Marriage, at its core, is a partnership. It’s a union where two individuals come together, bringing their unique perspectives, values, and strengths to create a life together. But what happens when questions of freedom and equity arise? Are they essential to a healthy marriage, or do they undermine its foundation? It all depends on which … Continue reading What Does Freedom and Equity Look Like in Marriage? Should They Exist?
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What a Day! MLK Day and Donald Trump’s Second Inauguration: A Godincidence?
Today, January 20, 2025, is not a coincidence, but a Godincidence. Today is both Martin Luther King Jr. (MLK) Day and the Presidential Inauguration of Donald Trump (DT) as the 47th President of the United States. It’s a unique convergence. The Significance of the Day Martin Luther King Jr. Day is observed annually on the … Continue reading What a Day! MLK Day and Donald Trump’s Second Inauguration: A Godincidence?
The Abortion Debate: Reframing From A Biblical Perspective on Accountability and Responsibility
Abortion is not only the Woman’s Choice or Issue Abortion is one of the most polarizing topics in our society today, often debated from moral, ethical, and spiritual perspectives. However, much of the conversation tends to focus on the consequences—whether to permit or prohibit abortion—while neglecting the root causes that lead to these situations. At … Continue reading The Abortion Debate: Reframing From A Biblical Perspective on Accountability and Responsibility
Turning Mistakes and Failures into Tools for Others’ Success
 We all make mistakes. We all face setbacks. It’s part of being human. However, what truly matters is how we learn from those experiences and, more importantly, how we share those lessons with others. Many people are quick to learn from others’ successes, but what if the real power lies in learning from their … Continue reading Turning Mistakes and Failures into Tools for Others’ Success
Which Season is Your Favorite?
The Different Seasons and Colors Each season carries its unique beauty, offering something special for everyone. Some embrace the vibrant energy of summer, while others cherish the cozy charm of winter. Let’s explore the essence of each season and discover what makes them beloved by many. Winter: A Cozy Wonderland Winter is a season of … Continue reading Which Season is Your Favorite?
Towards Financial Freedom: A Married Couple’s Guide to Unity in Finances
Marriage and Money Introduction “When two become one” isn’t just about sharing a last name or a home. It’s about uniting every aspect of your lives, including finances. For many couples, navigating money matters can be one of the most challenging and rewarding parts of marriage. Whether you’re newlyweds or seasoned partners, building a solid … Continue reading Towards Financial Freedom: A Married Couple’s Guide to Unity in Finances
Wickedness: A Path of Destruction that Leads Nowhere Good
It seems so elementary that we all ought to know better. Yet it occurs daily; sometime, unnecessary and unwarranted. Yet, in a world fraught with injustice, cruelty, and pain, it’s hard to ignore the wickedness often perpetrated by one human being against another. Whether it’s deceit, betrayal, violence, or oppression, wickedness comes in many forms. … Continue reading Wickedness: A Path of Destruction that Leads Nowhere Good
Marriage Wellness Quiz Series
How strong is your marriage? 💍 “Marriage is to be held in honor among all [that is, regarded as something of great value] ...”Hebrews 13:4 AMP Every relationship has its own rhythm, but have you ever wondered where yours really stands? Don’t take each other for granted this New Year. Treat each other with mutual … Continue reading Marriage Wellness Quiz Series
Sleep: Why Do We All Need It In Different Amounts?
The various Sleep Patterns Sleep is an essential part of life, vital for physical health, mental clarity, and emotional well-being. But why is it that some people thrive on as little as 2–4 hours of sleep per night, while others need the full 8–10 hours to function? The answer lies in a complex interplay of … Continue reading Sleep: Why Do We All Need It In Different Amounts?
Of Intercessions and Intercessors: A Comprehensive Guide
Intercession is a sacred practice in which one person stands in the gap before God on behalf of others. Intercessors are those who carry this calling, dedicating their time, energy, and prayers to advocate for individuals, communities, or nations. This article delves into the role of intercession, the privileges and challenges of being an intercessor, … Continue reading Of Intercessions and Intercessors: A Comprehensive Guide
Dynamic Pricing
Dynamic pricing across various industries. Dynamic pricing, often referred to as real-time or surge pricing, is a pricing strategy where the cost of a product or service fluctuates based on market demand, competitor prices, time of day, or other variables. This pricing model is powered by algorithms and data analytics, making it a key strategy … Continue reading Dynamic Pricing
12 Tips For Building Good Relationships: A Guide to Thriving Connections
Good relationships are the foundation of a fulfilling personal and professional life. Whether it’s a friendship, romantic relationship, workplace, business, or neighborhood connection, nurturing strong bonds enriches our lives with trust, support, and mutual growth. But good relationships don’t just happen; they require effort, patience, and intentionality. Good relationships don’t just happen; they require effort, … Continue reading 12 Tips For Building Good Relationships: A Guide to Thriving Connections
The Day After Christmas: A Time to Recuperate
Is Boxing Day about the Boxing Gloves or the Gift Boxes? The day after Christmas often feels like an emotional and physical whirlwind. The weeks leading up to December 25 are filled with preparation: shopping for gifts, planning family gatherings, cooking feasts, and decorating homes. While Christmas Day is the crescendo of this festive symphony, … Continue reading The Day After Christmas: A Time to Recuperate
How Do You Plan for Christmas? Do You Have a Family Tradition or Not?
Family, Friends, Food, and Gifts are a part of the Christmas Traditions. Ah, Christmas! The most wonderful time of the year—or, depending on your perspective, the most chaotic. Just four days away and the countdown has begun. Whether you’re a meticulous planner or a last-minute sprinter, the question remains: how do you prepare for the … Continue reading How Do You Plan for Christmas? Do You Have a Family Tradition or Not?
The Difference Between Being Lonely and Preferring to Be Alone
Human beings are social creatures, yet our relationship with solitude varies widely. Some find joy in solitude, while others experience deep loneliness. It is important to understand the difference between being lonely and preferring to be alone, as these states can significantly impact our emotional well-being and social relationships. Defining Loneliness and Preferring to Be … Continue reading The Difference Between Being Lonely and Preferring to Be Alone
Are You an Introvert or an Extrovert And Do You Ever Wish You Were the Opposite?
A diagram showing the different socially-inclined personalities. one thrives in solitude, the other finds energy in social connections. In the tapestry of human personalities, the line between introverts and extroverts is fascinating. While one thrives in solitude, the other finds energy in social connections. Both types have their unique strengths and struggles, yet many of … Continue reading Are You an Introvert or an Extrovert And Do You Ever Wish You Were the Opposite?
The Paradox of Insurance for the Average American: Part 1
Various Types of Insurance Coverages expected of the Average American The Insurance Industry has been in the news lately. But, honestly, when are they ever not in the news? Sadly, the CEO of one of the largest in the Industry was recently killed in an ambushed-style shooting. Our thoughts and prayers go out to his … Continue reading The Paradox of Insurance for the Average American: Part 1
Sabbath Day and Rest: God’s Weekly Invitation to Recharge
God’s invitation to rest in Him In a world where hustle culture reigns supreme, Sundays can feel like just another day to catch up on tasks—or for many, a busy workday. Some might even find themselves working every day just to make ends meet. But what if we took God’s invitation to rest seriously? The … Continue reading Sabbath Day and Rest: God’s Weekly Invitation to Recharge
Of Incubus and Succubus
An incubus and a succubus with their seductive, demonic allure in a dark, intimate setting Read The Spiritual Perspective of Sex in Dreams to fully understand this post. While the concepts of Incubus and Succubus originated from folklore and mythology, they have become significant in Christian deliverance ministries. This shift stems from the recognition … Continue reading Of Incubus and Succubus
The Spiritual Perspective of Sex in Dreams
A person sleeping and dreaming The world of Dreams is vast. From a biblical standpoint, God speaks to us in dreams though we may not know Him or understand it. “For God speaks in one way, and in two, though man does not perceive it. In a dream, in a vision of the night, … Continue reading The Spiritual Perspective of Sex in Dreams
Soul Ties
Soul ties formed through sex, especially multiple sexual relationships, are the hardest to break Soul ties are deep emotional, spiritual, or physical connections that form between individuals. These connections can have both positive and negative implications depending on their nature and how they are formed. Soul ties can happen in several ways. Here’s a few: … Continue reading Soul Ties
Black Friday
Ladies on a Black Friday shopping spree The Origin Black Friday, now synonymous with frenzied shopping and deep discounts, has an interesting history. The term originally emerged in the 1950s in Philadelphia, where it was used to describe the day after Thanksgiving when massive crowds of suburban shoppers and tourists would flood the city ahead … Continue reading Black Friday
Billionaires in America
Billionaire Images in America According to Forbes, there are 813 billionaires in the U.S.A.. Also, United States is considered to be the wealthiest country in the world in terms of size of economies or overall gross wealth. (Forbes.com) United States has 345 million people of which less than half (161.5 million) are employed according to … Continue reading Billionaires in America
Philanthrocapitalism and Corporate Social Responsibility (CSR)—
We all know what capitalism is and have heard of philanthropy and Corporate Social Responsibility (CSR). But have you heard of Philanthrocapitalism? How much exactly do you/we really know? Are these terms actually working for our society or are they funnels for more founders’ profits? Is it possible to do good while profiteering - can … Continue reading Philanthrocapitalism and Corporate Social Responsibility (CSR)—
Part 2: Should a Man Listen to His Mom’s Advice About His Relationship?
A messy triangle of mother-son-wife Continuing our article on whether sons should listen to their mothers regarding their relationships. In Part 1, we reviewed the Pros and Cons of men taking relationship advice from their mothers and gave advice to mothers who have unresolved feelings about their son’s choice of woman. Read Part 1 here. … Continue reading Part 2: Should a Man Listen to His Mom’s Advice About His Relationship?
Quincy Jones: The Legendary Maestro. 1933-2024
Credits: Wikipedia. Quincy Jones I was a teenager in London, U.K., when I first heard about Quincy Jones, popularly known in the music industry simply as “Q.” My aunt, who once lived in San Francisco, CA for many years, adores him. I learned about Q long before I smelled the shores of the USA. Sadly, … Continue reading Quincy Jones: The Legendary Maestro. 1933-2024
The Man, Elon Musk: A Cool Billionaire (Soon Trillionaire) with Geek Appeal
I’ve recently started following Elon Musk, and let me tell you—I love his style. For a man of his caliber; being the richest man in America, and in the world, one often touted as the future’s first trillionaire (yes, trillionaire—it’s not even in the dictionary yet), he comes across as surprisingly down-to-earth. And for someone … Continue reading The Man, Elon Musk: A Cool Billionaire (Soon Trillionaire) with Geek Appeal
Being Strategic in Life: The Path to Purpose and Fulfillment
Wheel of Personal Success We often hear about strategies and strategic planning in business. It is equally important to have personal strategies, be strategic, and live strategically in life. By being strategic, you gain clarity on what matters most, prioritize your resources, and make decisions that lead to long-term fulfillment. In business, strategies serve as … Continue reading Being Strategic in Life: The Path to Purpose and Fulfillment
Understanding Class Statuses in America: Does the Middle Class Still Exist?
In the United States, social class is more than just income—it encompasses lifestyle, education, occupation, and overall economic stability. The traditional class structure, often segmented into lower, working, middle, upper-middle, and upper classes, has been the foundation of American society for generations. However, as economic dynamics have evolved, so has the concept of the “middle … Continue reading Understanding Class Statuses in America: Does the Middle Class Still Exist?
Inglewood, CA: Fast Becoming “The City That Never Sleeps”
The City of Inglewood, once known primarily for its residential neighborhoods and proximity to Los Angeles, has rapidly transformed into a vibrant entertainment and economic hub. Earning the City of Angels its new reputation as “The City That Never Sleeps.” The latest addition of the Intuit Dome, new home of the Los Angeles Clippers, complements Inglewood’s … Continue reading Inglewood, CA: Fast Becoming “The City That Never Sleeps”
When Your Prayers Seem To Go Unanswered
When prayers seem to go unanswered, and you find yourself feeling overlooked in various areas of life, it’s easy to feel disheartened. The silence can be deafening, and doubts might creep in, making you question your worth or whether you’re on the right path. This season can feel isolating, leaving you wondering why your prayers … Continue reading When Your Prayers Seem To Go Unanswered
Short-Term Peace, Long-Term Pain: The Flip Side of Keeping Mute from Telling a Loved One When In Error
A previous post was about how not to keep silent when a loved one errs or is veering off the wrong path. The post gave eight (8) reasons why it’s better speak up, in love, when a loved one is on a wrong path or making the wrong choices. This post, as the title shows, … Continue reading Short-Term Peace, Long-Term Pain: The Flip Side of Keeping Mute from Telling a Loved One When In Error
Loving Someone Through Their Bad Choices
Tough love is not about harshness; it's about fostering self-reliance, resilience, and personal accountability.” - Unknown Most of us have experienced watching a loved one veer a wrong path or make unhealthy choices. It hurts. Trying to balance loving such person while, simultaneously, wondering if to talk to them about their choices becomes a challenge. What … Continue reading Loving Someone Through Their Bad Choices
Relocating from a Higher Cost of Living Area to a Lower One: California vs. Texas or Ohio
I visited Texas (Austin and Houston) this past weekend. It’s not my first time in Texas or these cities. But the first time that I actually paid some attention! The food was different (southern) and portions were big. I chose not to visit any food franchise available in California. Speeding is highly frowned upon with … Continue reading Relocating from a Higher Cost of Living Area to a Lower One: California vs. Texas or Ohio
Why So Angry? The Hidden Cost of Living in a Perpetual Funk
Anger is a negative emotion We’ve all been there. That person who cuts you off in traffic, the slow internet just when you’re about to send that important email, or your favorite coffee shop running out of the good croissants. Before you know it, you’re on edge. But why does this happen, and what does … Continue reading Why So Angry? The Hidden Cost of Living in a Perpetual Funk
The Beauty of Loving Others Up Close: Embracing Imperfection in Relationships
We’re all broken people We all know the feeling. At first, everyone seems good, nice, and flawless from afar. Whether it’s a friendship, romantic relationship, or even a work connection, initial interactions often highlight the best in others. But what happens when we step closer, get to know people on a deeper level, and begin … Continue reading The Beauty of Loving Others Up Close: Embracing Imperfection in Relationships
Of Countries and People
A parallel between countries and people Countries, like people, mature and thrive at different rates. Just as individuals’ development is shaped by a myriad of factors, nations too are influenced by various elements. When a country gains independence, it is akin to a child asserting adulthood, proclaiming the desire to make its own decisions. However, … Continue reading Of Countries and People
Part II – Separation
Is there a place for Separation when a marriage is in distress? The answer is: Maybe. Separation, like Divorce, is hard on the Family Separation can work in very specific cases—when both parties genuinely want to reconcile but need a break from the conflict to refocus on themselves and what they want from the marriage. … Continue reading Part II – Separation
Why do we revel at another’s downfall or misfortune?
Social media’s influence on Bad News and Trending Topics Social media has indoctrinated people to talk and post about trending topics, issues, and people. These trends can be both positive or negative. Positive news is awesome to read and share. But, we all know that the negative news sells the most, gets the most attention, … Continue reading Why do we revel at another’s downfall or misfortune?
Giannis Antetokounmpo!
Hey all. I know. I know. I know that the NBA Season hasn’t started. So, why are we talking about Giannis, the only Giannis in the NBA, or should I say, in America?! 🙂 Giannis is no longer available 🥹 https://youtu.be/OSBan_sH_b8?feature=shared Nigerian acclaimed artist, Davido’s video of “Unavailable” Yes, a year after being officially engaged, … Continue reading Giannis Antetokounmpo!
The Importance and Purpose of Testimonies in a Christian’s Life
People sharing their Testimonies Testimonies hold a vital place in the life of a Christian, functioning as more than just personal stories of faith. They are powerful declarations of God’s work, affirmations of His grace, and instruments for strengthening both individual and communal faith. Understanding the importance and purpose of testimonies helps Christians embrace their … Continue reading The Importance and Purpose of Testimonies in a Christian’s Life
My Wellness Green Juice
I made myself a Green Juice this morning. I had planned to sleep in today so I bought the ingredients last night. Enjoy the video of the making of my Wellness Green Juice. This week will also be my Green Juice week. Making of Mana’s Green Juice I made fresh Beets Juice last week but, … Continue reading My Wellness Green Juice
Show me your friends
The wheels that should rotate your social circle. The old adage, “Show me your friends, and I’ll tell you who you are,” often holds true in several cases, but particularly where men engage in destructive behaviors without intervention from their social circles. There are several reasons why friends may fail to advise or step in, … Continue reading Show me your friends
Hommes Fatales
Hommes Fatales are like deadly pills to Women I describe men who act abusively or neglectfully in relationships as "hommes fatales." These types of men tend to operate from a place of ignorance, entitlement, or deep-seated insecurities using (or rather, dangling), their money power as a means or bait. It is ignorance and manifests as … Continue reading Hommes Fatales
Meal Prep-per for Hire
Meals prepped to save time and money Today’s topic is essential for personal finance purposes. If you want to save time and money, hire a dedicated meal prep-per for a fraction of the money spent dining at restaurants or ordering food delivery. It was a service I once incorporated into my catering business some years … Continue reading Meal Prep-per for Hire
Honey vs. Sugar: Is Honey Really a Better Sweetener Substitute?
Which would you choose - honey or sugar? Honey has long been touted as a healthier alternative to sugar, especially when it comes to sweetening your morning coffee or afternoon tea. But with honey’s high sugar content, many wonder whether it’s genuinely a better option. Despite honey’s natural sugars, there are compelling reasons why it … Continue reading Honey vs. Sugar: Is Honey Really a Better Sweetener Substitute?
African Men and Relationships in the Western World: A Culture Clash
African couples in different postures Moving to a new country often brings with it a whirlwind of experiences. I‘m unsure of other cultures. But, for my African brothers settling in the Western world, the transition can be particularly challenging. Cultural norms and societal expectations in the West can differ significantly from those back home, creating … Continue reading African Men and Relationships in the Western World: A Culture Clash
The Poor, the Rich, and the Wealthy: Understanding the Key Characteristics and Differences Between Them
Key concepts between the Poor, Rich, and Wealthy https://brightlanelearning.org/2024/01/poverty-in-america/ In today’s society, wealth and financial status often serve as markers of success. However, not everyone fully understands the distinctions between being poor, rich, and wealthy. These terms are often used interchangeably, but they each represent different mindsets, lifestyles, and financial strategies. In this post, we’ll … Continue reading The Poor, the Rich, and the Wealthy: Understanding the Key Characteristics and Differences Between Them
Dealing with Health Issues: A Medical and Spiritual Perspective
Medical and Spiritual Healing Dealing with health issues is an inevitable part of life. Whether minor or major, these challenges often require us to navigate complex decisions about treatment, lifestyle adjustments, and emotional coping strategies. While the medical approach offers concrete, evidence-based solutions, the spiritual perspective provides emotional and existential support, helping individuals find meaning … Continue reading Dealing with Health Issues: A Medical and Spiritual Perspective
Emotionless: The Priceless Value of Emotional Regulation
Can you be emotionless for a day? Take a Poll here Thanks for taking the Poll. Can you be Emotionless for a day? Being Emotionless in a world of Emotions In a world often dominated by the intense expression of emotions, the concept of being "emotionless" can seem paradoxical or even undesirable. However, this term … Continue reading Emotionless: The Priceless Value of Emotional Regulation
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