Of Folklore and Mythology: The Timeless Influence on Modern Culture
Folklore and mythology (R) Apollo and Artemis with Starbucks logo in the background Folklore and mythology have been integral to human civilization for centuries, shaping societies, cultures, and traditions. Rooted in storytelling, these narratives have provided explanations for natural phenomena, moral guidance, and a sense of identity. Even in today’s technology-driven world, their influence is … Continue reading Of Folklore and Mythology: The Timeless Influence on Modern Culture
Of Incubus and Succubus
An incubus and a succubus with their seductive, demonic allure in a dark, intimate setting Read The Spiritual Perspective of Sex in Dreams to fully understand this post. While the concepts of Incubus and Succubus originated from folklore and mythology, they have become significant in Christian deliverance ministries. This shift stems from the recognition … Continue reading Of Incubus and Succubus
The Spiritual Perspective of Sex in Dreams
A person sleeping and dreaming The world of Dreams is vast. From a biblical standpoint, God speaks to us in dreams though we may not know Him or understand it. “For God speaks in one way, and in two, though man does not perceive it. In a dream, in a vision of the night, … Continue reading The Spiritual Perspective of Sex in Dreams
Presidential Pardons: The Power, the Controversy, and the Ethics. Did President Biden do Wrong?
A father-son from infancy to adulthood; with the White House in the background President Joe Biden's decision to pardon his son, Hunter Biden, has sparked controversy due to his previous commitments not to use presidential powers for family benefit. Critics, including Republicans and some Democrats, view the pardon as an abuse of power and a … Continue reading Presidential Pardons: The Power, the Controversy, and the Ethics. Did President Biden do Wrong?
Countries of the World: An Overview of Numbers and Systems of Governance
Credits: WPR. Government types of Countries in the World The world is a vast and diverse place, home to 196 recognized sovereign states. Of these, 194 are member states of the United Nations, while the remaining two—the Holy See (Vatican City) and Palestine—are recognized as observer states. Each country operates under its own unique system … Continue reading Countries of the World: An Overview of Numbers and Systems of Governance
When Church/Christian Leaders Lead People Away from God: Causes and Pathways to Reconciliation
An illustration of God, a church building, and His people looking upward in faith and awe. Being a Leader of any sort in the church, and particularly an Apostle, a Pastor, Evangelist, Prophet, or Teacher, known in the church circles as the five-fold ministry, is a divine calling, a mantle entrusted to shepherd God’s people … Continue reading When Church/Christian Leaders Lead People Away from God: Causes and Pathways to Reconciliation
Part 3: Should a Man Listen to His Mom’s Advice About His Relationship?
The man in the middle of a relationship triangle This is our final post of our article on whether sons should listen to their mothers regarding their relationships. In Part 1, we reviewed the Pros and Cons of men taking relationship advice from their mothers and gave advice to mothers who have unresolved feelings about … Continue reading Part 3: Should a Man Listen to His Mom’s Advice About His Relationship?
Part 2: Should a Man Listen to His Mom’s Advice About His Relationship?
A messy triangle of mother-son-wife Continuing our article on whether sons should listen to their mothers regarding their relationships. In Part 1, we reviewed the Pros and Cons of men taking relationship advice from their mothers and gave advice to mothers who have unresolved feelings about their son’s choice of woman. Read Part 1 here. … Continue reading Part 2: Should a Man Listen to His Mom’s Advice About His Relationship?
Trump, another man?
Photo of Donald Trump on Election Night Trump and Biden both call for smooth transition in historic Oval Office meeting - ABC News President-Elect Donald Trump just visited the White House at the invitation of outgoing President Joe Biden. Click on the above link to watch. As I watched the event and Trump’s speech, I … Continue reading Trump, another man?
Should a Man Listen to His Mom’s Advice About His Relationship? Weighing the Pros and Cons
Man torn between the women in his life Counseling a man, supposedly, in love is a tricky issue for anyone to dabble into. Same for women. However, and generally speaking, women are more levelheaded in receiving relationship advices than men. But what happens when the counseling or advice is coming from the man’s mother or … Continue reading Should a Man Listen to His Mom’s Advice About His Relationship? Weighing the Pros and Cons
President-Elect Donald John Trump’s Historic Comeback: A Testament to Resilience and Vindication
Trump addressing his supporters earlier today Donald John Trump has been declared the winner of the 2024 presidential election; a moment that marks the greatest, political, historic and powerful comeback ever. With this win,Trump will be the 47th President of the United States of America to be sworn-in in January 2025. Donald J. Trump led … Continue reading President-Elect Donald John Trump’s Historic Comeback: A Testament to Resilience and Vindication
Understanding Class Statuses in America: Does the Middle Class Still Exist?
In the United States, social class is more than just income—it encompasses lifestyle, education, occupation, and overall economic stability. The traditional class structure, often segmented into lower, working, middle, upper-middle, and upper classes, has been the foundation of American society for generations. However, as economic dynamics have evolved, so has the concept of the “middle … Continue reading Understanding Class Statuses in America: Does the Middle Class Still Exist?
Witchcraft is Real – Part II: Awareness and Protecting Yourself and Loved Ones
Learn about witchcraft not to fear it but to understand how it operates today. We’re continuing the post on witchcraft. In Part I, we listed the forms and effects if witchcraft. The forms of witchcraft listed are merely the common ones and not limited in any sense. The Spirit of God is the greatest discerner … Continue reading Witchcraft is Real – Part II: Awareness and Protecting Yourself and Loved Ones
Witchcraft is Real – Part I: Know what it is
Witchcraft has no place where Jesus reigns Learn about witchcraft not to fear it but to understand how it operates today. When we think of witchcraft, most of us picture the stereotypical image of an old woman with a crooked hat and broomstick, but in today’s world, witchcraft isn’t just folklore or Halloween imagery—witchcraft has … Continue reading Witchcraft is Real – Part I: Know what it is
Equity with Kindness
https://youtu.be/fXAlfh6QKQs?feature=shared Credits: YouTube Reelblack OneStevie Wonder and Paul Macartney’s Song was so apropos in 1982 as it is in 2024; 40+ years after. Treating each other equitably and with kindness is the foundation of a more harmonious and just society. Nobody wants to be on the receiving end of negativity, especially when it comes in … Continue reading Equity with Kindness
When Your Prayers Seem To Go Unanswered
When prayers seem to go unanswered, and you find yourself feeling overlooked in various areas of life, it’s easy to feel disheartened. The silence can be deafening, and doubts might creep in, making you question your worth or whether you’re on the right path. This season can feel isolating, leaving you wondering why your prayers … Continue reading When Your Prayers Seem To Go Unanswered
Short-Term Peace, Long-Term Pain: The Flip Side of Keeping Mute from Telling a Loved One When In Error
A previous post was about how not to keep silent when a loved one errs or is veering off the wrong path. The post gave eight (8) reasons why it’s better speak up, in love, when a loved one is on a wrong path or making the wrong choices. This post, as the title shows, … Continue reading Short-Term Peace, Long-Term Pain: The Flip Side of Keeping Mute from Telling a Loved One When In Error
Loving Someone Through Their Bad Choices
Tough love is not about harshness; it's about fostering self-reliance, resilience, and personal accountability.” - Unknown Most of us have experienced watching a loved one veer a wrong path or make unhealthy choices. It hurts. Trying to balance loving such person while, simultaneously, wondering if to talk to them about their choices becomes a challenge. What … Continue reading Loving Someone Through Their Bad Choices
Why So Angry? The Hidden Cost of Living in a Perpetual Funk
Anger is a negative emotion We’ve all been there. That person who cuts you off in traffic, the slow internet just when you’re about to send that important email, or your favorite coffee shop running out of the good croissants. Before you know it, you’re on edge. But why does this happen, and what does … Continue reading Why So Angry? The Hidden Cost of Living in a Perpetual Funk
The Beauty of Loving Others Up Close: Embracing Imperfection in Relationships
We’re all broken people We all know the feeling. At first, everyone seems good, nice, and flawless from afar. Whether it’s a friendship, romantic relationship, or even a work connection, initial interactions often highlight the best in others. But what happens when we step closer, get to know people on a deeper level, and begin … Continue reading The Beauty of Loving Others Up Close: Embracing Imperfection in Relationships
Of Countries and People
A parallel between countries and people Countries, like people, mature and thrive at different rates. Just as individuals’ development is shaped by a myriad of factors, nations too are influenced by various elements. When a country gains independence, it is akin to a child asserting adulthood, proclaiming the desire to make its own decisions. However, … Continue reading Of Countries and People
Part II – Separation
Is there a place for Separation when a marriage is in distress? The answer is: Maybe. Separation, like Divorce, is hard on the Family Separation can work in very specific cases—when both parties genuinely want to reconcile but need a break from the conflict to refocus on themselves and what they want from the marriage. … Continue reading Part II – Separation
Why do we revel at another’s downfall or misfortune?
Social media’s influence on Bad News and Trending Topics Social media has indoctrinated people to talk and post about trending topics, issues, and people. These trends can be both positive or negative. Positive news is awesome to read and share. But, we all know that the negative news sells the most, gets the most attention, … Continue reading Why do we revel at another’s downfall or misfortune?
The Importance and Purpose of Testimonies in a Christian’s Life
People sharing their Testimonies Testimonies hold a vital place in the life of a Christian, functioning as more than just personal stories of faith. They are powerful declarations of God’s work, affirmations of His grace, and instruments for strengthening both individual and communal faith. Understanding the importance and purpose of testimonies helps Christians embrace their … Continue reading The Importance and Purpose of Testimonies in a Christian’s Life
Show me your friends
The wheels that should rotate your social circle. The old adage, “Show me your friends, and I’ll tell you who you are,” often holds true in several cases, but particularly where men engage in destructive behaviors without intervention from their social circles. There are several reasons why friends may fail to advise or step in, … Continue reading Show me your friends
Hommes Fatales
Hommes Fatales are like deadly pills to Women I describe men who act abusively or neglectfully in relationships as "hommes fatales." These types of men tend to operate from a place of ignorance, entitlement, or deep-seated insecurities using (or rather, dangling), their money power as a means or bait. It is ignorance and manifests as … Continue reading Hommes Fatales
Ignorance Is No Excuse
Ignorance is a two-edged sword We are all too familiar with the phrase "ignorance is no excuse" which is often used in legal, professional, and personal settings to emphasize that not knowing something doesn't absolve you from the consequences of your actions. Whether in the workplace, relationships, or everyday life, we all encounter situations where … Continue reading Ignorance Is No Excuse
It’s National Back to Church Sunday
Symbols of the Church on National Back to Church Day Today is National Back to Church (NBtCD) Sunday; a day dedicated to encouraging individuals to reconnect with their faith communities. Held annually on the third Sunday of September, the initiative aims to welcome back those who may have stopped attending church or have never attended … Continue reading It’s National Back to Church Sunday
Learn(ed )Obedience
Obedience is key to the ultimate life “though he were a Son, yet learned he obedience by the things which he suffered;”Hebrews 5:8 KJV If we’re honest, most of us aren't huge fans of the word "obedience." It feels restrictive, like something we should have left behind in childhood, like in middle school or, some … Continue reading Learn(ed )Obedience
There are still …
Has divorce become a calculated harm and marriage now at your own risk? There are still good-to-great guys and ladies out there who desire a good-to-great marriage. Why did I say that? I had an interesting conversation with a young lady who I’ll call Tara. She started by sharing with me that she recently got … Continue reading There are still …
How would you react if you lost …
Lost money be found I hate to lose anything. If anything; and I mean, anything is missing, I have been known to comb, sweep, and turn the house over looking for it. After, much travail and unable to find it, I’ll turn to ask Holy Spirit for help. 🤦🏾♀️ Does that sound familiar to anyone? … Continue reading How would you react if you lost …
Who You Start With Can Impact the Rest of Your Life: Why It’s Imperative to Choose Right
In the journey of life, the people we surround ourselves with—friends, partners, mentors—can have a profound impact on our trajectory. The saying “you are the average of the five people you spend the most time with” holds a significant truth. The influence of those who walk with you during crucial stages of your life can … Continue reading Who You Start With Can Impact the Rest of Your Life: Why It’s Imperative to Choose Right
Dealing with Health Issues: A Medical and Spiritual Perspective
Medical and Spiritual Healing Dealing with health issues is an inevitable part of life. Whether minor or major, these challenges often require us to navigate complex decisions about treatment, lifestyle adjustments, and emotional coping strategies. While the medical approach offers concrete, evidence-based solutions, the spiritual perspective provides emotional and existential support, helping individuals find meaning … Continue reading Dealing with Health Issues: A Medical and Spiritual Perspective
Causes, Managing, and Overcoming Phobias: Practical Advice and Insights
Phobias are intense, irrational fears of specific objects, situations, or activities that can significantly impact an individual's daily life. Phobias often lead to avoidance behaviors, which can exacerbate the problem. In a previous post, we looked at various common phobias. Click here to read it. This post provides the causes of phobia, and practical advice … Continue reading Causes, Managing, and Overcoming Phobias: Practical Advice and Insights
Emotionless: The Priceless Value of Emotional Regulation
Can you be emotionless for a day? Take a Poll here Thanks for taking the Poll. Can you be Emotionless for a day? Being Emotionless in a world of Emotions In a world often dominated by the intense expression of emotions, the concept of being "emotionless" can seem paradoxical or even undesirable. However, this term … Continue reading Emotionless: The Priceless Value of Emotional Regulation
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