Yachts Parked on The Sea I walk along the beach at least three days a week and meet a lot of people. I also love to strike conversations on various topics with the people. One of such conversations is why they chose to live on their yachts, instead of on land in a home. This … Continue reading Trading Bricks for the Breeze: Why Some People Choose to Live on Yachts Instead of in Homes
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When Power Dated Wealth: Lessons from a Relationship Gone Wrong
They were unstoppable. One wanted to change the world with rockets.The other wanted to rule it with laws. But like so many relationships — romantic or otherwise — it all started with admiration … and ended in memes, silence, and passive-aggressive tweets. In our fictional satire, Max Titan and Preston Valor symbolized what happens when … Continue reading When Power Dated Wealth: Lessons from a Relationship Gone Wrong
Part 4: ✈️ Lessons from the Sky: Reflections at 30,000 Feet
The Quiet Connections of Strangers Passing Strangers & Parallel Lives — The Quiet Connections We Overlook There’s a moment during boarding when you lock eyes with strangers. People trying to find their seats, stowing bags, checking for outlets. You share a nod, a smile, maybe an apology as you shuffle past. And then, for the … Continue reading Part 4: ✈️ Lessons from the Sky: Reflections at 30,000 Feet
Happy Birthday to Me
Yet another year - the second anniversary of my 60th. 60 has never been so good. With the “No King” protests all over the nation, my day was very quiet. I hope your neighborhood wasn’t so chaotic. Grateful yet again for my life: Thank You, Father God for all the good You made come my … Continue reading Happy Birthday to Me
Series Title: When Life Doesn’t Add Up: Part 3: When Playing It Safe Becomes Playing Small
You didn’t want to fail.You didn’t want to disappoint anyone.So you stayed where it was safe — in the role you knew, the lane you understood, the space that felt predictable. You told yourself, “I’m just being wise.”But deep down, something else was at play: fear. The fear of looking foolish.The fear of wasting time.The … Continue reading Series Title: When Life Doesn’t Add Up: Part 3: When Playing It Safe Becomes Playing Small
Work Hard or Work Smart: Which would you rather do?
Work Hard vs Work Smart Great question — and the short answer is: the ideal is to work both hard and smart. You don’t have to choose one over the other. But understanding the difference between them helps you maximize your time, energy, and results. 🔍 What’s the Difference? 🛠️ Working Hard Means putting in … Continue reading Work Hard or Work Smart: Which would you rather do?
There Are No Perfect Parents or Families
There’s none that’s perfect: none, and an emblem canceling the perfect inscription We all begin our lives with a limited lens. We grow up thinking our family is the standard. As children, we see our parents and families as the entire world. Our parents are either everything or, for some, not enough. That their way … Continue reading There Are No Perfect Parents or Families
Mental Wellness for Families: Building a Home That Heals, Not Hurts
Mentally Aware Happy families Welcome to the Family Wellness Series—a heartfelt journey into creating mentally and emotionally healthy homes. Whether you’re a parent, caregiver, spouse, or sibling, these posts are designed to help you foster connection, heal wounds, and build a legacy of love and stability. Because when the home is whole, everyone inside it … Continue reading Mental Wellness for Families: Building a Home That Heals, Not Hurts
Mental Wellness for Couples: Strengthening Love from the Inside Out
Mental health awareness The month of May is almost over. But do you remember that it is the Mental Health Awareness Month? Or did you, like me, almost or totally forgot? Though we’re nearing the end of it, there’s never a bad time to talk about the one thing that affects every part of our … Continue reading Mental Wellness for Couples: Strengthening Love from the Inside Out
Part 1: When You’ve Done Everything Right, But Life Still Feels Wrong
when you’ve done everything right There’s a quiet ache that comes when you’ve done your best…You worked hard,kept your head down, did what you were told.You stayed honest.You took the narrow road.You followed the rules.You stayed out of trouble. You tried to live right — even when no one was watching. You were taught that … Continue reading Part 1: When You’ve Done Everything Right, But Life Still Feels Wrong
Intro Post to Launch a New Series: When Life Doesn’t Add Up — An Invitation to the Ones Who Tried
when life doesn’t add up You did what they told you to do.You stayed in line.You were responsible.You tried to be good.You worked hard — not just at your job, but at life.At showing up.At holding it all together.At being the person everyone could count on. But quietly, painfully, you’re asking:Why am I still stuck?Why … Continue reading Intro Post to Launch a New Series: When Life Doesn’t Add Up — An Invitation to the Ones Who Tried
Is Truth Absolute or Subjective? The Battle Between “My Truth” and “The Truth”
your experience is real, but it is not always the truth in a universal sense. We live in an era where phrases like “Speak your truth” or “That’s just my truth” are thrown around with ease and applause. On the surface, these words sound empowering — liberating, even. But when you dig a little deeper, … Continue reading Is Truth Absolute or Subjective? The Battle Between “My Truth” and “The Truth”
The Irony of Doctors and Medications: When Healing Feels Like a Trap
I met a 29-year-old man recently who, through a weary sigh, told me he’s been trying to convince his doctors to take him off his medications — but they won’t. They either change the medication, raise the dose, or recommend adding a new one. It’s a frustrating cycle. He feels stuck. Powerless. Like his life … Continue reading The Irony of Doctors and Medications: When Healing Feels Like a Trap
Have Church Leaders Failed God’s People—Or Are We Looking in the Wrong Direction?
Follow me as I follow Christ In recent years, the veil has been lifted on some disturbing truths within the Church. Stories of secret sins, financial manipulation, sexual abuse, and toxic leadership — once whispered rumors — are now headlines. The very shepherds entrusted to tend God’s flock have sometimes become wolves in disguise. And … Continue reading Have Church Leaders Failed God’s People—Or Are We Looking in the Wrong Direction?
It’s National Self-Care Day
It was a busy day for me today. So busy that I had to remind myself to take it easy. It has been a loooong time that I got this busy dashing from one event to the other. I thought those days were behind me! Apparently, it’s April 5th - National Self-Care Day; a dedicated … Continue reading It’s National Self-Care Day
When Convenience Meets Credit: The Klarna + DoorDash Dilemma
Klarna is a Swedish fintech company that offers “buy now, pay later” (BNPL) services, among other payment solutions. It lets shoppers split purchases into interest-free installments, pay after delivery, or finance purchases over time. It’s integrated with many online retailers and also has a mobile app where users can track spending, manage payments, and sometimes … Continue reading When Convenience Meets Credit: The Klarna + DoorDash Dilemma
National Walking Day: Why You Should Step Into a Healthier Lifestyle
People walking Did you know it’s National Walking Day? Every year, on the first Wednesday of April, which is today, people across the country celebrate this day as a reminder of the simple yet powerful benefits of walking. While it may not come with the fanfare of major holidays, this day highlights an activity that … Continue reading National Walking Day: Why You Should Step Into a Healthier Lifestyle
Transform a house to a Home: Who’s responsible?
Variables for transforming a house to a Home The home is where one runs to for solace, security, and belonging. It is also where you get “trained” for the outside world. But, overall, the Home should be a safe haven for all who dwell in it. Who is responsible for ensuring that a house is … Continue reading Transform a house to a Home: Who’s responsible?
AI-Generated Contents: The Good, The Bad, and The Ugly
With the advent of AI, like everything technology, comes the good, the bad, and the ugly. Buttressing the point that no matter how great any invention could be, there’s always a downside; aka every advantage has a disadvantage. I was initially skeptical of AI; please, don’t mind me - it stemmed from ignorance. But, I … Continue reading AI-Generated Contents: The Good, The Bad, and The Ugly
Let there be Eggs.
Different Types of Eggs. Egg prices rose to $14 for a dozen in some areas of Southern California; not sure what egg prices are nationwide. Eggs in my neighborhood used to cost $2.99 to $7.99; depending on the type of eggs you buy (white, brown, pasture-raised, free range, etc.) and where you shop for your … Continue reading Let there be Eggs.
Irresponsible Procreation
I once met a young African-American couple. The lady was pregnant and excited. I was excited for her. In her excitement, she disclosed that the guy already had eight children by four different women. The conversation took a different turn. I thought out loud that if my daughters were present, they’d cringe at what I … Continue reading Irresponsible Procreation
The Case for Monogamy in Relationships —Particularly in Marriage
In a world where commitment is increasingly viewed as optional, where “open” relationships and polyamory are gaining cultural traction, the case for monogamy (aka one man, one woman) remains as strong as ever — especially in marriage. Monogamy is more than just a societal norm or religious principle; it is the foundation upon which deep … Continue reading The Case for Monogamy in Relationships —Particularly in Marriage
Spring Clean Your Relationship: A Fresh Start for Love
Ways to spring-clean your relationship As winter fades and spring emerges, there’s a collective urge to declutter, refresh, and start anew. Just as we deep-clean our homes and clear out the dust of the past season, our relationships also deserve a reset. Today, March 20, is the arrival of spring and marks not only a … Continue reading Spring Clean Your Relationship: A Fresh Start for Love
Polyamory and Polygamy: A Disrespect to the Women Involved
In recent years, polyamory and polygamy have gained attention as alternative relationship structures. Some argue that these practices offer freedom, personal fulfillment, and unconventional expressions of love. However, beneath the surface, these arrangements often reveal a stark reality: they thrive at the expense of the women involved. A man cannot engage in multiple relationships unless … Continue reading Polyamory and Polygamy: A Disrespect to the Women Involved
Women and Financial Power: Breaking Barriers and Building Legacies
Women’s financial power has been on a remarkable rise across the globe, and as we celebrate Women’s Month, it is essential to highlight the incredible strides women have made in the financial world. From breaking barriers in business and investing to leading multinational corporations, women are not just earning more but also shaping economic policies, … Continue reading Women and Financial Power: Breaking Barriers and Building Legacies
Walking with God: Understanding the Stages of Faith
“Now faith is the substance of things hoped for, the evidence of things not seen.”Hebrews 11:1 KJV Many believers start their walk with God full of excitement and wonder, experiencing immediate answers to prayer and feeling His presence so strongly. But as time goes on, they notice things begin to change—prayers aren’t answered as quickly, … Continue reading Walking with God: Understanding the Stages of Faith
Timely Rainbow
A photo of a rainbow taken on Wednesday, March 12, 2025 at 4:44 PM Growing up, we always got excited when the rainbow appears in the sky. As kids, we would say prayers when one appears. Looking back, those prayers were what I now termed as silly prayers; like, we hope the airplanes would arrive … Continue reading Timely Rainbow
Empowering Women in Relationships:
The month of March has been declared Women’s Month. What better month to serve as a reminder to talk/write about empowering women in every aspect of life: in business, marriage/family, work space, education, politics, governance, STEAM, etc. This post is however about empowering women in relationships, especially in marriage. Empowerment in relationships isn’t about control … Continue reading Empowering Women in Relationships:
Satan Fights Potential Power Couples the Fiercest: The Outcome depends on Who’s in Your Inner Circle?
Power couples and the terms that define them Power Couples Who are Power Couples? We all know them, but probably don’t address them as such. They are two individuals who are both very successful or influential in their own right, and together, they create a dynamic duo that has an even greater impact. They’re often … Continue reading Satan Fights Potential Power Couples the Fiercest: The Outcome depends on Who’s in Your Inner Circle?
Part 3: Polyamorous Men: Why Do Men Have Tons of Children?
A man surrounded by his children This is the third in this Series. We’re talking about men and their multiple relationships, especially in marriages, and the women who aide them. We acknowledge that it’s an age-long issue. But, should we allow it to remain forever? Jump in and let’s have a conversation to understand all … Continue reading Part 3: Polyamorous Men: Why Do Men Have Tons of Children?
Part 2: Polyamorous Men: Why Do Men Sexually Desire Multiple Women in Relationships and Marriage
This is the second in this Series. We’re talking about men and their multiple amorous relationships, especially in marriage, and the women who aide them. Jump in and let’s have a conversation to understand all points of view. In Part 1, we discussed whether men were naturally wired polyamorous. We looked at the various factors … Continue reading Part 2: Polyamorous Men: Why Do Men Sexually Desire Multiple Women in Relationships and Marriage
A Series: Are men naturally wired polyamorous?
An illustration of a man surrounded by several different women, each with unique appearances and expressions. This is a three-part Series (could be more) delving into men, their multiple relationships, and the women who aide them. Polyamorous by Nature? The question of whether men are naturally wired to be polyamorous is a complex one, involving … Continue reading A Series: Are men naturally wired polyamorous?
Your Bank Mistakenly Deposits a Large Sum Into Your Account: Now What?
An unexpected windfall from yourbank Imagine checking your bank account and suddenly seeing trillions—or even just millions—mistakenly deposited. It sounds like a dream come true, but in reality, it can quickly turn into a legal and financial nightmare if handled incorrectly. Chase Bank recently made headlines after mistakenly depositing over $2 trillion into a customer’s … Continue reading Your Bank Mistakenly Deposits a Large Sum Into Your Account: Now What?
Of Prophets and Their Prophetic Words
An illustration of a prophet delivering a prophetic word, surrounded by divine light and a captivated audience. Do you know what a prophetic word is? Have you ever received one (or more) and do you know what to do with it? “… the one who prophesies edifies the church.”1 Corinthians 14:4 NIV What, in the … Continue reading Of Prophets and Their Prophetic Words
American Citizenship for Sale to the Highest Bidders
US Citizenship For Sale President Donald Trump recently unveiled a proposal introducing a “gold card” visa program, that offers a pathway to U.S. citizenship for a $5 million investment. This initiative aims to replace the existing EB-5 Immigrant Investor Program, which currently requires a minimum investment of $1,000,000 in a U.S. business that creates at … Continue reading American Citizenship for Sale to the Highest Bidders
Becoming: The Key to Attracting What You Desire
Become your Authentic Self In a world obsessed with chasing success, love, wealth, and happiness, few realize that becoming is more powerful than pursuing. Rather than desperately running after things, true fulfillment often comes when we become the kind of person who naturally attracts those things. Whether it’s achieving success, finding love, or gaining respect, … Continue reading Becoming: The Key to Attracting What You Desire
I’m loving this photography sessions
Pictures are worth a thousand words. - Frederick R. Barnard Truly inspired by Seb’s Crescent Moon and Venus’ photography post. That post stirred me to publish/share my photography. I’ve always loved taking photos - inherited from my beloved Dad, whose passion (or should I say, hobby? someone just whispered to remind me that I can … Continue reading I’m loving this photography sessions
The Power of Choice: Why Choosing Wisely Whom You Marry Is Essential
How do you know who it’s going to be? Marriage is one of the most significant decisions anyone can make. It is not merely a social contract or a romantic endeavor; it is a life-altering commitment that can either elevate your existence or become a source of profound sorrow. The adage, “Divorce is evil so … Continue reading The Power of Choice: Why Choosing Wisely Whom You Marry Is Essential
The Hierarchy of Honoring People in Your Life
A framework for Honor Do you have a framework for honoring people in your life? If not, I’ll offer you one and you let me know your thoughts on it. The Bible says, “Honor the Lord with your wealth, with the firstfruits of all your crops;”Proverbs 3:9 NIV And Jesus said: “honor your father and … Continue reading The Hierarchy of Honoring People in Your Life
Happy Friday Photos
Hello all, hope your day is going great. It’s Friday and while some still will be grinding, others have put in their 40 hours (or more) and are looking forward to a restful or fun weekend. Whatever you’re doing, make it fun - have fun working or have fun resting. While you do, enjoy these … Continue reading Happy Friday Photos
Seb calls it the Crescent Moon and Venus
Check Seb’s photography blog out. Loved his Crescent Moon and Venus photo - sharp, distinct, and beautiful. I commented that I took similar photo, though I didn’t know what it was called at the time. But I couldn’t ignore it standing out so distinctly in the sky while out for a walk, on The Strand, … Continue reading Seb calls it the Crescent Moon and Venus
The Wounded Soul: How It Disconnects the Spirit and Misaligns the Body
God reveals to redeem. - Prophet Tomi Arayomi God has been dealing with me on this topic of wounded souls that needs to be healed. At first, I didn’t understand why I was coming across folks who have been wounded. We meet, and strike a conversation; the conversations often flow from one topic to the … Continue reading The Wounded Soul: How It Disconnects the Spirit and Misaligns the Body
Part 2: Dynamic Pricing and Apartment Rentals
Dynamic pricing, often referred to as real-time or surge pricing, is a pricing model strategy powered by algorithms and data analytics where the cost of a product or service fluctuates based on market demand, competitor prices, time of day, or other variables., Surprisingly, dynamic pricing is prevalent in the real estate rental market. We touched … Continue reading Part 2: Dynamic Pricing and Apartment Rentals
Love & Marriage: 30 Things You Won’t Do—And 30 You’ll Be Compelled to Do, Just Because
Ah, love and marriage! They say love makes the world go round, but in marriage, it also makes the dishes get done, the car mysteriously refill with gas, and the last slice of cake magically end up on your spouse’s plate (even when you really wanted it). ************************************** 🤍❤️💗 Happy Valentine’s Day! To all lovebirds … Continue reading Love & Marriage: 30 Things You Won’t Do—And 30 You’ll Be Compelled to Do, Just Because
Happy Valentine’s Day
Oh, Valentine, a day so bright,Where hearts take wing in love’s sweet light.The air is laced with joy and cheer,A whispered promise, warm and near. Red, white, and pink roses bloom with silent speech,Their petals soft, their fragrance sweet.A token sent, a love confessed,A beating heart, a soul caressed. But love, dear love, is more … Continue reading Happy Valentine’s Day
Self-Love Focus: Loving Yourself First to Love Your Spouse
Many people enter relationships hoping to find fulfillment, validation, and happiness through their spouses. However, the truth is that a strong, healthy relationship starts with self-love. You cannot fully love someone else if you don’t love yourself first. When you cultivate self-love, you bring confidence, emotional stability, and a sense of completeness into the relationship … Continue reading Self-Love Focus: Loving Yourself First to Love Your Spouse
National Marriage Week (February 7–14): Strengthening Your Bond
Wedding/Marriage The National Marriage Week started on February 7th and ends on Valentine’s Day; the 14th of February. Yours truly has been extremely busy with moving, hence just posting this. Anyhow, Shout out to all married couples in the WordPress Community and my subscribers. May the love between you and yours grow stronger and stronger. … Continue reading National Marriage Week (February 7–14): Strengthening Your Bond
When Your Own Household Becomes Your Enemy: The Cost of Following Jesus
Is your faith Inherited or Chosen? One of the most challenging aspects of faith is realizing that sometimes, the greatest opposition comes not from strangers, but from those closest to us — our own family, friends, and community. Jesus warned about this when He said: “A man’s enemies will be those of his own household.” … Continue reading When Your Own Household Becomes Your Enemy: The Cost of Following Jesus
The Pursuit of Happiness: A Path to Genuine Fulfillment or a Fleeting Illusion?
The pursuit of happiness. Thomas Jefferson first penned it in the Declaration of Independence: “Life, Liberty and the pursuit of Happiness." Will Smith and his son, Jaden, did a movie (2006) with the title. The movie is also available in book format. I’ve heard the statement sung in my ears more times than I … Continue reading The Pursuit of Happiness: A Path to Genuine Fulfillment or a Fleeting Illusion?
Challenges and Outcomes of Marrying the Wrong Person: A Three-Part Series
Different married couples Marriage is often portrayed as a union of love, trust, and mutual respect, but the reality is that not every marital journey unfolds as smoothly as expected. For some individuals, saying “I do” to the wrong person can lead to a myriad of challenges and outcomes that profoundly impact their lives. From … Continue reading Challenges and Outcomes of Marrying the Wrong Person: A Three-Part Series
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