eBook Cover I’m passionate about many things, particularly, marriage, family, and relationships. I’ve blogged tons about it and have been working on a book to share my experiences. The book is taking much longer than anticipated, but this eBook marks the first step. If we all “prepared” for marriage, I’m sure there’d be fewer divorces, … Continue reading “So You Think You’re Ready …”
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Irresponsible Procreation
I once met a young African-American couple. The lady was pregnant and excited. I was excited for her. In her excitement, she disclosed that the guy already had eight children by four different women. The conversation took a different turn. I thought out loud that if my daughters were present, they’d cringe at what I … Continue reading Irresponsible Procreation
The Case for Monogamy in Relationships —Particularly in Marriage
In a world where commitment is increasingly viewed as optional, where “open” relationships and polyamory are gaining cultural traction, the case for monogamy (aka one man, one woman) remains as strong as ever — especially in marriage. Monogamy is more than just a societal norm or religious principle; it is the foundation upon which deep … Continue reading The Case for Monogamy in Relationships —Particularly in Marriage
Polyamory and Polygamy: A Disrespect to the Women Involved
In recent years, polyamory and polygamy have gained attention as alternative relationship structures. Some argue that these practices offer freedom, personal fulfillment, and unconventional expressions of love. However, beneath the surface, these arrangements often reveal a stark reality: they thrive at the expense of the women involved. A man cannot engage in multiple relationships unless … Continue reading Polyamory and Polygamy: A Disrespect to the Women Involved
Women and Financial Power: Breaking Barriers and Building Legacies
Women’s financial power has been on a remarkable rise across the globe, and as we celebrate Women’s Month, it is essential to highlight the incredible strides women have made in the financial world. From breaking barriers in business and investing to leading multinational corporations, women are not just earning more but also shaping economic policies, … Continue reading Women and Financial Power: Breaking Barriers and Building Legacies
Empowering Women in Relationships:
The month of March has been declared Women’s Month. What better month to serve as a reminder to talk/write about empowering women in every aspect of life: in business, marriage/family, work space, education, politics, governance, STEAM, etc. This post is however about empowering women in relationships, especially in marriage. Empowerment in relationships isn’t about control … Continue reading Empowering Women in Relationships:
Part 3: Polyamorous Men: Why Do Men Have Tons of Children?
A man surrounded by his children This is the third in this Series. We’re talking about men and their multiple relationships, especially in marriages, and the women who aide them. We acknowledge that it’s an age-long issue. But, should we allow it to remain forever? Jump in and let’s have a conversation to understand all … Continue reading Part 3: Polyamorous Men: Why Do Men Have Tons of Children?
Part 2: Polyamorous Men: Why Do Men Sexually Desire Multiple Women in Relationships and Marriage
This is the second in this Series. We’re talking about men and their multiple amorous relationships, especially in marriage, and the women who aide them. Jump in and let’s have a conversation to understand all points of view. In Part 1, we discussed whether men were naturally wired polyamorous. We looked at the various factors … Continue reading Part 2: Polyamorous Men: Why Do Men Sexually Desire Multiple Women in Relationships and Marriage
A Series: Are men naturally wired polyamorous?
An illustration of a man surrounded by several different women, each with unique appearances and expressions. This is a three-part Series (could be more) delving into men, their multiple relationships, and the women who aide them. Polyamorous by Nature? The question of whether men are naturally wired to be polyamorous is a complex one, involving … Continue reading A Series: Are men naturally wired polyamorous?
The Power of Choice: Why Choosing Wisely Whom You Marry Is Essential
How do you know who it’s going to be? Marriage is one of the most significant decisions anyone can make. It is not merely a social contract or a romantic endeavor; it is a life-altering commitment that can either elevate your existence or become a source of profound sorrow. The adage, “Divorce is evil so … Continue reading The Power of Choice: Why Choosing Wisely Whom You Marry Is Essential
Self-Love Focus: Loving Yourself First to Love Your Spouse
Many people enter relationships hoping to find fulfillment, validation, and happiness through their spouses. However, the truth is that a strong, healthy relationship starts with self-love. You cannot fully love someone else if you don’t love yourself first. When you cultivate self-love, you bring confidence, emotional stability, and a sense of completeness into the relationship … Continue reading Self-Love Focus: Loving Yourself First to Love Your Spouse
What Does Freedom and Equity Look Like in Marriage? Should They Exist?
Marriage, at its core, is a partnership. It’s a union where two individuals come together, bringing their unique perspectives, values, and strengths to create a life together. But what happens when questions of freedom and equity arise? Are they essential to a healthy marriage, or do they undermine its foundation? It all depends on which … Continue reading What Does Freedom and Equity Look Like in Marriage? Should They Exist?
The Abortion Debate: Reframing From A Biblical Perspective on Accountability and Responsibility
Abortion is not only the Woman’s Choice or Issue Abortion is one of the most polarizing topics in our society today, often debated from moral, ethical, and spiritual perspectives. However, much of the conversation tends to focus on the consequences—whether to permit or prohibit abortion—while neglecting the root causes that lead to these situations. At … Continue reading The Abortion Debate: Reframing From A Biblical Perspective on Accountability and Responsibility
America is NOT Ready for a Female President: Still A Complex Road Ahead
Illustration of global female presidents Of the 195 countries in the world, at least a third (60+) have had female presidents, with 13 currently in office. Of those numbers, the continent of Africa has had ten (10) female presidents, including both elected and acting leaders. And there are currently two (2) in office, namely, Samia … Continue reading America is NOT Ready for a Female President: Still A Complex Road Ahead
Part 3: Should a Man Listen to His Mom’s Advice About His Relationship?
The man in the middle of a relationship triangle This is our final post of our article on whether sons should listen to their mothers regarding their relationships. In Part 1, we reviewed the Pros and Cons of men taking relationship advice from their mothers and gave advice to mothers who have unresolved feelings about … Continue reading Part 3: Should a Man Listen to His Mom’s Advice About His Relationship?
Show me your friends
The wheels that should rotate your social circle. The old adage, “Show me your friends, and I’ll tell you who you are,” often holds true in several cases, but particularly where men engage in destructive behaviors without intervention from their social circles. There are several reasons why friends may fail to advise or step in, … Continue reading Show me your friends
Hommes Fatales
Hommes Fatales are like deadly pills to Women I describe men who act abusively or neglectfully in relationships as "hommes fatales." These types of men tend to operate from a place of ignorance, entitlement, or deep-seated insecurities using (or rather, dangling), their money power as a means or bait. It is ignorance and manifests as … Continue reading Hommes Fatales
Strong Women of Africa
Credy: azquotes Africa humbly boasts of a few first women. From the first African female Head of State, Ellen Johnson Sirleaf of Liberia, to Asnath Mahapa, the first African woman to become a pilot in South Africa, to Wangari Maathai, the first African woman to receive the Nobel Peace Prize, to Ngozi Okonjo-Iweala, the first … Continue reading Strong Women of Africa
Monday Notes: Being a Woman: Facts and Receipts
Being a woman feels like being everything and nothing all at once. It feels like being the gender who bears children, but not being the …Monday Notes: Being a Woman: Facts and Receipts Sharing #K.E. Garland’s post published in March. Please check out her site for other awesome posts. Just came across this post, Being … Continue reading Monday Notes: Being a Woman: Facts and Receipts
Ladies and Their Last Names
Credits: Unsplash / @austinkirk Is’t necessary for ladies to change their last name on marriage? Credits: Unsplash / @beatriz_perez First, what’s in a last name? Or, put another way, what’s in your last name? Some regions call it surname. Your last name/surname is your legacy. Your DNA. Traditions In researching for this post, I found … Continue reading Ladies and Their Last Names
Strong Women of Africa
The Strong Women Series was written to showcase notable Strong Women in the world, broken down as continents. In honor of International Women's Day, and celebrating all women globally, the Series is being re-blogged. Read on
Strong Women of Australia / Oceania: Australia – A Curation
Credits: Left, Joey Csunyo / Unsplash; Right, Worldometers Introduction There are only 14 countries in the Australia/Oceania. Australia, which is the only continent that is also a country, has three countries; namely, Australia, Papua New Guinea, and part of Indonesia. Australia also has more female government leaders than any of the Continents that I have … Continue reading Strong Women of Australia / Oceania: Australia – A Curation
Strong Women of The Americas – North II – Canada
Source: CanadasHistory.ca Preamble Successful women everywhere have been known to defy several odds in their pursuit of success. But those odds are immensely more for the Strong Women. In addition to all the challenges that women already face, the Strong Woman has more to contend with mentally. Mentally Strong Women though caring and nurturing, are … Continue reading Strong Women of The Americas – North II – Canada
What makes a man marry several women?
Libido? Cupidity? Power (Clout) and Control, Social Status, Shortage of men, or simply because they can and the women allow it? Your answer is as good as mine. . . . Polygamy is the act of marrying multiple spouses, simultaneously or sequentially, without first divorcing the other spouse. Sociologists have different terms when the man … Continue reading What makes a man marry several women?
If men only knew … 5 Things men ought to know
Credits: Pexels If only men knew the gift of God that He gave them, men would handle their wives with utmost care and treat them as precious jewels. Out of the bones of Adam (Genesis 2:21-23), Eve, the mother of all living (Genesis 20:3), was formed. And His Word said, “..., ye husbands, dwell with … Continue reading If men only knew … 5 Things men ought to know
Mental Health: Women and Home Management
http://www.mindbodygreen.com/articles/what-is-the-mental-load The awareness of mental health issues keep growing. Now we recognize a lot of health issues (that lead to diseases) that previously had been ignored. I came across this article via a Twitter feed. Informative and worth reading. Women have been pitched into "holding the home forth." Little do the men/husband/significant others realize that … Continue reading Mental Health: Women and Home Management
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