An incubus and a succubus with their seductive, demonic allure in a dark, intimate setting Read The Spiritual Perspective of Sex in Dreams to fully understand this post. While the concepts of Incubus and Succubus originated from folklore and mythology, they have become significant in Christian deliverance ministries. This shift stems from the recognition … Continue reading Of Incubus and Succubus
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Advent: A Season of Reflection and Preparation
The Advent Wreath with the Four Candles of Hope, Joy, Peace, and Love As December ushers in the festive season, it’s easy to become overwhelmed by the glittering lights, endless shopping lists, and the anticipation of holiday celebrations. However, for Christians around the world, this time holds a deeper significance—it is the season of Advent. … Continue reading Advent: A Season of Reflection and Preparation
Presidential Pardons: The Power, the Controversy, and the Ethics. Did President Biden do Wrong?
A father-son from infancy to adulthood; with the White House in the background President Joe Biden's decision to pardon his son, Hunter Biden, has sparked controversy due to his previous commitments not to use presidential powers for family benefit. Critics, including Republicans and some Democrats, view the pardon as an abuse of power and a … Continue reading Presidential Pardons: The Power, the Controversy, and the Ethics. Did President Biden do Wrong?
Billionaires in America
Billionaire Images in America According to Forbes, there are 813 billionaires in the U.S.A.. Also, United States is considered to be the wealthiest country in the world in terms of size of economies or overall gross wealth. (Forbes.com) United States has 345 million people of which less than half (161.5 million) are employed according to … Continue reading Billionaires in America
Part 3: Should a Man Listen to His Mom’s Advice About His Relationship?
The man in the middle of a relationship triangle This is our final post of our article on whether sons should listen to their mothers regarding their relationships. In Part 1, we reviewed the Pros and Cons of men taking relationship advice from their mothers and gave advice to mothers who have unresolved feelings about … Continue reading Part 3: Should a Man Listen to His Mom’s Advice About His Relationship?
Philanthrocapitalism and Corporate Social Responsibility (CSR)—
We all know what capitalism is and have heard of philanthropy and Corporate Social Responsibility (CSR). But have you heard of Philanthrocapitalism? How much exactly do you/we really know? Are these terms actually working for our society or are they funnels for more founders’ profits? Is it possible to do good while profiteering - can … Continue reading Philanthrocapitalism and Corporate Social Responsibility (CSR)—
Part 2: Should a Man Listen to His Mom’s Advice About His Relationship?
A messy triangle of mother-son-wife Continuing our article on whether sons should listen to their mothers regarding their relationships. In Part 1, we reviewed the Pros and Cons of men taking relationship advice from their mothers and gave advice to mothers who have unresolved feelings about their son’s choice of woman. Read Part 1 here. … Continue reading Part 2: Should a Man Listen to His Mom’s Advice About His Relationship?
Should a Man Listen to His Mom’s Advice About His Relationship? Weighing the Pros and Cons
Man torn between the women in his life Counseling a man, supposedly, in love is a tricky issue for anyone to dabble into. Same for women. However, and generally speaking, women are more levelheaded in receiving relationship advices than men. But what happens when the counseling or advice is coming from the man’s mother or … Continue reading Should a Man Listen to His Mom’s Advice About His Relationship? Weighing the Pros and Cons
Quincy Jones: The Legendary Maestro. 1933-2024
Credits: Wikipedia. Quincy Jones I was a teenager in London, U.K., when I first heard about Quincy Jones, popularly known in the music industry simply as “Q.” My aunt, who once lived in San Francisco, CA for many years, adores him. I learned about Q long before I smelled the shores of the USA. Sadly, … Continue reading Quincy Jones: The Legendary Maestro. 1933-2024
President-Elect Donald John Trump’s Historic Comeback: A Testament to Resilience and Vindication
Trump addressing his supporters earlier today Donald John Trump has been declared the winner of the 2024 presidential election; a moment that marks the greatest, political, historic and powerful comeback ever. With this win,Trump will be the 47th President of the United States of America to be sworn-in in January 2025. Donald J. Trump led … Continue reading President-Elect Donald John Trump’s Historic Comeback: A Testament to Resilience and Vindication
Stability in Governance: A Case To Change the Four-Year Term
The regular four-year election cycle in the United States 🇺🇸, and most countries of the world, often leads to a cycle of policy shifts as new presidents undo the work of their predecessors. This creates a stop-start dynamic that can be destabilizing for the country. While the current system provides checks and balances through term … Continue reading Stability in Governance: A Case To Change the Four-Year Term
Remember to Vote!
2024 Presidential Election In 2024, the stage is set, The stakes are high, let’s not forget. This vote is more than red or blue— It’s about core values, true and true. Truth and honesty, bold and bright, Should guide your hand when you cast that right. For what’s a nation built on lies? It crumbles … Continue reading Remember to Vote!
Understanding Class Statuses in America: Does the Middle Class Still Exist?
In the United States, social class is more than just income—it encompasses lifestyle, education, occupation, and overall economic stability. The traditional class structure, often segmented into lower, working, middle, upper-middle, and upper classes, has been the foundation of American society for generations. However, as economic dynamics have evolved, so has the concept of the “middle … Continue reading Understanding Class Statuses in America: Does the Middle Class Still Exist?
Witchcraft is Real – Part II: Awareness and Protecting Yourself and Loved Ones
Learn about witchcraft not to fear it but to understand how it operates today. We’re continuing the post on witchcraft. In Part I, we listed the forms and effects if witchcraft. The forms of witchcraft listed are merely the common ones and not limited in any sense. The Spirit of God is the greatest discerner … Continue reading Witchcraft is Real – Part II: Awareness and Protecting Yourself and Loved Ones
Witchcraft is Real – Part I: Know what it is
Witchcraft has no place where Jesus reigns Learn about witchcraft not to fear it but to understand how it operates today. When we think of witchcraft, most of us picture the stereotypical image of an old woman with a crooked hat and broomstick, but in today’s world, witchcraft isn’t just folklore or Halloween imagery—witchcraft has … Continue reading Witchcraft is Real – Part I: Know what it is
Equity with Kindness
https://youtu.be/fXAlfh6QKQs?feature=shared Credits: YouTube Reelblack OneStevie Wonder and Paul Macartney’s Song was so apropos in 1982 as it is in 2024; 40+ years after. Treating each other equitably and with kindness is the foundation of a more harmonious and just society. Nobody wants to be on the receiving end of negativity, especially when it comes in … Continue reading Equity with Kindness
Inglewood, CA: Fast Becoming “The City That Never Sleeps”
The City of Inglewood, once known primarily for its residential neighborhoods and proximity to Los Angeles, has rapidly transformed into a vibrant entertainment and economic hub. Earning the City of Angels its new reputation as “The City That Never Sleeps.” The latest addition of the Intuit Dome, new home of the Los Angeles Clippers, complements Inglewood’s … Continue reading Inglewood, CA: Fast Becoming “The City That Never Sleeps”
When Your Prayers Seem To Go Unanswered
When prayers seem to go unanswered, and you find yourself feeling overlooked in various areas of life, it’s easy to feel disheartened. The silence can be deafening, and doubts might creep in, making you question your worth or whether you’re on the right path. This season can feel isolating, leaving you wondering why your prayers … Continue reading When Your Prayers Seem To Go Unanswered
Loving Someone Through Their Bad Choices
Tough love is not about harshness; it's about fostering self-reliance, resilience, and personal accountability.” - Unknown Most of us have experienced watching a loved one veer a wrong path or make unhealthy choices. It hurts. Trying to balance loving such person while, simultaneously, wondering if to talk to them about their choices becomes a challenge. What … Continue reading Loving Someone Through Their Bad Choices
Relocating from a Higher Cost of Living Area to a Lower One: California vs. Texas or Ohio
I visited Texas (Austin and Houston) this past weekend. It’s not my first time in Texas or these cities. But the first time that I actually paid some attention! The food was different (southern) and portions were big. I chose not to visit any food franchise available in California. Speeding is highly frowned upon with … Continue reading Relocating from a Higher Cost of Living Area to a Lower One: California vs. Texas or Ohio
Why So Angry? The Hidden Cost of Living in a Perpetual Funk
Anger is a negative emotion We’ve all been there. That person who cuts you off in traffic, the slow internet just when you’re about to send that important email, or your favorite coffee shop running out of the good croissants. Before you know it, you’re on edge. But why does this happen, and what does … Continue reading Why So Angry? The Hidden Cost of Living in a Perpetual Funk
Of Countries and People
A parallel between countries and people Countries, like people, mature and thrive at different rates. Just as individuals’ development is shaped by a myriad of factors, nations too are influenced by various elements. When a country gains independence, it is akin to a child asserting adulthood, proclaiming the desire to make its own decisions. However, … Continue reading Of Countries and People
Part II – Separation
Is there a place for Separation when a marriage is in distress? The answer is: Maybe. Separation, like Divorce, is hard on the Family Separation can work in very specific cases—when both parties genuinely want to reconcile but need a break from the conflict to refocus on themselves and what they want from the marriage. … Continue reading Part II – Separation
The Importance and Purpose of Testimonies in a Christian’s Life
People sharing their Testimonies Testimonies hold a vital place in the life of a Christian, functioning as more than just personal stories of faith. They are powerful declarations of God’s work, affirmations of His grace, and instruments for strengthening both individual and communal faith. Understanding the importance and purpose of testimonies helps Christians embrace their … Continue reading The Importance and Purpose of Testimonies in a Christian’s Life
Hommes Fatales
Hommes Fatales are like deadly pills to Women I describe men who act abusively or neglectfully in relationships as "hommes fatales." These types of men tend to operate from a place of ignorance, entitlement, or deep-seated insecurities using (or rather, dangling), their money power as a means or bait. It is ignorance and manifests as … Continue reading Hommes Fatales
Ignorance Is No Excuse
Ignorance is a two-edged sword We are all too familiar with the phrase "ignorance is no excuse" which is often used in legal, professional, and personal settings to emphasize that not knowing something doesn't absolve you from the consequences of your actions. Whether in the workplace, relationships, or everyday life, we all encounter situations where … Continue reading Ignorance Is No Excuse
Meal Prep-per for Hire
Meals prepped to save time and money Today’s topic is essential for personal finance purposes. If you want to save time and money, hire a dedicated meal prep-per for a fraction of the money spent dining at restaurants or ordering food delivery. It was a service I once incorporated into my catering business some years … Continue reading Meal Prep-per for Hire
Economics 101
Put on your thinking (or is it, your green) cap for some intro to some, and refresher for others. Set your brain to the left. I hope you came with your notepad (you’re allowed to use your iPhone), pen, and retentive memory. You will need this class for your lifetime. You might want to memorize … Continue reading Economics 101
There are still …
Has divorce become a calculated harm and marriage now at your own risk? There are still good-to-great guys and ladies out there who desire a good-to-great marriage. Why did I say that? I had an interesting conversation with a young lady who I’ll call Tara. She started by sharing with me that she recently got … Continue reading There are still …
The Chosen One: Recognizing and Navigating the Path of Destiny
God’s hand is on The Chosen One The concept of "The Chosen One" has long captivated my imagination, and countless others, appearing in mythology, religion, literature, and pop culture. Often, this archetype is depicted as a person destined to fulfill a significant role, save the world, or bring about profound change either within families or … Continue reading The Chosen One: Recognizing and Navigating the Path of Destiny
Honey vs. Sugar: Is Honey Really a Better Sweetener Substitute?
Which would you choose - honey or sugar? Honey has long been touted as a healthier alternative to sugar, especially when it comes to sweetening your morning coffee or afternoon tea. But with honey’s high sugar content, many wonder whether it’s genuinely a better option. Despite honey’s natural sugars, there are compelling reasons why it … Continue reading Honey vs. Sugar: Is Honey Really a Better Sweetener Substitute?
African Men and Relationships in the Western World: A Culture Clash
African couples in different postures Moving to a new country often brings with it a whirlwind of experiences. I‘m unsure of other cultures. But, for my African brothers settling in the Western world, the transition can be particularly challenging. Cultural norms and societal expectations in the West can differ significantly from those back home, creating … Continue reading African Men and Relationships in the Western World: A Culture Clash
The Poor, the Rich, and the Wealthy: Understanding the Key Characteristics and Differences Between Them
Key concepts between the Poor, Rich, and Wealthy https://brightlanelearning.org/2024/01/poverty-in-america/ In today’s society, wealth and financial status often serve as markers of success. However, not everyone fully understands the distinctions between being poor, rich, and wealthy. These terms are often used interchangeably, but they each represent different mindsets, lifestyles, and financial strategies. In this post, we’ll … Continue reading The Poor, the Rich, and the Wealthy: Understanding the Key Characteristics and Differences Between Them
Who You Start With Can Impact the Rest of Your Life: Why It’s Imperative to Choose Right
In the journey of life, the people we surround ourselves with—friends, partners, mentors—can have a profound impact on our trajectory. The saying “you are the average of the five people you spend the most time with” holds a significant truth. The influence of those who walk with you during crucial stages of your life can … Continue reading Who You Start With Can Impact the Rest of Your Life: Why It’s Imperative to Choose Right
Dealing with Health Issues: A Medical and Spiritual Perspective
Medical and Spiritual Healing Dealing with health issues is an inevitable part of life. Whether minor or major, these challenges often require us to navigate complex decisions about treatment, lifestyle adjustments, and emotional coping strategies. While the medical approach offers concrete, evidence-based solutions, the spiritual perspective provides emotional and existential support, helping individuals find meaning … Continue reading Dealing with Health Issues: A Medical and Spiritual Perspective
Causes, Managing, and Overcoming Phobias: Practical Advice and Insights
Phobias are intense, irrational fears of specific objects, situations, or activities that can significantly impact an individual's daily life. Phobias often lead to avoidance behaviors, which can exacerbate the problem. In a previous post, we looked at various common phobias. Click here to read it. This post provides the causes of phobia, and practical advice … Continue reading Causes, Managing, and Overcoming Phobias: Practical Advice and Insights
Turn Failure into a Stepping Stone for Success
Failure turned into Success We’ve all had some kind of failure or the other in life. If you haven’t; it’s just a matter of time. Whether it’s a bad grade in school or college, a failed business venture or a relationship, terminated from a job or a marriage (aka divorced), the outcome can be devastating. … Continue reading Turn Failure into a Stepping Stone for Success
Need Money to Make Money?
Do we need money to make money? The adage "It takes money to make money" has been ingrained in our collective consciousness for generations. It suggests that financial capital is the primary requirement for generating wealth. While there is some truth to this notion, it is not an absolute rule. Many factors contribute to financial … Continue reading Need Money to Make Money?
Paradox of Being a Christian
The paradox of being a Christian Introduction Christianity, one of the world's major religions, calls its followers to a life that often appears paradoxical. These paradoxes challenge believers to see beyond the surface and embrace deeper truths. Christians are asked to embrace seemingly contradictory principles: strength in weakness, freedom in submission, and joy in suffering. … Continue reading Paradox of Being a Christian
12 Paradoxes of Life
Some Paradoxes of Life DEFINITION Paradox/par-uh-doks /noun• a statement that seems self-contradictory or absurd but in reality expresses a possible truth: “Less is more” is a paradox often repeated in the arts and other fields.It is a paradox of healthy grief that we must work at it while surrendering to it.• any person, thing, or … Continue reading 12 Paradoxes of Life
Vulnerability in Relationships: The Key to Genuine Connection
Vulnerability in Relationships builds deeper Intimacy In a world where strength and independence are often celebrated, vulnerability can sometimes be perceived as a weakness. However, in the realm of relationships, vulnerability is not only a strength but a crucial component for fostering deep and meaningful connections. Embracing vulnerability in relationships can lead to greater intimacy, … Continue reading Vulnerability in Relationships: The Key to Genuine Connection
Effective Communication Strategies in Relationships
Active listening is part of Effective Communication Introduction Effective communication is the cornerstone of a healthy relationship. It allows couples to connect, understand each other, and resolve conflicts. However, many couples struggle with communication, leading to misunderstandings and emotional distance. In this article, we'll explore common communication challenges and offer strategies to help couples communicate … Continue reading Effective Communication Strategies in Relationships
Why Are We Generally Prone to Being Reactive Rather Than Proactive?
Being reactive we tend to fold our arms; while proactivity forges us to take action! Human behavior is a fascinating subject, and one particular aspect that stands out is our tendency to be reactive rather than proactive. While being proactive involves anticipating and preparing for future events, being reactive means responding to events as, or … Continue reading Why Are We Generally Prone to Being Reactive Rather Than Proactive?
Citizenry of the Kingdom of God
Divine Citizenship Introduction Citizenship has its privileges, and unfortunately drawbacks. The type of passport you hold could either give you smooth access to, or hinder you from, certain parts of the world. Being a citizen of the Kingdom of God is no different; it comes with both its benefits and drawbacks. Yet, you have immunity … Continue reading Citizenry of the Kingdom of God
Dual (and Multiple) Citizenship: Understanding the Benefits and Drawbacks
Dual or Multiple Citizenship Introduction In an increasingly globalized world, the concept of dual or multiple citizenship has become more prevalent. Holding citizenship in more than one country can offer numerous advantages but also comes with its own set of challenges. This post delves into the benefits and drawbacks of dual and multiple citizenship and … Continue reading Dual (and Multiple) Citizenship: Understanding the Benefits and Drawbacks
The Influence of Parents’ Clout on Children’s Opportunities: A Fair Advantage or Unjust Practice?
A mother’s clout In today's competitive world, the selection of candidates for various positions often raises questions about fairness and meritocracy. One of the contentious issues is whether parents' influence or clout should play a part in their child's selection for a position, rather than basing it solely on the child's merit. This topic warrants … Continue reading The Influence of Parents’ Clout on Children’s Opportunities: A Fair Advantage or Unjust Practice?
Calculated Risks
In life and business, success often hinges on the ability to take risks. However, not all risks are created equal. While some are reckless gambles, others are well-thought-out decisions with a strategic purpose. These latter types are known as calculated risks. What Are Calculated Risks? A calculated risk is a decision or action taken after … Continue reading Calculated Risks
Money Relationships
Various Types of Money Relationships What relationship do you have with Money? Are those relationships innate (DNA) or self-derived? We all have money relationships that we are either conscious or unconscious of. Knowing those relationships and why will greatly help us with our money habits and relationships. What’s your Money Relationship? Money is a critical … Continue reading Money Relationships
Buy a Home: Now or Later?
Buy a Honey or Wait? Many are wondering if it is a good time to buy and own a home. Though the rates are higher today than they were four years ago, the truth is that there is no guarantee whether the rates will go lower or continue higher. So what do home shoppers do … Continue reading Buy a Home: Now or Later?
Setting Boundaries: A Key to Healthy Relationships
Setting Healthy Boundaries In my post on Trust, I alluded to setting boundaries once trust has been broken. How do we set those boundaries? This post answers the question, “how do you set those boundaries?” What are Boundaries? Boundaries are “limits that separate acceptable behaviors from unacceptable behaviors.” (dictionary.com) Boundaries are essential for preserving our … Continue reading Setting Boundaries: A Key to Healthy Relationships
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