Anger is a negative emotion We’ve all been there. That person who cuts you off in traffic, the slow internet just when you’re about to send that important email, or your favorite coffee shop running out of the good croissants. Before you know it, you’re on edge. But why does this happen, and what does … Continue reading Why So Angry? The Hidden Cost of Living in a Perpetual Funk
The Beauty of Loving Others Up Close: Embracing Imperfection in Relationships
We’re all broken people We all know the feeling. At first, everyone seems good, nice, and flawless from afar. Whether it’s a friendship, romantic relationship, or even a work connection, initial interactions often highlight the best in others. But what happens when we step closer, get to know people on a deeper level, and begin … Continue reading The Beauty of Loving Others Up Close: Embracing Imperfection in Relationships
4-Week Countdown
Countdown to the 2024 Presidential Election Exactly four weeks to the most pivotal of America’s elections. I hope that you registered to vote. But, it’s not enough to register. You gotta cast that vote either by mail or in person. It’s your civic duty. Cast your vote - it can make the difference. See you … Continue reading 4-Week Countdown
My social media aversion
I signed up for my first social media accounts as a requirement during my MPA. I made just enough posts to enable me scale through the specific classes. Prior to that, I hadn’t embraced social media for personal reasons. I didn’t feel comfortable being on those platforms. I then had a short stint at an … Continue reading My social media aversion
Being Puffed Up: The Perils of Pride, Knowledge, and Money
In life, we often encounter forces that can elevate us while also posing significant risks. Among these, pride, knowledge, and money stand out as three things that can puff people up and lead to their downfall. The Scriptures provide timeless wisdom on how to navigate these challenges, encouraging humility, virtue , temperance, and discernment. Pride: … Continue reading Being Puffed Up: The Perils of Pride, Knowledge, and Money
A month to Election Day
Who will you vote for? One more opportunity to decide … click link below to watch live https://twitter.com/i/broadcasts/1nAKEpDdkgyxL
Of Countries and People
A parallel between countries and people Countries, like people, mature and thrive at different rates. Just as individuals’ development is shaped by a myriad of factors, nations too are influenced by various elements. When a country gains independence, it is akin to a child asserting adulthood, proclaiming the desire to make its own decisions. However, … Continue reading Of Countries and People
Happy First Friday
It's the first Friday in October. There are three NBA preseason games scheduled for today in Abu Dhabi. Watch them all if you're off work or free. Happy Friday!
Part II – Separation
Is there a place for Separation when a marriage is in distress? The answer is: Maybe. Separation, like Divorce, is hard on the Family Separation can work in very specific cases—when both parties genuinely want to reconcile but need a break from the conflict to refocus on themselves and what they want from the marriage. … Continue reading Part II – Separation
Nigeria at 64
Nigeria celebrated its independence from Britain yesterday, October 1st. https://youtu.be/EaM9CIf-oiA?feature=shared Music made about Nigeria 40 years ago still apropos today. Credits: YouTube/Lawal At 64 years of independence, Nigeria finds itself at a critical juncture, still grappling with challenges that have impeded its full development. As the largest economy in Africa and with a rich cultural … Continue reading Nigeria at 64
How will you end the last quarter of 2024? Personal Performance Review
It’s performance review time. Only it’s going to be a self review. How have you done so far and how do you think you will end the last quarter of 2024? Honestly answering these questions will help us all to end better than we started. I cannot believe how fast 2024 went. It certainly confirms … Continue reading How will you end the last quarter of 2024? Personal Performance Review
Let’s talk about Separation in Marriage – Part I
Couples on verge of a separation Among women aged 15-44 years, 51% divorce after one year of separation, 76% after three years, and 84% after five years(onlinedivorce.com) Personally, separation doesn’t make sense. Why Separate, Given the Subsequent Divorce Rates? The statistics — 51% divorce after one year, 76% after three years, and 84% after five … Continue reading Let’s talk about Separation in Marriage – Part I
Oppo Research!!! A Legitimization of Dirty Flings
Oppo in Politics I learned a new word, Oppo, yesterday 😀 courtesy of WordPress CEO/founder, Matt Mullenweg. I was contemplating on which blog to publish when Matt’s blog, Charitable Contributions, popped up on my email feed. I immediately clicked on it to read. Included in the post was an embedded link, to Wikipedia, which detailed … Continue reading Oppo Research!!! A Legitimization of Dirty Flings
Why do we revel at another’s downfall or misfortune?
Social media’s influence on Bad News and Trending Topics Social media has indoctrinated people to talk and post about trending topics, issues, and people. These trends can be both positive or negative. Positive news is awesome to read and share. But, we all know that the negative news sells the most, gets the most attention, … Continue reading Why do we revel at another’s downfall or misfortune?
Why Do People Give Up Right at the Edge of Their Breakthrough and How to Push Through
Key to Breakthrough Have you ever felt that you gave up on something: startup business, job, relationship, friendship, or even a son or daughter, just before you, or they, hit their pivotal point? I have. I started a catering business while working full-time as a financial analyst; delivering to customers long before DoorDash, Cavair, or … Continue reading Why Do People Give Up Right at the Edge of Their Breakthrough and How to Push Through
Giannis Antetokounmpo!
Hey all. I know. I know. I know that the NBA Season hasn’t started. So, why are we talking about Giannis, the only Giannis in the NBA, or should I say, in America?! 🙂 Giannis is no longer available 🥹 https://youtu.be/OSBan_sH_b8?feature=shared Nigerian acclaimed artist, Davido’s video of “Unavailable” Yes, a year after being officially engaged, … Continue reading Giannis Antetokounmpo!
The Importance and Purpose of Testimonies in a Christian’s Life
People sharing their Testimonies Testimonies hold a vital place in the life of a Christian, functioning as more than just personal stories of faith. They are powerful declarations of God’s work, affirmations of His grace, and instruments for strengthening both individual and communal faith. Understanding the importance and purpose of testimonies helps Christians embrace their … Continue reading The Importance and Purpose of Testimonies in a Christian’s Life
My Testimony
A lady pointing to My Testimony This past Thursday, I was driving, with a friend, to an area that I had been before. But the navigation gave me a different route than I was used to. I proceeded slowly and cautiously, albeit, reluctantly. As I was still contemplating whether to keep heading on, I asked … Continue reading My Testimony
My Wellness Green Juice
I made myself a Green Juice this morning. I had planned to sleep in today so I bought the ingredients last night. Enjoy the video of the making of my Wellness Green Juice. This week will also be my Green Juice week. Making of Mana’s Green Juice I made fresh Beets Juice last week but, … Continue reading My Wellness Green Juice
Happy Friday😍!
youtube.com/watch Credits: Katy Nichole This is my prayer for you and particularly my subscribers. Enjoy your day and weekend. I pray that all you're believing for will swiftly show up for you miraculously in Jesus Name. 🤗✌🏼
National Voter Registration Day
National Voter Registration Day — Read on nationalvoterregistrationday.org/ The 2024 National Voter Registration Day was on Tuesday, September 16th. How could I have missed this Day since we will be having another critical day in the history of America this year to vote for the next President. Please get registered to vote. Everything you need … Continue reading National Voter Registration Day
Show me your friends
The wheels that should rotate your social circle. The old adage, “Show me your friends, and I’ll tell you who you are,” often holds true in several cases, but particularly where men engage in destructive behaviors without intervention from their social circles. There are several reasons why friends may fail to advise or step in, … Continue reading Show me your friends
Hommes Fatales
Hommes Fatales are like deadly pills to Women I describe men who act abusively or neglectfully in relationships as "hommes fatales." These types of men tend to operate from a place of ignorance, entitlement, or deep-seated insecurities using (or rather, dangling), their money power as a means or bait. It is ignorance and manifests as … Continue reading Hommes Fatales
Ignorance Is No Excuse
Ignorance is a two-edged sword We are all too familiar with the phrase "ignorance is no excuse" which is often used in legal, professional, and personal settings to emphasize that not knowing something doesn't absolve you from the consequences of your actions. Whether in the workplace, relationships, or everyday life, we all encounter situations where … Continue reading Ignorance Is No Excuse
Meal Prep-per for Hire
Meals prepped to save time and money Today’s topic is essential for personal finance purposes. If you want to save time and money, hire a dedicated meal prep-per for a fraction of the money spent dining at restaurants or ordering food delivery. It was a service I once incorporated into my catering business some years … Continue reading Meal Prep-per for Hire
It’s National Back to Church Sunday
Symbols of the Church on National Back to Church Day Today is National Back to Church (NBtCD) Sunday; a day dedicated to encouraging individuals to reconnect with their faith communities. Held annually on the third Sunday of September, the initiative aims to welcome back those who may have stopped attending church or have never attended … Continue reading It’s National Back to Church Sunday
Part II:Delicacies of Cultural Diversities – The Birds Kind
There are more unique delicacies from around the world that reflect the incredible diversity of cultural cuisines. Let’s dive deeper into delicacies, of the birds kind, that stretch the boundaries of culinary creativity, enjoyed in various countries and cultures that might seem repugnant or unusual to others: Ortolan Bunting – FranceThe Ortolan Bunting is a … Continue reading Part II:Delicacies of Cultural Diversities – The Birds Kind
Delicacies of Cultural Diversities – Part I
When it comes to delicacies, one man's feast may be another's nightmare. There are numerous delicacies worldwide that push the boundaries of what some find palatable. Foods considered a delicacy in one culture can seem repugnant or unusual in another. These unique dishes often reflect deep-rooted traditions, local resources, and cultural values. Credit: TastingTables - … Continue reading Delicacies of Cultural Diversities – Part I
Three (3) things you don’t …
Three things, yeah, four, that are taboos It’s often said that there are three (3) things you don’t bring up in a conversation: Sex Religion, and Politics. Some might add, money as a fourth; or replace one of the above with it. The three tends to vary from person to person. There are also the … Continue reading Three (3) things you don’t …
Economics 101
Put on your thinking (or is it, your green) cap for some intro to some, and refresher for others. Set your brain to the left. I hope you came with your notepad (you’re allowed to use your iPhone), pen, and retentive memory. You will need this class for your lifetime. You might want to memorize … Continue reading Economics 101
Learn(ed )Obedience
Obedience is key to the ultimate life “though he were a Son, yet learned he obedience by the things which he suffered;”Hebrews 5:8 KJV If we’re honest, most of us aren't huge fans of the word "obedience." It feels restrictive, like something we should have left behind in childhood, like in middle school or, some … Continue reading Learn(ed )Obedience
There are still …
Has divorce become a calculated harm and marriage now at your own risk? There are still good-to-great guys and ladies out there who desire a good-to-great marriage. Why did I say that? I had an interesting conversation with a young lady who I’ll call Tara. She started by sharing with me that she recently got … Continue reading There are still …
How would you react if you lost …
Lost money be found I hate to lose anything. If anything; and I mean, anything is missing, I have been known to comb, sweep, and turn the house over looking for it. After, much travail and unable to find it, I’ll turn to ask Holy Spirit for help. 🤦🏾♀️ Does that sound familiar to anyone? … Continue reading How would you react if you lost …
Happy Labor Day
Smile as you rest and recharge today Labor Day, celebrated on the first Monday in September, is a holiday dedicated to honoring the contributions of workers and the labor movement in the United States. It marks the end of summer and often serves as a moment for reflection on the value of work, rest, and … Continue reading Happy Labor Day
Labor Day is Rest Day
“Come unto me, all ye that labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest.”Matthew 11:28 KJV Labor Day is also a Day of Introspect and Deliberation “In all labour there is profit: …”Proverbs 14:23a KJV If you’re laboring but not profiting, ask yourself these questions: Am I doing everything right and being … Continue reading Labor Day is Rest Day
Sheer Anarchy in a Democracy: A Nation in Crisis and the Call for Divine Intervention
Lawlessness in a Democracy = Anarchy Preamble I was “lost” driving through an airport’s parking lot. It was my first time at this airport. I drove in circles trying to find the exit. As I did, I saw a bunch of police officers and thought to ask them for help. As I slowly approached, my … Continue reading Sheer Anarchy in a Democracy: A Nation in Crisis and the Call for Divine Intervention
Part II: The Chosen One: Recognizing and Navigating the Path of Destiny
The path of The Chosen One is not Inevitable The Path of The Chosen One Part I of this post reminds us that the journey of The Chosen One is rarely straightforward. It is often marked by challenges, self-discovery, and a sense of purpose that sets them apart from others. We continue Part II with … Continue reading Part II: The Chosen One: Recognizing and Navigating the Path of Destiny
The Chosen One: Recognizing and Navigating the Path of Destiny
God’s hand is on The Chosen One The concept of "The Chosen One" has long captivated my imagination, and countless others, appearing in mythology, religion, literature, and pop culture. Often, this archetype is depicted as a person destined to fulfill a significant role, save the world, or bring about profound change either within families or … Continue reading The Chosen One: Recognizing and Navigating the Path of Destiny
Discerning the Right Voices Amid Competing Clamor
Numerous voices clamoring for our attention In today's world, we are bombarded by a cacophony of voices. From social media influencers to news outlets, friends, family, and even our internal dialogues, the sheer volume of information can be overwhelming. Every voice seems to vie for our attention, urging us to believe, follow, or act in … Continue reading Discerning the Right Voices Amid Competing Clamor
Honey vs. Sugar: Is Honey Really a Better Sweetener Substitute?
Which would you choose - honey or sugar? Honey has long been touted as a healthier alternative to sugar, especially when it comes to sweetening your morning coffee or afternoon tea. But with honey’s high sugar content, many wonder whether it’s genuinely a better option. Despite honey’s natural sugars, there are compelling reasons why it … Continue reading Honey vs. Sugar: Is Honey Really a Better Sweetener Substitute?
African Men and Relationships in the Western World: A Culture Clash
African couples in different postures Moving to a new country often brings with it a whirlwind of experiences. I‘m unsure of other cultures. But, for my African brothers settling in the Western world, the transition can be particularly challenging. Cultural norms and societal expectations in the West can differ significantly from those back home, creating … Continue reading African Men and Relationships in the Western World: A Culture Clash
The Poor, the Rich, and the Wealthy: Understanding the Key Characteristics and Differences Between Them
Key concepts between the Poor, Rich, and Wealthy https://brightlanelearning.org/2024/01/poverty-in-america/ In today’s society, wealth and financial status often serve as markers of success. However, not everyone fully understands the distinctions between being poor, rich, and wealthy. These terms are often used interchangeably, but they each represent different mindsets, lifestyles, and financial strategies. In this post, we’ll … Continue reading The Poor, the Rich, and the Wealthy: Understanding the Key Characteristics and Differences Between Them
Who You Start With Can Impact the Rest of Your Life: Why It’s Imperative to Choose Right
In the journey of life, the people we surround ourselves with—friends, partners, mentors—can have a profound impact on our trajectory. The saying “you are the average of the five people you spend the most time with” holds a significant truth. The influence of those who walk with you during crucial stages of your life can … Continue reading Who You Start With Can Impact the Rest of Your Life: Why It’s Imperative to Choose Right
Introduction to Stock Trading: A Beginner’s Guide
Icons in the stock trading Interested in stock investing? Another way to get started is by trading stocks. Read on: Investing in the stock market is a powerful way to grow wealth over time, but for those new to the concept, it can seem complex and intimidating. This guide aims to introduce you to the … Continue reading Introduction to Stock Trading: A Beginner’s Guide
Dealing with Health Issues: A Medical and Spiritual Perspective
Medical and Spiritual Healing Dealing with health issues is an inevitable part of life. Whether minor or major, these challenges often require us to navigate complex decisions about treatment, lifestyle adjustments, and emotional coping strategies. While the medical approach offers concrete, evidence-based solutions, the spiritual perspective provides emotional and existential support, helping individuals find meaning … Continue reading Dealing with Health Issues: A Medical and Spiritual Perspective
And USA won …!
The most contentious game of all the Olympics Men’s basketball is finally over. Chef Curry, again was cooking, and with 24 points, he lead Team USA to their fifth Olympic Gold. It was Curry’s first Olympics game. What best way to start; it might be his only one, too, though I hope not. Steph was … Continue reading And USA won …!
The Wild Ride of the Driverless Car named Carla
Carla, the driverless car I recently saw a driverless car. It wasn’t the first time seeing one, but this time it triggered an imaginative post 😊 I hope you enjoy it. Read on … In the sleepy town of Willow Creek, a summer morning began like any other. The sun rose lazily over the hills, … Continue reading The Wild Ride of the Driverless Car named Carla
The Contentious Battle for the Gold!
A blurry photo of Devin Booker with the ball It has been a contentious battle between the USA Men’s Basketball Team and the 2024 Olympic host country. It’s halftime and USA leads 49-41, but, oh what a game! The biggest highlight was that of France’s most contentious player dunking over our very own LeBron! With … Continue reading The Contentious Battle for the Gold!
Causes, Managing, and Overcoming Phobias: Practical Advice and Insights
Phobias are intense, irrational fears of specific objects, situations, or activities that can significantly impact an individual's daily life. Phobias often lead to avoidance behaviors, which can exacerbate the problem. In a previous post, we looked at various common phobias. Click here to read it. This post provides the causes of phobia, and practical advice … Continue reading Causes, Managing, and Overcoming Phobias: Practical Advice and Insights
Steph Curry, LeBron James fuel USA’s comeback win over Serbia
Stephen Curry scores 36 points and LeBron James logs a triple-double as Team USA rallies past Serbia to advance to the Gold Medal Game. — Read on http://www.nba.com/news/usa-serbia-paris-olympics The Chef was really cooking!
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