This is the second in this Series. We’re talking about men and their multiple amorous relationships, especially in marriage, and the women who aide them. Jump in and let’s have a conversation to understand all points of view. In Part 1, we discussed whether men were naturally wired polyamorous. We looked at the various factors … Continue reading Part 2: Polyamorous Men: Why Do Men Sexually Desire Multiple Women in Relationships and Marriage
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A Series: Are men naturally wired polyamorous?
An illustration of a man surrounded by several different women, each with unique appearances and expressions. This is a three-part Series (could be more) delving into men, their multiple relationships, and the women who aide them. Polyamorous by Nature? The question of whether men are naturally wired to be polyamorous is a complex one, involving … Continue reading A Series: Are men naturally wired polyamorous?
Your Bank Mistakenly Deposits a Large Sum Into Your Account: Now What?
An unexpected windfall from yourbank Imagine checking your bank account and suddenly seeing trillions—or even just millions—mistakenly deposited. It sounds like a dream come true, but in reality, it can quickly turn into a legal and financial nightmare if handled incorrectly. Chase Bank recently made headlines after mistakenly depositing over $2 trillion into a customer’s … Continue reading Your Bank Mistakenly Deposits a Large Sum Into Your Account: Now What?
Of Prophets and Their Prophetic Words
An illustration of a prophet delivering a prophetic word, surrounded by divine light and a captivated audience. Do you know what a prophetic word is? Have you ever received one (or more) and do you know what to do with it? “… the one who prophesies edifies the church.”1 Corinthians 14:4 NIV What, in the … Continue reading Of Prophets and Their Prophetic Words
Becoming: The Key to Attracting What You Desire
Become your Authentic Self In a world obsessed with chasing success, love, wealth, and happiness, few realize that becoming is more powerful than pursuing. Rather than desperately running after things, true fulfillment often comes when we become the kind of person who naturally attracts those things. Whether it’s achieving success, finding love, or gaining respect, … Continue reading Becoming: The Key to Attracting What You Desire
I’m loving this photography sessions
Pictures are worth a thousand words. - Frederick R. Barnard Truly inspired by Seb’s Crescent Moon and Venus’ photography post. That post stirred me to publish/share my photography. I’ve always loved taking photos - inherited from my beloved Dad, whose passion (or should I say, hobby? someone just whispered to remind me that I can … Continue reading I’m loving this photography sessions
Photos from the Debut Art Show
In the art world, anything and everything makes for art! All is well in love and peace, including Art Shows; especially when it is your daughter’s very first. It makes it extra specially in love and peace and joy. I can’t say how proud I am of this resilient young lady who is a chip … Continue reading Photos from the Debut Art Show
The Hierarchy of Honoring People in Your Life
A framework for Honor Do you have a framework for honoring people in your life? If not, I’ll offer you one and you let me know your thoughts on it. The Bible says, “Honor the Lord with your wealth, with the firstfruits of all your crops;”Proverbs 3:9 NIV And Jesus said: “honor your father and … Continue reading The Hierarchy of Honoring People in Your Life
Happy Friday Photos
Hello all, hope your day is going great. It’s Friday and while some still will be grinding, others have put in their 40 hours (or more) and are looking forward to a restful or fun weekend. Whatever you’re doing, make it fun - have fun working or have fun resting. While you do, enjoy these … Continue reading Happy Friday Photos
Seb calls it the Crescent Moon and Venus
Check Seb’s photography blog out. Loved his Crescent Moon and Venus photo - sharp, distinct, and beautiful. I commented that I took similar photo, though I didn’t know what it was called at the time. But I couldn’t ignore it standing out so distinctly in the sky while out for a walk, on The Strand, … Continue reading Seb calls it the Crescent Moon and Venus
The Wounded Soul: How It Disconnects the Spirit and Misaligns the Body
God reveals to redeem. - Prophet Tomi Arayomi God has been dealing with me on this topic of wounded souls that needs to be healed. At first, I didn’t understand why I was coming across folks who have been wounded. We meet, and strike a conversation; the conversations often flow from one topic to the … Continue reading The Wounded Soul: How It Disconnects the Spirit and Misaligns the Body
Walking Wounded: Healing the Soul Wounds We Carry
Walking Wounded He allows difficult situations in order to build faith in his people; but there’s more that he wants to do in and through us. He wants us to feel what he feels. - Victory Family Center (VFC) We are all walking wounded, carrying soul wounds and hurts buried deep within. Some wounds are … Continue reading Walking Wounded: Healing the Soul Wounds We Carry
Love & Marriage: 30 Things You Won’t Do—And 30 You’ll Be Compelled to Do, Just Because
Ah, love and marriage! They say love makes the world go round, but in marriage, it also makes the dishes get done, the car mysteriously refill with gas, and the last slice of cake magically end up on your spouse’s plate (even when you really wanted it). ************************************** 🤍❤️💗 Happy Valentine’s Day! To all lovebirds … Continue reading Love & Marriage: 30 Things You Won’t Do—And 30 You’ll Be Compelled to Do, Just Because
Happy Valentine’s Day
Oh, Valentine, a day so bright,Where hearts take wing in love’s sweet light.The air is laced with joy and cheer,A whispered promise, warm and near. Red, white, and pink roses bloom with silent speech,Their petals soft, their fragrance sweet.A token sent, a love confessed,A beating heart, a soul caressed. But love, dear love, is more … Continue reading Happy Valentine’s Day
Self-Love Focus: Loving Yourself First to Love Your Spouse
Many people enter relationships hoping to find fulfillment, validation, and happiness through their spouses. However, the truth is that a strong, healthy relationship starts with self-love. You cannot fully love someone else if you don’t love yourself first. When you cultivate self-love, you bring confidence, emotional stability, and a sense of completeness into the relationship … Continue reading Self-Love Focus: Loving Yourself First to Love Your Spouse
National Marriage Week (February 7–14): Strengthening Your Bond
Wedding/Marriage The National Marriage Week started on February 7th and ends on Valentine’s Day; the 14th of February. Yours truly has been extremely busy with moving, hence just posting this. Anyhow, Shout out to all married couples in the WordPress Community and my subscribers. May the love between you and yours grow stronger and stronger. … Continue reading National Marriage Week (February 7–14): Strengthening Your Bond
When Your Own Household Becomes Your Enemy: The Cost of Following Jesus
Is your faith Inherited or Chosen? One of the most challenging aspects of faith is realizing that sometimes, the greatest opposition comes not from strangers, but from those closest to us — our own family, friends, and community. Jesus warned about this when He said: “A man’s enemies will be those of his own household.” … Continue reading When Your Own Household Becomes Your Enemy: The Cost of Following Jesus
The Pursuit of Happiness: A Path to Genuine Fulfillment or a Fleeting Illusion?
The pursuit of happiness. Thomas Jefferson first penned it in the Declaration of Independence: “Life, Liberty and the pursuit of Happiness." Will Smith and his son, Jaden, did a movie (2006) with the title. The movie is also available in book format. I’ve heard the statement sung in my ears more times than I … Continue reading The Pursuit of Happiness: A Path to Genuine Fulfillment or a Fleeting Illusion?
⏳ January’s Last Dance: A Fri-Yay Reflection ⏳
January came in with a bang, so bold, Now it’s slipping away—my, what a hold! Did we not just toast to a brand-new year? Yet here we are, February near! The clock won’t pause, the days won’t wait, Time moves fast—it’s never late. A blink, a breath, and poof, it’s gone, Another month, another dawn. … Continue reading ⏳ January’s Last Dance: A Fri-Yay Reflection ⏳
The Fine Balance Between Bluntness, Honesty, Tact, and Wisdom
The Rungs of the Ladder We all know someone who is so blunt that they alienate people away from, with their bluntness and truthfulness, than they draw towards themselves. I used to be and once fell at the bottom rung of that ladder. But, thank God, that I am no longer there. I moved up … Continue reading The Fine Balance Between Bluntness, Honesty, Tact, and Wisdom
The Weavers of False Tales
The Weaver spinning their false tales, capturing the surreal and dramatic essence of their deceptive craft. Know a Weaver There’s always one in every corner. In the shadowed corners of the human soul, There lie the weavers of stories untold. Their tongues are silver, their words a snare, They spin false yarns to make hearts … Continue reading The Weavers of False Tales
What a Day! MLK Day and Donald Trump’s Second Inauguration: A Godincidence?
Today, January 20, 2025, is not a coincidence, but a Godincidence. Today is both Martin Luther King Jr. (MLK) Day and the Presidential Inauguration of Donald Trump (DT) as the 47th President of the United States. It’s a unique convergence. The Significance of the Day Martin Luther King Jr. Day is observed annually on the … Continue reading What a Day! MLK Day and Donald Trump’s Second Inauguration: A Godincidence?
The Abortion Debate: Reframing From A Biblical Perspective on Accountability and Responsibility
Abortion is not only the Woman’s Choice or Issue Abortion is one of the most polarizing topics in our society today, often debated from moral, ethical, and spiritual perspectives. However, much of the conversation tends to focus on the consequences—whether to permit or prohibit abortion—while neglecting the root causes that lead to these situations. At … Continue reading The Abortion Debate: Reframing From A Biblical Perspective on Accountability and Responsibility
Which Season is Your Favorite?
The Different Seasons and Colors Each season carries its unique beauty, offering something special for everyone. Some embrace the vibrant energy of summer, while others cherish the cozy charm of winter. Let’s explore the essence of each season and discover what makes them beloved by many. Winter: A Cozy Wonderland Winter is a season of … Continue reading Which Season is Your Favorite?
Trump and Obama Camaraderie Video: No Friend or Foe in Politics
https://youtu.be/CbKC7TbXnG4?feature=shared Did you see this video of former President Obama and President-Elect Trump? It was shot during President Carter’s funeral.What comes to your mind? Won’t you say that it looks like a genuine, happy conversation, between two buddies? 🤔 Doesn’t it? Only in politics; American politics, that is, that one day you’re arch enemies and … Continue reading Trump and Obama Camaraderie Video: No Friend or Foe in Politics
Wickedness: A Path of Destruction that Leads Nowhere Good
It seems so elementary that we all ought to know better. Yet it occurs daily; sometime, unnecessary and unwarranted. Yet, in a world fraught with injustice, cruelty, and pain, it’s hard to ignore the wickedness often perpetrated by one human being against another. Whether it’s deceit, betrayal, violence, or oppression, wickedness comes in many forms. … Continue reading Wickedness: A Path of Destruction that Leads Nowhere Good
Marriage Wellness Quiz Series
How strong is your marriage? 💍 “Marriage is to be held in honor among all [that is, regarded as something of great value] ...”Hebrews 13:4 AMP Every relationship has its own rhythm, but have you ever wondered where yours really stands? Don’t take each other for granted this New Year. Treat each other with mutual … Continue reading Marriage Wellness Quiz Series
The Nation and World Pauses for former President Jimmy Carter to Celebrate His Life
youtube.com/live/tSMHFF8k6is In celebrating the remarkable life of James Earl “Jimmy” Carter Jr., even Wall Street closed for the day to honor a man who has touched the world with his unwavering commitment to service, peace, and humanity. Born on October 1, 1924, in Plains, Georgia, Jimmy Carter rose from humble beginnings to become the 39th … Continue reading The Nation and World Pauses for former President Jimmy Carter to Celebrate His Life
Gatekeepers: Physical and Spiritual Perspectives of Their Roles – Part 1
physical and spiritual gatekeepers, each fulfilling their roles of allowing or denying access. Gatekeepers hold a unique and critical role in both the physical and spiritual realms. At their core, they are protectors, regulators, and stewards of access, responsible for safeguarding valuable assets, maintaining order, and ensuring only what is permitted or worthy gains entry. … Continue reading Gatekeepers: Physical and Spiritual Perspectives of Their Roles – Part 1
12 Tips For Building Good Relationships: A Guide to Thriving Connections
Good relationships are the foundation of a fulfilling personal and professional life. Whether it’s a friendship, romantic relationship, workplace, business, or neighborhood connection, nurturing strong bonds enriches our lives with trust, support, and mutual growth. But good relationships don’t just happen; they require effort, patience, and intentionality. Good relationships don’t just happen; they require effort, … Continue reading 12 Tips For Building Good Relationships: A Guide to Thriving Connections
Part 2: The Paradox of Insurance
The different types of Insurance Here's a concise overview of Part 1 of this article listing the essential insurance types for comfortable living in the U.S.: 1. Health Insurance is essential to cover medical expenses, which can be exorbitantly high without insurance. Types of health insurance are private (through employers or the marketplace), Medicare (for … Continue reading Part 2: The Paradox of Insurance
Trump, another man?
Photo of Donald Trump on Election Night Trump and Biden both call for smooth transition in historic Oval Office meeting - ABC News President-Elect Donald Trump just visited the White House at the invitation of outgoing President Joe Biden. Click on the above link to watch. As I watched the event and Trump’s speech, I … Continue reading Trump, another man?
Should a Man Listen to His Mom’s Advice About His Relationship? Weighing the Pros and Cons
Man torn between the women in his life Counseling a man, supposedly, in love is a tricky issue for anyone to dabble into. Same for women. However, and generally speaking, women are more levelheaded in receiving relationship advices than men. But what happens when the counseling or advice is coming from the man’s mother or … Continue reading Should a Man Listen to His Mom’s Advice About His Relationship? Weighing the Pros and Cons
Quincy Jones: The Legendary Maestro. 1933-2024
Credits: Wikipedia. Quincy Jones I was a teenager in London, U.K., when I first heard about Quincy Jones, popularly known in the music industry simply as “Q.” My aunt, who once lived in San Francisco, CA for many years, adores him. I learned about Q long before I smelled the shores of the USA. Sadly, … Continue reading Quincy Jones: The Legendary Maestro. 1933-2024
The Man, Elon Musk: A Cool Billionaire (Soon Trillionaire) with Geek Appeal
I’ve recently started following Elon Musk, and let me tell you—I love his style. For a man of his caliber; being the richest man in America, and in the world, one often touted as the future’s first trillionaire (yes, trillionaire—it’s not even in the dictionary yet), he comes across as surprisingly down-to-earth. And for someone … Continue reading The Man, Elon Musk: A Cool Billionaire (Soon Trillionaire) with Geek Appeal
President-Elect Donald John Trump’s Historic Comeback: A Testament to Resilience and Vindication
Trump addressing his supporters earlier today Donald John Trump has been declared the winner of the 2024 presidential election; a moment that marks the greatest, political, historic and powerful comeback ever. With this win,Trump will be the 47th President of the United States of America to be sworn-in in January 2025. Donald J. Trump led … Continue reading President-Elect Donald John Trump’s Historic Comeback: A Testament to Resilience and Vindication
Remember to Vote!
2024 Presidential Election In 2024, the stage is set, The stakes are high, let’s not forget. This vote is more than red or blue— It’s about core values, true and true. Truth and honesty, bold and bright, Should guide your hand when you cast that right. For what’s a nation built on lies? It crumbles … Continue reading Remember to Vote!
Short-Term Peace, Long-Term Pain: The Flip Side of Keeping Mute from Telling a Loved One When In Error
A previous post was about how not to keep silent when a loved one errs or is veering off the wrong path. The post gave eight (8) reasons why it’s better speak up, in love, when a loved one is on a wrong path or making the wrong choices. This post, as the title shows, … Continue reading Short-Term Peace, Long-Term Pain: The Flip Side of Keeping Mute from Telling a Loved One When In Error
Relocating from a Higher Cost of Living Area to a Lower One: California vs. Texas or Ohio
I visited Texas (Austin and Houston) this past weekend. It’s not my first time in Texas or these cities. But the first time that I actually paid some attention! The food was different (southern) and portions were big. I chose not to visit any food franchise available in California. Speeding is highly frowned upon with … Continue reading Relocating from a Higher Cost of Living Area to a Lower One: California vs. Texas or Ohio
Why do we revel at another’s downfall or misfortune?
Social media’s influence on Bad News and Trending Topics Social media has indoctrinated people to talk and post about trending topics, issues, and people. These trends can be both positive or negative. Positive news is awesome to read and share. But, we all know that the negative news sells the most, gets the most attention, … Continue reading Why do we revel at another’s downfall or misfortune?
Show me your friends
The wheels that should rotate your social circle. The old adage, “Show me your friends, and I’ll tell you who you are,” often holds true in several cases, but particularly where men engage in destructive behaviors without intervention from their social circles. There are several reasons why friends may fail to advise or step in, … Continue reading Show me your friends
Hommes Fatales
Hommes Fatales are like deadly pills to Women I describe men who act abusively or neglectfully in relationships as "hommes fatales." These types of men tend to operate from a place of ignorance, entitlement, or deep-seated insecurities using (or rather, dangling), their money power as a means or bait. It is ignorance and manifests as … Continue reading Hommes Fatales
Learn(ed )Obedience
Obedience is key to the ultimate life “though he were a Son, yet learned he obedience by the things which he suffered;”Hebrews 5:8 KJV If we’re honest, most of us aren't huge fans of the word "obedience." It feels restrictive, like something we should have left behind in childhood, like in middle school or, some … Continue reading Learn(ed )Obedience
Honey vs. Sugar: Is Honey Really a Better Sweetener Substitute?
Which would you choose - honey or sugar? Honey has long been touted as a healthier alternative to sugar, especially when it comes to sweetening your morning coffee or afternoon tea. But with honey’s high sugar content, many wonder whether it’s genuinely a better option. Despite honey’s natural sugars, there are compelling reasons why it … Continue reading Honey vs. Sugar: Is Honey Really a Better Sweetener Substitute?
The Poor, the Rich, and the Wealthy: Understanding the Key Characteristics and Differences Between Them
Key concepts between the Poor, Rich, and Wealthy https://brightlanelearning.org/2024/01/poverty-in-america/ In today’s society, wealth and financial status often serve as markers of success. However, not everyone fully understands the distinctions between being poor, rich, and wealthy. These terms are often used interchangeably, but they each represent different mindsets, lifestyles, and financial strategies. In this post, we’ll … Continue reading The Poor, the Rich, and the Wealthy: Understanding the Key Characteristics and Differences Between Them
Who You Start With Can Impact the Rest of Your Life: Why It’s Imperative to Choose Right
In the journey of life, the people we surround ourselves with—friends, partners, mentors—can have a profound impact on our trajectory. The saying “you are the average of the five people you spend the most time with” holds a significant truth. The influence of those who walk with you during crucial stages of your life can … Continue reading Who You Start With Can Impact the Rest of Your Life: Why It’s Imperative to Choose Right
Dealing with Health Issues: A Medical and Spiritual Perspective
Medical and Spiritual Healing Dealing with health issues is an inevitable part of life. Whether minor or major, these challenges often require us to navigate complex decisions about treatment, lifestyle adjustments, and emotional coping strategies. While the medical approach offers concrete, evidence-based solutions, the spiritual perspective provides emotional and existential support, helping individuals find meaning … Continue reading Dealing with Health Issues: A Medical and Spiritual Perspective
Paradox of Being a Christian
The paradox of being a Christian Introduction Christianity, one of the world's major religions, calls its followers to a life that often appears paradoxical. These paradoxes challenge believers to see beyond the surface and embrace deeper truths. Christians are asked to embrace seemingly contradictory principles: strength in weakness, freedom in submission, and joy in suffering. … Continue reading Paradox of Being a Christian
Vulnerability in Relationships: The Key to Genuine Connection
Vulnerability in Relationships builds deeper Intimacy In a world where strength and independence are often celebrated, vulnerability can sometimes be perceived as a weakness. However, in the realm of relationships, vulnerability is not only a strength but a crucial component for fostering deep and meaningful connections. Embracing vulnerability in relationships can lead to greater intimacy, … Continue reading Vulnerability in Relationships: The Key to Genuine Connection
Effective Communication Strategies in Relationships
Active listening is part of Effective Communication Introduction Effective communication is the cornerstone of a healthy relationship. It allows couples to connect, understand each other, and resolve conflicts. However, many couples struggle with communication, leading to misunderstandings and emotional distance. In this article, we'll explore common communication challenges and offer strategies to help couples communicate … Continue reading Effective Communication Strategies in Relationships
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