My Walk https://videopress.com/v/iwUoOJgG?resizeToParent=true&cover=true&preloadContent=metadata&useAverageColor=true https://videopress.com/v/NoAfemU6?resizeToParent=true&cover=true&preloadContent=metadata&useAverageColor=true Protests against Prop 50 Last Saturday, on my walk, I came across some protesters. I drew near to see what they were protesting about. It was about Prop 50. Of course, there were other issues, but Prop 50 stood out on the placard of many. Have you heard about it or … Continue reading Proposition 50: What California Voters Need to Know in 2025
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When Polarization Shows Up in Society — and in Our Homes
We often hear the word polarizing used to describe public figures — leaders, celebrities, activists — who stir up strong feelings of either admiration or resentment. The truth is that anyone standing up for truth is polarized because s/he is making the other person pause and consider another (or other) aspect(s) of an issue, if … Continue reading When Polarization Shows Up in Society — and in Our Homes
When the Camera Doesn’t Lie: A Frank Analysis of Andy Byron’s Viral Moment
Andy Byron and Kristin Cabot were caught on Coldplay’s “kiss cam.” Credits: Grace Springer via Storyful What was your reaction on seeing that viral video? I was disgusted. It was supposed to be a fun night out. A Coldplay concert. A kiss cam. A playful tradition. But for former Astronomer CEO Andy Byron and HR head … Continue reading When the Camera Doesn’t Lie: A Frank Analysis of Andy Byron’s Viral Moment
The Spirit of Haman: How the Ancient Story of Esther Still Speaks Today
https://videopress.com/v/Z1jyv3c6?resizeToParent=true&cover=true&preloadContent=metadata&useAverageColor=true The story of Haman in the Book of Esther is more than just an ancient tale of palace intrigue—it’s a timeless reminder of the dangers of unchecked ego, misplaced power, and hidden agendas. Though he lived in the Persian Empire over two thousand years ago, Haman’s spirit lives on. In churches, workplaces, families, and … Continue reading The Spirit of Haman: How the Ancient Story of Esther Still Speaks Today
Trading Bricks for the Breeze: Why Some People Choose to Live on Yachts Instead of in Homes
Yachts Parked on The Sea I walk along the beach at least three days a week and meet a lot of people. I also love to strike conversations on various topics with the people. One of such conversations is why they chose to live on their yachts, instead of on land in a home. This … Continue reading Trading Bricks for the Breeze: Why Some People Choose to Live on Yachts Instead of in Homes
Why Our Parents Didn’t Make It Financially Big — And How We Can
Hard Word doesn’t equate Wealth They worked hard. Gave their best. Sacrificed much.Yet, for many of our parents, financial greatness never quite happened. So what held them back? And more importantly — what can we do differently? Let’s unpack it. They Chose Security, Not Scalability Our parents valued safety — and who can blame them? … Continue reading Why Our Parents Didn’t Make It Financially Big — And How We Can
When Power Dated Wealth: Lessons from a Relationship Gone Wrong
They were unstoppable. One wanted to change the world with rockets.The other wanted to rule it with laws. But like so many relationships — romantic or otherwise — it all started with admiration … and ended in memes, silence, and passive-aggressive tweets. In our fictional satire, Max Titan and Preston Valor symbolized what happens when … Continue reading When Power Dated Wealth: Lessons from a Relationship Gone Wrong
“Wealth Is a State of Mind” – Napoleon Hill
A lady who works hard but her money does not equate to her hard work “Money does not come to the busy, nor to the needy, nor even the deserving… Wealth is not earned by toil alone. There are millions of men who toil harder than the wealthiest, but who only receive a fraction of … Continue reading “Wealth Is a State of Mind” – Napoleon Hill
Moral Clarity and When Truths Collide: Your Truth, My Truth — Which is Right?
Moral Clarity/Compass Moral Clarity in a Subjective World We are now in an age where moral clarity is seen as offensive — because if I say something is objectively wrong, it implies someone else is objectively wrong too. And that’s uncomfortable. So society often leans toward moral relativism — the belief that morality depends on … Continue reading Moral Clarity and When Truths Collide: Your Truth, My Truth — Which is Right?
Freedom of Religion and the Fight for Moral Clarity in America
America still The Beautiful, Great, and Wonderful America was founded on the bold ideals of liberty, justice, and the inalienable rights of all people. Among those rights, freedom of religion stands tall — enshrined in the First Amendment, protected by law, and deeply tied to the conscience of the nation. But somewhere along the journey … Continue reading Freedom of Religion and the Fight for Moral Clarity in America
Part 5: ✈️ Lessons from the Sky: Reflections at 30,000 Feet
Pressure is real either up air in the cabin Cabin Pressure & Emotional Pressure — What’s Holding You Together? Somewhere above the clouds, while sipping lukewarm tea and listening to the hum of the engine, I had a quiet realization: no one here looks like they’re under pressure, but we all are. The plane cabin … Continue reading Part 5: ✈️ Lessons from the Sky: Reflections at 30,000 Feet
Part 4: ✈️ Lessons from the Sky: Reflections at 30,000 Feet
The Quiet Connections of Strangers Passing Strangers & Parallel Lives — The Quiet Connections We Overlook There’s a moment during boarding when you lock eyes with strangers. People trying to find their seats, stowing bags, checking for outlets. You share a nod, a smile, maybe an apology as you shuffle past. And then, for the … Continue reading Part 4: ✈️ Lessons from the Sky: Reflections at 30,000 Feet
Part 3: ✈️ Lessons from the Sky: Reflections at 30,000 Feet
Everyone’s Going Somewhere … But Are We Headed in the Right Direction? Sitting in the cabin of a plane, looking at the sea of passengers ahead and behind, I’m struck by a quiet truth: we’re all in motion. We’re all going somewhere. But motion isn’t the same as direction. And direction isn’t the same as … Continue reading Part 3: ✈️ Lessons from the Sky: Reflections at 30,000 Feet
Part 2: ✈️ Lessons from the Sky: Reflections at 30,000 Feet
Of Layovers, Delays & Detours — When Life Doesn’t Go According to Plan You know that sigh you let out when you hear the announcement:“Ladies and gentlemen, your flight has been delayed…”Or worse: “We’re being rerouted due to weather.” Nobody claps. Nobody celebrates. Because we love control. We love certainty. We want smooth, predictable journeys … Continue reading Part 2: ✈️ Lessons from the Sky: Reflections at 30,000 Feet
Part 1: What Being in the Air Taught Me About Life on the Ground … ✈️ Lessons from the Sky: Reflections at 30,000 Feet
Soaring between the clouds, problems look smaller There’s something surreal about being suspended in the air —thousands of feet above the earth, watching the clouds float by like cotton dreams. In that quiet space between departure and arrival, time seems to pause, and the soul begins to whisper. The stress of planning and getting ready … Continue reading Part 1: What Being in the Air Taught Me About Life on the Ground … ✈️ Lessons from the Sky: Reflections at 30,000 Feet
Intro: ✈️ Lessons from the Sky — Reflections at 30,000 Feet
A lady in a window seat of an airplane Sometimes, we need to leave the ground to see things clearly. Life doesn’t always make sense when you’re in it. But every now and then, God gives you altitude—space, silence, and stillness—to gain perspective. Another trip, found me 30,000 feet above ground, sitting in a window … Continue reading Intro: ✈️ Lessons from the Sky — Reflections at 30,000 Feet
A Man’s Enemy Is Within His Household: Understanding Matthew 10:36
Things that can cause enmity “A man’s enemies will be the members of his own household.”— Matthew 10:36 (NIV) The above scripture, on which this post is based, is a piercing truth — one that stings more deeply than betrayal from a stranger ever could. It’s one thing to face opposition from the world, but … Continue reading A Man’s Enemy Is Within His Household: Understanding Matthew 10:36
Happy Birthday to Me
Yet another year - the second anniversary of my 60th. 60 has never been so good. With the “No King” protests all over the nation, my day was very quiet. I hope your neighborhood wasn’t so chaotic. Grateful yet again for my life: Thank You, Father God for all the good You made come my … Continue reading Happy Birthday to Me
Series Title: When Life Doesn’t Add Up: Part 3: When Playing It Safe Becomes Playing Small
You didn’t want to fail.You didn’t want to disappoint anyone.So you stayed where it was safe — in the role you knew, the lane you understood, the space that felt predictable. You told yourself, “I’m just being wise.”But deep down, something else was at play: fear. The fear of looking foolish.The fear of wasting time.The … Continue reading Series Title: When Life Doesn’t Add Up: Part 3: When Playing It Safe Becomes Playing Small
Work Hard or Work Smart: Which would you rather do?
Work Hard vs Work Smart Great question — and the short answer is: the ideal is to work both hard and smart. You don’t have to choose one over the other. But understanding the difference between them helps you maximize your time, energy, and results. 🔍 What’s the Difference? 🛠️ Working Hard Means putting in … Continue reading Work Hard or Work Smart: Which would you rather do?
When God Doesn’t Act Swiftly When We Need Him To: Understanding Divine Delay in the Face of Wickedness
A Reminder that Delay is not Denial There’s a moment most believers experience—watching wickedness thrive while righteousness suffers—and wondering, “God, where are You?” Why does it seem that evil gets a free pass while justice is delayed? Why doesn’t God strike down wrongdoers right when we need Him to? These are deeply human questions. Even … Continue reading When God Doesn’t Act Swiftly When We Need Him To: Understanding Divine Delay in the Face of Wickedness
There Are No Perfect Parents or Families
There’s none that’s perfect: none, and an emblem canceling the perfect inscription We all begin our lives with a limited lens. We grow up thinking our family is the standard. As children, we see our parents and families as the entire world. Our parents are either everything or, for some, not enough. That their way … Continue reading There Are No Perfect Parents or Families
A Parent’s Anguish: When Adult Siblings Stop Speaking to Each Other
A parent in the middle of adult siblings squabbling There are few things more heart-wrenching for a parent, especially a mother, than watching their children—once close, bonded by shared memories, secrets, and laughter—drift apart or worse, become estranged. When adult siblings stop speaking to one another, it doesn’t just affect them; it pierces the parent’s … Continue reading A Parent’s Anguish: When Adult Siblings Stop Speaking to Each Other
Mental Wellness for Families: Building a Home That Heals, Not Hurts
Mentally Aware Happy families Welcome to the Family Wellness Series—a heartfelt journey into creating mentally and emotionally healthy homes. Whether you’re a parent, caregiver, spouse, or sibling, these posts are designed to help you foster connection, heal wounds, and build a legacy of love and stability. Because when the home is whole, everyone inside it … Continue reading Mental Wellness for Families: Building a Home That Heals, Not Hurts
Mental Wellness for Couples: Strengthening Love from the Inside Out
Mental health awareness The month of May is almost over. But do you remember that it is the Mental Health Awareness Month? Or did you, like me, almost or totally forgot? Though we’re nearing the end of it, there’s never a bad time to talk about the one thing that affects every part of our … Continue reading Mental Wellness for Couples: Strengthening Love from the Inside Out
Promiscuity: Understanding the Causes and Finding Healing
A life basket containing possible causes of Promiscuity Why are some people promiscuous? You might know someone who is and, I hope like I do, you wonder why they are so. This is definitely not about judging but to deep dive into the why - is it biological, a disease, self-inflicted, or what? Promiscuity—defined as … Continue reading Promiscuity: Understanding the Causes and Finding Healing
Satan’s Snares – How the Enemy Traps the Uninformed and Ignorant
Satan cages his victims with snares In today’s world, full of voices, choices, and distractions, many are unknowingly stepping into traps laid by the enemy. The Bible warns us that Satan is cunning, relentless, and strategic. He doesn’t waste time setting traps for those who are alert and armed—he targets those who are uninformed, careless, … Continue reading Satan’s Snares – How the Enemy Traps the Uninformed and Ignorant
Part 2: The Quiet Grief of an Unlived Life
Downloadable version of post Because sometimes, what hurts most is not what we lost — but what we never allowed ourselves to live. It’s not always the loud tragedies that break us.Sometimes, it’s the slow ache.The quiet realization that life — the one you were supposed to have — didn’t quite happen. You smile. You … Continue reading Part 2: The Quiet Grief of an Unlived Life
Boldness Is a Superpower – God’s Gift, Not Arrogance
A lion staring Boldness is not simply a character trait—it is a spiritual gift and divine superpower. 2 Timothy 1:7 reminds us, “For God has not given us the spirit of fear, but of power, and of love, and of a sound mind.” Yet, in a world that often glorifies silence or false humility, boldness … Continue reading Boldness Is a Superpower – God’s Gift, Not Arrogance
Part I: When Legacy Becomes Liability – The Unspoken Rules Behind Shedeur Sanders’ NFL Draft Snub
Shedeur Sanders. Credits: Yahoo Sports: “This one is personal. I’m not an avid football fan per se - only watching when it gets to playoffs and championships. However, this year’s draft being in the news after the end of Round 1, got me curious as the whole process unfolded. I couldn’t shake what it revealed … Continue reading Part I: When Legacy Becomes Liability – The Unspoken Rules Behind Shedeur Sanders’ NFL Draft Snub
Part 1: When You’ve Done Everything Right, But Life Still Feels Wrong
when you’ve done everything right There’s a quiet ache that comes when you’ve done your best…You worked hard,kept your head down, did what you were told.You stayed honest.You took the narrow road.You followed the rules.You stayed out of trouble. You tried to live right — even when no one was watching. You were taught that … Continue reading Part 1: When You’ve Done Everything Right, But Life Still Feels Wrong
Intro Post to Launch a New Series: When Life Doesn’t Add Up — An Invitation to the Ones Who Tried
when life doesn’t add up You did what they told you to do.You stayed in line.You were responsible.You tried to be good.You worked hard — not just at your job, but at life.At showing up.At holding it all together.At being the person everyone could count on. But quietly, painfully, you’re asking:Why am I still stuck?Why … Continue reading Intro Post to Launch a New Series: When Life Doesn’t Add Up — An Invitation to the Ones Who Tried
Is Truth Absolute or Subjective? The Battle Between “My Truth” and “The Truth”
your experience is real, but it is not always the truth in a universal sense. We live in an era where phrases like “Speak your truth” or “That’s just my truth” are thrown around with ease and applause. On the surface, these words sound empowering — liberating, even. But when you dig a little deeper, … Continue reading Is Truth Absolute or Subjective? The Battle Between “My Truth” and “The Truth”
The Paradox of Being a First-Born Child: A Blessing and a Burden
“First of My Kind” I was the first, the opening line, A chapter written before the ink was dry. Their love was fresh, their hands unsure, I learned the rules, then watched them blur. I wore the crown of oldest child, But bore a weight that never smiled. Expected much, forgiven less, The test run … Continue reading The Paradox of Being a First-Born Child: A Blessing and a Burden
The Irony of Doctors and Medications: When Healing Feels Like a Trap
I met a 29-year-old man recently who, through a weary sigh, told me he’s been trying to convince his doctors to take him off his medications — but they won’t. They either change the medication, raise the dose, or recommend adding a new one. It’s a frustrating cycle. He feels stuck. Powerless. Like his life … Continue reading The Irony of Doctors and Medications: When Healing Feels Like a Trap
Acura Grand Prix is happening in Long Beach
Flags of contestants It’s the 50th Anniversary of the world-class, and America’s #1 Street, Race. Packed with fun activities for the weekend. Free tickets (valued at $44) are also available for today for Long Beach residents. Here’s the weekend schedule Weekend schedule For more details, download their app or check the event website. I’ve always … Continue reading Acura Grand Prix is happening in Long Beach
Have Church Leaders Failed God’s People—Or Are We Looking in the Wrong Direction?
Follow me as I follow Christ In recent years, the veil has been lifted on some disturbing truths within the Church. Stories of secret sins, financial manipulation, sexual abuse, and toxic leadership — once whispered rumors — are now headlines. The very shepherds entrusted to tend God’s flock have sometimes become wolves in disguise. And … Continue reading Have Church Leaders Failed God’s People—Or Are We Looking in the Wrong Direction?
It’s National Self-Care Day
It was a busy day for me today. So busy that I had to remind myself to take it easy. It has been a loooong time that I got this busy dashing from one event to the other. I thought those days were behind me! Apparently, it’s April 5th - National Self-Care Day; a dedicated … Continue reading It’s National Self-Care Day
When Convenience Meets Credit: The Klarna + DoorDash Dilemma
Klarna is a Swedish fintech company that offers “buy now, pay later” (BNPL) services, among other payment solutions. It lets shoppers split purchases into interest-free installments, pay after delivery, or finance purchases over time. It’s integrated with many online retailers and also has a mobile app where users can track spending, manage payments, and sometimes … Continue reading When Convenience Meets Credit: The Klarna + DoorDash Dilemma
National Walking Day: Why You Should Step Into a Healthier Lifestyle
People walking Did you know it’s National Walking Day? Every year, on the first Wednesday of April, which is today, people across the country celebrate this day as a reminder of the simple yet powerful benefits of walking. While it may not come with the fanfare of major holidays, this day highlights an activity that … Continue reading National Walking Day: Why You Should Step Into a Healthier Lifestyle
Transform a house to a Home: Who’s responsible?
Variables for transforming a house to a Home The home is where one runs to for solace, security, and belonging. It is also where you get “trained” for the outside world. But, overall, the Home should be a safe haven for all who dwell in it. Who is responsible for ensuring that a house is … Continue reading Transform a house to a Home: Who’s responsible?
AI-Generated Contents: The Good, The Bad, and The Ugly
With the advent of AI, like everything technology, comes the good, the bad, and the ugly. Buttressing the point that no matter how great any invention could be, there’s always a downside; aka every advantage has a disadvantage. I was initially skeptical of AI; please, don’t mind me - it stemmed from ignorance. But, I … Continue reading AI-Generated Contents: The Good, The Bad, and The Ugly
Eggs. Eggs. Eggs.
Brown and White Eggs Eggs have been in the news - it’s their time. 😀 So, what can we learn more about them than their recent rising prices?There are more to learn about eggs - I learned a couple of things writing this post. Read along to find out if you’ll learn somethings about eggs, … Continue reading Eggs. Eggs. Eggs.
Is Being Nice Costing You?
In a world that often values boldness and assertiveness, being kind and agreeable is seen as a virtue. However, what if that kindness comes at a hidden cost? While being nice can build connections and help maintain harmony, the reality is that it may come with unexpected emotional, mental, and even financial costs. Let’s explore … Continue reading Is Being Nice Costing You?
“Don’t Give Up – This, Too, Shall Pass Away”
The sun sets everyday, but rises the next. The road may twist, the shadows fall,A whisper says, “You’ve lost it all.”But deep within, an ember glows,A quiet strength that softly grows. Don’t give up, though tears may stream,Hold fast to hope, reclaim your dream.The night is long, the dawn delayed,Yet every step is courage made. … Continue reading “Don’t Give Up – This, Too, Shall Pass Away”
I’ve become fascinated by these
I have been in this part of town for about two months. It’s a beautiful place; one that I didn’t realize its beauty till I became a constant visitor to its neighborhood. I haven’t seen this many rigs anywhere like this place has. It’s as if there’s one in everyone’s backyard. I was captivated by … Continue reading I’ve become fascinated by these
Let there be Eggs.
Different Types of Eggs. Egg prices rose to $14 for a dozen in some areas of Southern California; not sure what egg prices are nationwide. Eggs in my neighborhood used to cost $2.99 to $7.99; depending on the type of eggs you buy (white, brown, pasture-raised, free range, etc.) and where you shop for your … Continue reading Let there be Eggs.
Irresponsible Procreation
I once met a young African-American couple. The lady was pregnant and excited. I was excited for her. In her excitement, she disclosed that the guy already had eight children by four different women. The conversation took a different turn. I thought out loud that if my daughters were present, they’d cringe at what I … Continue reading Irresponsible Procreation
The Case for Monogamy in Relationships —Particularly in Marriage
In a world where commitment is increasingly viewed as optional, where “open” relationships and polyamory are gaining cultural traction, the case for monogamy (aka one man, one woman) remains as strong as ever — especially in marriage. Monogamy is more than just a societal norm or religious principle; it is the foundation upon which deep … Continue reading The Case for Monogamy in Relationships —Particularly in Marriage
Spring Clean Your Relationship: A Fresh Start for Love
Ways to spring-clean your relationship As winter fades and spring emerges, there’s a collective urge to declutter, refresh, and start anew. Just as we deep-clean our homes and clear out the dust of the past season, our relationships also deserve a reset. Today, March 20, is the arrival of spring and marks not only a … Continue reading Spring Clean Your Relationship: A Fresh Start for Love
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