Yachts Parked on The Sea I walk along the beach at least three days a week and meet a lot of people. I also love to strike conversations on various topics with the people. One of such conversations is why they chose to live on their yachts, instead of on land in a home. This … Continue reading Trading Bricks for the Breeze: Why Some People Choose to Live on Yachts Instead of in Homes
Life, Lifestyle, and Living
Why Our Parents Didnโt Make It Financially Big โ And How We Can
Hard Word doesnโt equate Wealth They worked hard. Gave their best. Sacrificed much.Yet, for many of our parents, financial greatness never quite happened. So what held them back? And more importantly โ what can we do differently? Letโs unpack it. They Chose Security, Not Scalability Our parents valued safety โ and who can blame them? … Continue reading Why Our Parents Didnโt Make It Financially Big โ And How We Can
I have been in a comatose (literally!)
https://videopress.com/v/qTeDwcw3?resizeToParent=true&cover=true&preloadContent=metadata&useAverageColor=true I have been sleeping all these years (or was it comatose?) and finally woke up by a word I read. Yes, you got that right - a word! Well, maybe six words which said โdied at 39, buried at 70!โ It hit home like thunder striking at my heart and fire shot through my … Continue reading I have been in a comatose (literally!)
Part 5: โ๏ธ Lessons from the Sky: Reflections at 30,000 Feet
Pressure is real either up air in the cabin Cabin Pressure & Emotional Pressure โ Whatโs Holding You Together? Somewhere above the clouds, while sipping lukewarm tea and listening to the hum of the engine, I had a quiet realization: no one here looks like theyโre under pressure, but we all are. The plane cabin … Continue reading Part 5: โ๏ธ Lessons from the Sky: Reflections at 30,000 Feet
Part 4: โ๏ธ Lessons from the Sky: Reflections at 30,000 Feet
The Quiet Connections of Strangers Passing Strangers & Parallel Lives โ The Quiet Connections We Overlook Thereโs a moment during boarding when you lock eyes with strangers. People trying to find their seats, stowing bags, checking for outlets. You share a nod, a smile, maybe an apology as you shuffle past. And then, for the … Continue reading Part 4: โ๏ธ Lessons from the Sky: Reflections at 30,000 Feet
Part 3: โ๏ธ Lessons from the Sky: Reflections at 30,000 Feet
Everyoneโs Going Somewhere โฆ But Are We Headed in the Right Direction? Sitting in the cabin of a plane, looking at the sea of passengers ahead and behind, Iโm struck by a quiet truth: weโre all in motion. Weโre all going somewhere. But motion isnโt the same as direction. And direction isnโt the same as … Continue reading Part 3: โ๏ธ Lessons from the Sky: Reflections at 30,000 Feet
Part 2: โ๏ธ Lessons from the Sky: Reflections at 30,000 Feet
Of Layovers, Delays & Detours โ When Life Doesnโt Go According to Plan You know that sigh you let out when you hear the announcement:โLadies and gentlemen, your flight has been delayedโฆโOr worse: โWeโre being rerouted due to weather.โ Nobody claps. Nobody celebrates. Because we love control. We love certainty. We want smooth, predictable journeys … Continue reading Part 2: โ๏ธ Lessons from the Sky: Reflections at 30,000 Feet
Series Title: When Life Doesnโt Add Up: Part 3: When Playing It Safe Becomes Playing Small
You didnโt want to fail.You didnโt want to disappoint anyone.So you stayed where it was safe โ in the role you knew, the lane you understood, the space that felt predictable. You told yourself, โIโm just being wise.โBut deep down, something else was at play: fear. The fear of looking foolish.The fear of wasting time.The … Continue reading Series Title: When Life Doesnโt Add Up: Part 3: When Playing It Safe Becomes Playing Small
Promiscuity: Understanding the Causes and Finding Healing
A life basket containing possible causes of Promiscuity Why are some people promiscuous? You might know someone who is and, I hope like I do, you wonder why they are so. This is definitely not about judging but to deep dive into the why - is it biological, a disease, self-inflicted, or what? Promiscuityโdefined as … Continue reading Promiscuity: Understanding the Causes and Finding Healing
The Irony of Doctors and Medications: When Healing Feels Like a Trap
I met a 29-year-old man recently who, through a weary sigh, told me heโs been trying to convince his doctors to take him off his medications โ but they wonโt. They either change the medication, raise the dose, or recommend adding a new one. Itโs a frustrating cycle. He feels stuck. Powerless. Like his life … Continue reading The Irony of Doctors and Medications: When Healing Feels Like a Trap
Itโs National Self-Care Day
It was a busy day for me today. So busy that I had to remind myself to take it easy. It has been a loooong time that I got this busy dashing from one event to the other. I thought those days were behind me! Apparently, itโs April 5th - National Self-Care Day; a dedicated … Continue reading Itโs National Self-Care Day
Eggs. Eggs. Eggs.
Brown and White Eggs Eggs have been in the news - itโs their time. ๐ So, what can we learn more about them than their recent rising prices?There are more to learn about eggs - I learned a couple of things writing this post. Read along to find out if youโll learn somethings about eggs, … Continue reading Eggs. Eggs. Eggs.
American Citizenship for Sale to the Highest Bidders
US Citizenship For Sale President Donald Trump recently unveiled a proposal introducing a โgold cardโ visa program, that offers a pathway to U.S. citizenship for a $5 million investment. This initiative aims to replace the existing EB-5 Immigrant Investor Program, which currently requires a minimum investment of $1,000,000 in a U.S. business that creates at … Continue reading American Citizenship for Sale to the Highest Bidders
The Power of Choice: Why Choosing Wisely Whom You Marry Is Essential
How do you know who itโs going to be? Marriage is one of the most significant decisions anyone can make. It is not merely a social contract or a romantic endeavor; it is a life-altering commitment that can either elevate your existence or become a source of profound sorrow. The adage, โDivorce is evil so … Continue reading The Power of Choice: Why Choosing Wisely Whom You Marry Is Essential
The Wounded Soul: How It Disconnects the Spirit and Misaligns the Body
God reveals to redeem. - Prophet Tomi Arayomi God has been dealing with me on this topic of wounded souls that needs to be healed. At first, I didnโt understand why I was coming across folks who have been wounded. We meet, and strike a conversation; the conversations often flow from one topic to the … Continue reading The Wounded Soul: How It Disconnects the Spirit and Misaligns the Body
Love & Marriage: 30 Things You Wonโt DoโAnd 30 Youโll Be Compelled to Do, Just Because
Ah, love and marriage! They say love makes the world go round, but in marriage, it also makes the dishes get done, the car mysteriously refill with gas, and the last slice of cake magically end up on your spouseโs plate (even when you really wanted it). ************************************** ๐คโค๏ธ๐ Happy Valentineโs Day! To all lovebirds … Continue reading Love & Marriage: 30 Things You Wonโt DoโAnd 30 Youโll Be Compelled to Do, Just Because
Self-Love Focus: Loving Yourself First to Love Your Spouse
Many people enter relationships hoping to find fulfillment, validation, and happiness through their spouses. However, the truth is that a strong, healthy relationship starts with self-love. You cannot fully love someone else if you donโt love yourself first. When you cultivate self-love, you bring confidence, emotional stability, and a sense of completeness into the relationship … Continue reading Self-Love Focus: Loving Yourself First to Love Your Spouse
National Marriage Week (February 7โ14): Strengthening Your Bond
Wedding/Marriage The National Marriage Week started on February 7th and ends on Valentineโs Day; the 14th of February. Yours truly has been extremely busy with moving, hence just posting this. Anyhow, Shout out to all married couples in the WordPress Community and my subscribers. May the love between you and yours grow stronger and stronger. … Continue reading National Marriage Week (February 7โ14): Strengthening Your Bond
When Your Own Household Becomes Your Enemy: The Cost of Following Jesus
Is your faith Inherited or Chosen? One of the most challenging aspects of faith is realizing that sometimes, the greatest opposition comes not from strangers, but from those closest to us โ our own family, friends, and community. Jesus warned about this when He said: โA manโs enemies will be those of his own household.โ … Continue reading When Your Own Household Becomes Your Enemy: The Cost of Following Jesus
The Pursuit of Happiness: A Path to Genuine Fulfillment or a Fleeting Illusion?
The pursuit of happiness. Thomas Jefferson first penned it in the Declaration of Independence: โLife, Liberty and the pursuit of Happiness." Will Smith and his son, Jaden, did a movie (2006) with the title. The movie is also available in book format. Iโve heard the statement sung in my ears more times than I … Continue reading The Pursuit of Happiness: A Path to Genuine Fulfillment or a Fleeting Illusion?
The Fine Balance Between Bluntness, Honesty, Tact, and Wisdom
The Rungs of the Ladder We all know someone who is so blunt that they alienate people away from, with their bluntness and truthfulness, than they draw towards themselves. I used to be and once fell at the bottom rung of that ladder. But, thank God, that I am no longer there. I moved up … Continue reading The Fine Balance Between Bluntness, Honesty, Tact, and Wisdom
Turning Mistakes and Failures into Tools for Othersโ Success
๏ฟผ We all make mistakes. We all face setbacks. Itโs part of being human. However, what truly matters is how we learn from those experiences and, more importantly, how we share those lessons with others. Many people are quick to learn from othersโ successes, but what if the real power lies in learning from their … Continue reading Turning Mistakes and Failures into Tools for Othersโ Success
Sleep: Why Do We All Need It In Different Amounts?
The various Sleep Patterns Sleep is an essential part of life, vital for physical health, mental clarity, and emotional well-being. But why is it that some people thrive on as little as 2โ4 hours of sleep per night, while others need the full 8โ10 hours to function? The answer lies in a complex interplay of … Continue reading Sleep: Why Do We All Need It In Different Amounts?
New Year, New Beginnings: New Yearโs Relationship Resolutions
The dawn of a new year brings with it a sense of renewal, fresh opportunities, and the chance to redefine our lives, especially our relationships. Whether youโre single or in a committed partnership, the start of the year offers a unique chance to reflect on your relationship goals and take action to nurture the connections … Continue reading New Year, New Beginnings: New Yearโs Relationship Resolutions
The Difference Between Being Lonely and Preferring to Be Alone
Human beings are social creatures, yet our relationship with solitude varies widely. Some find joy in solitude, while others experience deep loneliness. It is important to understand the difference between being lonely and preferring to be alone, as these states can significantly impact our emotional well-being and social relationships. Defining Loneliness and Preferring to Be … Continue reading The Difference Between Being Lonely and Preferring to Be Alone
Are You an Introvert or an Extrovert And Do You Ever Wish You Were the Opposite?
A diagram showing the different socially-inclined personalities. one thrives in solitude, the other finds energy in social connections. In the tapestry of human personalities, the line between introverts and extroverts is fascinating. While one thrives in solitude, the other finds energy in social connections. Both types have their unique strengths and struggles, yet many of … Continue reading Are You an Introvert or an Extrovert And Do You Ever Wish You Were the Opposite?
Part 2: The Paradox of Insurance
The different types of Insurance Here's a concise overview of Part 1 of this article listing the essential insurance types for comfortable living in the U.S.: 1. Health Insurance is essential to cover medical expenses, which can be exorbitantly high without insurance. Types of health insurance are private (through employers or the marketplace), Medicare (for … Continue reading Part 2: The Paradox of Insurance
The Paradox of Insurance for the Average American: Part 1
Various Types of Insurance Coverages expected of the Average American The Insurance Industry has been in the news lately. But, honestly, when are they ever not in the news? Sadly, the CEO of one of the largest in the Industry was recently killed in an ambushed-style shooting. Our thoughts and prayers go out to his … Continue reading The Paradox of Insurance for the Average American: Part 1
Philanthrocapitalism and Corporate Social Responsibility (CSR)โ
We all know what capitalism is and have heard of philanthropy and Corporate Social Responsibility (CSR). But have you heard of Philanthrocapitalism? How much exactly do you/we really know? Are these terms actually working for our society or are they funnels for more foundersโ profits? Is it possible to do good while profiteering - can … Continue reading Philanthrocapitalism and Corporate Social Responsibility (CSR)โ
Part 2: Should a Man Listen to His Momโs Advice About His Relationship?
A messy triangle of mother-son-wife Continuing our article on whether sons should listen to their mothers regarding their relationships. In Part 1, we reviewed the Pros and Cons of men taking relationship advice from their mothers and gave advice to mothers who have unresolved feelings about their sonโs choice of woman. Read Part 1 here. … Continue reading Part 2: Should a Man Listen to His Momโs Advice About His Relationship?
Should a Man Listen to His Momโs Advice About His Relationship? Weighing the Pros and Cons
Man torn between the women in his life Counseling a man, supposedly, in love is a tricky issue for anyone to dabble into. Same for women. However, and generally speaking, women are more levelheaded in receiving relationship advices than men. But what happens when the counseling or advice is coming from the manโs mother or … Continue reading Should a Man Listen to His Momโs Advice About His Relationship? Weighing the Pros and Cons
The Man, Elon Musk: A Cool Billionaire (Soon Trillionaire) with Geek Appeal
Iโve recently started following Elon Musk, and let me tell youโI love his style. For a man of his caliber; being the richest man in America, and in the world, one often touted as the futureโs first trillionaire (yes, trillionaireโitโs not even in the dictionary yet), he comes across as surprisingly down-to-earth. And for someone … Continue reading The Man, Elon Musk: A Cool Billionaire (Soon Trillionaire) with Geek Appeal
Relocating from a Higher Cost of Living Area to a Lower One: California vs. Texas or Ohio
I visited Texas (Austin and Houston) this past weekend. Itโs not my first time in Texas or these cities. But the first time that I actually paid some attention! The food was different (southern) and portions were big. I chose not to visit any food franchise available in California. Speeding is highly frowned upon with … Continue reading Relocating from a Higher Cost of Living Area to a Lower One: California vs. Texas or Ohio
Why So Angry? The Hidden Cost of Living in a Perpetual Funk
Anger is a negative emotion Weโve all been there. That person who cuts you off in traffic, the slow internet just when youโre about to send that important email, or your favorite coffee shop running out of the good croissants. Before you know it, youโre on edge. But why does this happen, and what does … Continue reading Why So Angry? The Hidden Cost of Living in a Perpetual Funk
The Beauty of Loving Others Up Close: Embracing Imperfection in Relationships
Weโre all broken people We all know the feeling. At first, everyone seems good, nice, and flawless from afar. Whether itโs a friendship, romantic relationship, or even a work connection, initial interactions often highlight the best in others. But what happens when we step closer, get to know people on a deeper level, and begin … Continue reading The Beauty of Loving Others Up Close: Embracing Imperfection in Relationships
Of Countries and People
A parallel between countries and people Countries, like people, mature and thrive at different rates. Just as individualsโ development is shaped by a myriad of factors, nations too are influenced by various elements. When a country gains independence, it is akin to a child asserting adulthood, proclaiming the desire to make its own decisions. However, … Continue reading Of Countries and People
How will you end the last quarter of 2024? Personal Performance Review
Itโs performance review time. Only itโs going to be a self review. How have you done so far and how do you think you will end the last quarter of 2024? Honestly answering these questions will help us all to end better than we started. I cannot believe how fast 2024 went. It certainly confirms … Continue reading How will you end the last quarter of 2024? Personal Performance Review
Why do we revel at anotherโs downfall or misfortune?
Social mediaโs influence on Bad News and Trending Topics Social media has indoctrinated people to talk and post about trending topics, issues, and people. These trends can be both positive or negative. Positive news is awesome to read and share. But, we all know that the negative news sells the most, gets the most attention, … Continue reading Why do we revel at anotherโs downfall or misfortune?
The Importance and Purpose of Testimonies in a Christianโs Life
People sharing their Testimonies Testimonies hold a vital place in the life of a Christian, functioning as more than just personal stories of faith. They are powerful declarations of Godโs work, affirmations of His grace, and instruments for strengthening both individual and communal faith. Understanding the importance and purpose of testimonies helps Christians embrace their … Continue reading The Importance and Purpose of Testimonies in a Christianโs Life
Hommes Fatales
Hommes Fatales are like deadly pills to Women I describe men who act abusively or neglectfully in relationships as "hommes fatales." These types of men tend to operate from a place of ignorance, entitlement, or deep-seated insecurities using (or rather, dangling), their money power as a means or bait. It is ignorance and manifests as … Continue reading Hommes Fatales
Meal Prep-per for Hire
Meals prepped to save time and money Todayโs topic is essential for personal finance purposes. If you want to save time and money, hire a dedicated meal prep-per for a fraction of the money spent dining at restaurants or ordering food delivery. It was a service I once incorporated into my catering business some years … Continue reading Meal Prep-per for Hire
Part II:Delicacies of Cultural Diversities – The Birds Kind
There are more unique delicacies from around the world that reflect the incredible diversity of cultural cuisines. Letโs dive deeper into delicacies, of the birds kind, that stretch the boundaries of culinary creativity, enjoyed in various countries and cultures that might seem repugnant or unusual to others: Ortolan Bunting โ FranceThe Ortolan Bunting is a … Continue reading Part II:Delicacies of Cultural Diversities – The Birds Kind
Delicacies of Cultural Diversities – Part I
When it comes to delicacies, one man's feast may be another's nightmare. There are numerous delicacies worldwide that push the boundaries of what some find palatable. Foods considered a delicacy in one culture can seem repugnant or unusual in another. These unique dishes often reflect deep-rooted traditions, local resources, and cultural values. Credit: TastingTables - … Continue reading Delicacies of Cultural Diversities – Part I
Economics 101
Put on your thinking (or is it, your green) cap for some intro to some, and refresher for others. Set your brain to the left. I hope you came with your notepad (youโre allowed to use your iPhone), pen, and retentive memory. You will need this class for your lifetime. You might want to memorize … Continue reading Economics 101
Causes, Managing, and Overcoming Phobias: Practical Advice and Insights
Phobias are intense, irrational fears of specific objects, situations, or activities that can significantly impact an individual's daily life. Phobias often lead to avoidance behaviors, which can exacerbate the problem. In a previous post, we looked at various common phobias. Click here to read it. This post provides the causes of phobia, and practical advice … Continue reading Causes, Managing, and Overcoming Phobias: Practical Advice and Insights
Vulnerability in Relationships: The Key to Genuine Connection
Vulnerability in Relationships builds deeper Intimacy In a world where strength and independence are often celebrated, vulnerability can sometimes be perceived as a weakness. However, in the realm of relationships, vulnerability is not only a strength but a crucial component for fostering deep and meaningful connections. Embracing vulnerability in relationships can lead to greater intimacy, … Continue reading Vulnerability in Relationships: The Key to Genuine Connection
Dual (and Multiple) Citizenship: Understanding the Benefits and Drawbacks
Dual or Multiple Citizenship Introduction In an increasingly globalized world, the concept of dual or multiple citizenship has become more prevalent. Holding citizenship in more than one country can offer numerous advantages but also comes with its own set of challenges. This post delves into the benefits and drawbacks of dual and multiple citizenship and … Continue reading Dual (and Multiple) Citizenship: Understanding the Benefits and Drawbacks
Calculated Risks
In life and business, success often hinges on the ability to take risks. However, not all risks are created equal. While some are reckless gambles, others are well-thought-out decisions with a strategic purpose. These latter types are known as calculated risks. What Are Calculated Risks? A calculated risk is a decision or action taken after … Continue reading Calculated Risks
Buy a Home: Now or Later?
Buy a Honey or Wait? Many are wondering if it is a good time to buy and own a home. Though the rates are higher today than they were four years ago, the truth is that there is no guarantee whether the rates will go lower or continue higher. So what do home shoppers do … Continue reading Buy a Home: Now or Later?
Setting Boundaries: A Key to Healthy Relationships
Setting Healthy Boundaries In my post on Trust, I alluded to setting boundaries once trust has been broken. How do we set those boundaries? This post answers the question, โhow do you set those boundaries?โ What are Boundaries? Boundaries are โlimits that separate acceptable behaviors from unacceptable behaviors.โ (dictionary.com) Boundaries are essential for preserving our … Continue reading Setting Boundaries: A Key to Healthy Relationships
Think-Talk 
You must be logged in to post a comment.