https://videopress.com/v/qTeDwcw3?resizeToParent=true&cover=true&preloadContent=metadata&useAverageColor=true I have been sleeping all these years (or was it comatose?) and finally woke up by a word I read. Yes, you got that right - a word! Well, maybe six words which said “died at 39, buried at 70!” It hit home like thunder striking at my heart and fire shot through my … Continue reading I have been in a comatose (literally!)
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There Are No Perfect Parents or Families
There’s none that’s perfect: none, and an emblem canceling the perfect inscription We all begin our lives with a limited lens. We grow up thinking our family is the standard. As children, we see our parents and families as the entire world. Our parents are either everything or, for some, not enough. That their way … Continue reading There Are No Perfect Parents or Families
A Parent’s Anguish: When Adult Siblings Stop Speaking to Each Other
A parent in the middle of adult siblings squabbling There are few things more heart-wrenching for a parent, especially a mother, than watching their children—once close, bonded by shared memories, secrets, and laughter—drift apart or worse, become estranged. When adult siblings stop speaking to one another, it doesn’t just affect them; it pierces the parent’s … Continue reading A Parent’s Anguish: When Adult Siblings Stop Speaking to Each Other
Mental Wellness for Families: Building a Home That Heals, Not Hurts
Mentally Aware Happy families Welcome to the Family Wellness Series—a heartfelt journey into creating mentally and emotionally healthy homes. Whether you’re a parent, caregiver, spouse, or sibling, these posts are designed to help you foster connection, heal wounds, and build a legacy of love and stability. Because when the home is whole, everyone inside it … Continue reading Mental Wellness for Families: Building a Home That Heals, Not Hurts
The Paradox of Being a First-Born Child: A Blessing and a Burden
“First of My Kind” I was the first, the opening line, A chapter written before the ink was dry. Their love was fresh, their hands unsure, I learned the rules, then watched them blur. I wore the crown of oldest child, But bore a weight that never smiled. Expected much, forgiven less, The test run … Continue reading The Paradox of Being a First-Born Child: A Blessing and a Burden
Transform a house to a Home: Who’s responsible?
Variables for transforming a house to a Home The home is where one runs to for solace, security, and belonging. It is also where you get “trained” for the outside world. But, overall, the Home should be a safe haven for all who dwell in it. Who is responsible for ensuring that a house is … Continue reading Transform a house to a Home: Who’s responsible?
Is Being Nice Costing You?
In a world that often values boldness and assertiveness, being kind and agreeable is seen as a virtue. However, what if that kindness comes at a hidden cost? While being nice can build connections and help maintain harmony, the reality is that it may come with unexpected emotional, mental, and even financial costs. Let’s explore … Continue reading Is Being Nice Costing You?
Irresponsible Procreation
I once met a young African-American couple. The lady was pregnant and excited. I was excited for her. In her excitement, she disclosed that the guy already had eight children by four different women. The conversation took a different turn. I thought out loud that if my daughters were present, they’d cringe at what I … Continue reading Irresponsible Procreation
The Case for Monogamy in Relationships —Particularly in Marriage
In a world where commitment is increasingly viewed as optional, where “open” relationships and polyamory are gaining cultural traction, the case for monogamy (aka one man, one woman) remains as strong as ever — especially in marriage. Monogamy is more than just a societal norm or religious principle; it is the foundation upon which deep … Continue reading The Case for Monogamy in Relationships —Particularly in Marriage
Polyamory and Polygamy: A Disrespect to the Women Involved
In recent years, polyamory and polygamy have gained attention as alternative relationship structures. Some argue that these practices offer freedom, personal fulfillment, and unconventional expressions of love. However, beneath the surface, these arrangements often reveal a stark reality: they thrive at the expense of the women involved. A man cannot engage in multiple relationships unless … Continue reading Polyamory and Polygamy: A Disrespect to the Women Involved
Part 3: Polyamorous Men: Why Do Men Have Tons of Children?
A man surrounded by his children This is the third in this Series. We’re talking about men and their multiple relationships, especially in marriages, and the women who aide them. We acknowledge that it’s an age-long issue. But, should we allow it to remain forever? Jump in and let’s have a conversation to understand all … Continue reading Part 3: Polyamorous Men: Why Do Men Have Tons of Children?
A Series: Are men naturally wired polyamorous?
An illustration of a man surrounded by several different women, each with unique appearances and expressions. This is a three-part Series (could be more) delving into men, their multiple relationships, and the women who aide them. Polyamorous by Nature? The question of whether men are naturally wired to be polyamorous is a complex one, involving … Continue reading A Series: Are men naturally wired polyamorous?
Photos from the Debut Art Show
In the art world, anything and everything makes for art! All is well in love and peace, including Art Shows; especially when it is your daughter’s very first. It makes it extra specially in love and peace and joy. I can’t say how proud I am of this resilient young lady who is a chip … Continue reading Photos from the Debut Art Show
The Hierarchy of Honoring People in Your Life
A framework for Honor Do you have a framework for honoring people in your life? If not, I’ll offer you one and you let me know your thoughts on it. The Bible says, “Honor the Lord with your wealth, with the firstfruits of all your crops;”Proverbs 3:9 NIV And Jesus said: “honor your father and … Continue reading The Hierarchy of Honoring People in Your Life
Happy Valentine’s Day
Oh, Valentine, a day so bright,Where hearts take wing in love’s sweet light.The air is laced with joy and cheer,A whispered promise, warm and near. Red, white, and pink roses bloom with silent speech,Their petals soft, their fragrance sweet.A token sent, a love confessed,A beating heart, a soul caressed. But love, dear love, is more … Continue reading Happy Valentine’s Day
When Your Own Household Becomes Your Enemy: The Cost of Following Jesus
Is your faith Inherited or Chosen? One of the most challenging aspects of faith is realizing that sometimes, the greatest opposition comes not from strangers, but from those closest to us — our own family, friends, and community. Jesus warned about this when He said: “A man’s enemies will be those of his own household.” … Continue reading When Your Own Household Becomes Your Enemy: The Cost of Following Jesus
Challenges and Outcomes of Marrying the Wrong Person: A Three-Part Series
Different married couples Marriage is often portrayed as a union of love, trust, and mutual respect, but the reality is that not every marital journey unfolds as smoothly as expected. For some individuals, saying “I do” to the wrong person can lead to a myriad of challenges and outcomes that profoundly impact their lives. From … Continue reading Challenges and Outcomes of Marrying the Wrong Person: A Three-Part Series
The Abortion Debate: Reframing From A Biblical Perspective on Accountability and Responsibility
Abortion is not only the Woman’s Choice or Issue Abortion is one of the most polarizing topics in our society today, often debated from moral, ethical, and spiritual perspectives. However, much of the conversation tends to focus on the consequences—whether to permit or prohibit abortion—while neglecting the root causes that lead to these situations. At … Continue reading The Abortion Debate: Reframing From A Biblical Perspective on Accountability and Responsibility
Towards Financial Freedom: A Married Couple’s Guide to Unity in Finances
Marriage and Money Introduction “When two become one” isn’t just about sharing a last name or a home. It’s about uniting every aspect of your lives, including finances. For many couples, navigating money matters can be one of the most challenging and rewarding parts of marriage. Whether you’re newlyweds or seasoned partners, building a solid … Continue reading Towards Financial Freedom: A Married Couple’s Guide to Unity in Finances
How to Build a Strong Family: Foundations for a Thriving Home
Key strategies for building a strong family A strong family is the cornerstone of a fulfilling life, serving as a haven of love, support, and resilience in a world often filled with challenges. Building and maintaining a strong family requires intentional effort, patience, and commitment from every member. Building a strong family starts with the … Continue reading How to Build a Strong Family: Foundations for a Thriving Home
How Do You Plan for Christmas? Do You Have a Family Tradition or Not?
Family, Friends, Food, and Gifts are a part of the Christmas Traditions. Ah, Christmas! The most wonderful time of the year—or, depending on your perspective, the most chaotic. Just four days away and the countdown has begun. Whether you’re a meticulous planner or a last-minute sprinter, the question remains: how do you prepare for the … Continue reading How Do You Plan for Christmas? Do You Have a Family Tradition or Not?
Of Incubus and Succubus
An incubus and a succubus with their seductive, demonic allure in a dark, intimate setting Read The Spiritual Perspective of Sex in Dreams to fully understand this post. While the concepts of Incubus and Succubus originated from folklore and mythology, they have become significant in Christian deliverance ministries. This shift stems from the recognition … Continue reading Of Incubus and Succubus
Presidential Pardons: The Power, the Controversy, and the Ethics. Did President Biden do Wrong?
A father-son from infancy to adulthood; with the White House in the background President Joe Biden's decision to pardon his son, Hunter Biden, has sparked controversy due to his previous commitments not to use presidential powers for family benefit. Critics, including Republicans and some Democrats, view the pardon as an abuse of power and a … Continue reading Presidential Pardons: The Power, the Controversy, and the Ethics. Did President Biden do Wrong?
A Thankful Letter to God
Dear Heavenly Father, I come before You with a heart full of gratitude and awe. Thank You for the gift of life and for waking me up to see another day. Each breath I take is a reminder of Your grace and mercy, and I am humbled by Your steadfast love. Thank You for being … Continue reading A Thankful Letter to God
Part 3: Should a Man Listen to His Mom’s Advice About His Relationship?
The man in the middle of a relationship triangle This is our final post of our article on whether sons should listen to their mothers regarding their relationships. In Part 1, we reviewed the Pros and Cons of men taking relationship advice from their mothers and gave advice to mothers who have unresolved feelings about … Continue reading Part 3: Should a Man Listen to His Mom’s Advice About His Relationship?
Part 2: Should a Man Listen to His Mom’s Advice About His Relationship?
A messy triangle of mother-son-wife Continuing our article on whether sons should listen to their mothers regarding their relationships. In Part 1, we reviewed the Pros and Cons of men taking relationship advice from their mothers and gave advice to mothers who have unresolved feelings about their son’s choice of woman. Read Part 1 here. … Continue reading Part 2: Should a Man Listen to His Mom’s Advice About His Relationship?
Should a Man Listen to His Mom’s Advice About His Relationship? Weighing the Pros and Cons
Man torn between the women in his life Counseling a man, supposedly, in love is a tricky issue for anyone to dabble into. Same for women. However, and generally speaking, women are more levelheaded in receiving relationship advices than men. But what happens when the counseling or advice is coming from the man’s mother or … Continue reading Should a Man Listen to His Mom’s Advice About His Relationship? Weighing the Pros and Cons
Giannis Antetokounmpo!
Hey all. I know. I know. I know that the NBA Season hasn’t started. So, why are we talking about Giannis, the only Giannis in the NBA, or should I say, in America?! 🙂 Giannis is no longer available 🥹 https://youtu.be/OSBan_sH_b8?feature=shared Nigerian acclaimed artist, Davido’s video of “Unavailable” Yes, a year after being officially engaged, … Continue reading Giannis Antetokounmpo!
Happy Father’s Day
Father’s Day 2024 (for some weird reasons, my post, which was meant for yesterday, was still sitting in my Drafts! So sorry about that. But I sincerely hope that all Fathers had a great one yesterday.) Father's Day is a special occasion to honor and celebrate the men who have played pivotal roles in our … Continue reading Happy Father’s Day
The Polygamous Family
Polygamy or Polygyny What kind of Family is it? The Polygamous Family involves one individual having multiple spouses simultaneously. The most common form is the man marrying multiple wives. This form is called polygyny. The other form, though rare, is termed polyandry, where the woman is married to more than one husband. The family code … Continue reading The Polygamous Family
The Nuclear/Monogamous Family Structure
The Nuclear/Monogamous Family A nuclear (or monogamous) family typically refers to a family structure where one person is married or committed to only one other person at a time. It's a common form of family organization in many cultures, where individuals have exclusive romantic or sexual relationships with a single partner. The word nuclear or … Continue reading The Nuclear/Monogamous Family Structure
The Family Structures
A Family The world has evolved. Times are changing. Or, should I say that times have changed. Traditionally, Family included the husband (man/male/he/his), the wife (woman/female/she/her) and the children. Before I began writing about the family structure, I was curious to find out the various family structures now available. Surprisingly, there are several types of … Continue reading The Family Structures
Family: The Comfort Zone and Backbone
A Family Family serves as more than just a group of individuals sharing genetics or a household; it's the cornerstone of comfort and support in our lives. Within the embrace of family, we find solace, understanding, and unconditional love. It's a sanctuary where we can be our truest selves, free from judgment or pretense. The … Continue reading Family: The Comfort Zone and Backbone
Family, Friends
Credits: Pixel; left family, right friends Family and friends;Family or friends: Friends and family;Friends or family: Should there be an “and” or an “or” when it comes to both. How do you prioritize each in your life? Are you sometimes conflicted in deciding who to choose? For example, if both have events on the same … Continue reading Family, Friends
Part II: Family and Fiery Disputes: A Guide to Family Conflict Resolution
Learn to handle family conflicts with empathy and effective communication. Discover insights into family dynamics, practical strategies for conflict resolution, and tips for nurturing harmonious relationships.
Family and Fiery Disputes: A Guide to Family Conflict Resolution: Part I
Preamble I am an altruistic, family-oriented, unconditionally-family-loving personality. I’m also a highly principled personality. Having enjoyed mercy and grace however, I’m glad to say that I now wear a balanced life lens with a focus on maneuvering the family terrains with much grace and mercy that I didn’t used to give or had. My life … Continue reading Family and Fiery Disputes: A Guide to Family Conflict Resolution: Part I
Of Fathers and Daughters: Part 2 – Girl Daddies
This is the continuation of the topic, Of Fathers and Daughters. This post focuses on the Fathers also known as (aka) Girl Daddies. The first part talked about the Daughters; Daddy’s Girls. Check it out here. Girl Daddies Girl Daddies are everywhere, among cultures, races, and industries, but was popularized on the death of Kobe … Continue reading Of Fathers and Daughters: Part 2 – Girl Daddies
Of Fathers and Daughters: Part 1 – Daddy’s Girls
Credits: Pexels Know any man who adores his daughter such that not only his whole family (immediate and extended) knows it, but his friends and the world are equally aware of the father-daughter lovely relationship? Such was the love that occurred between late and former NBA Laker Star Kobe Bryant and his daughter, Gianna. Such … Continue reading Of Fathers and Daughters: Part 1 – Daddy’s Girls
Of Girls and Daughters
Why do nations and parents treat or elevate boys over girls, sons over daughters, or males over females? Do they think that The Creator made a mistake? The One who made them, made them male and female. At creation, He did not state nor gave a divine preference or importance for their roles. Granted that … Continue reading Of Girls and Daughters
What makes a man marry several women?
Libido? Cupidity? Power (Clout) and Control, Social Status, Shortage of men, or simply because they can and the women allow it? Your answer is as good as mine. . . . Polygamy is the act of marrying multiple spouses, simultaneously or sequentially, without first divorcing the other spouse. Sociologists have different terms when the man … Continue reading What makes a man marry several women?
Why does God allow good people to die sooner and allow the wicked to live?
In memoriam, MO; from family album Father God forgive me as I write this because you expect me to know better. But, sometimes I don’t. This instance is one of those times that it’s still hard to swallow. Sorry that I sound like a child when I should be talking like your mature daughter. But … Continue reading Why does God allow good people to die sooner and allow the wicked to live?
Housewife – Part Two: To be or not to be
Photo by Retha Ferguson on Pexels.comPhoto by Andrea Piacquadio on Pexels.comPhoto by Andrea Piacquadio on Pexels.com This is a second part of the blog series Housewife. In my previous blog, [Housewife: A Case for the Title], I made a case for the housewife and included the benefits and disadvantages of being one. As stated in … Continue reading Housewife – Part Two: To be or not to be
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