We often hear the word polarizing used to describe public figures — leaders, celebrities, activists — who stir up strong feelings of either admiration or resentment. The truth is that anyone standing up for truth is polarized because s/he is making the other person pause and consider another (or other) aspect(s) of an issue, if … Continue reading When Polarization Shows Up in Society — and in Our Homes
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I have been in a comatose (literally!)
https://videopress.com/v/qTeDwcw3?resizeToParent=true&cover=true&preloadContent=metadata&useAverageColor=true I have been sleeping all these years (or was it comatose?) and finally woke up by a word I read. Yes, you got that right - a word! Well, maybe six words which said “died at 39, buried at 70!” It hit home like thunder striking at my heart and fire shot through my … Continue reading I have been in a comatose (literally!)
When Power Dated Wealth: Lessons from a Relationship Gone Wrong
They were unstoppable. One wanted to change the world with rockets.The other wanted to rule it with laws. But like so many relationships — romantic or otherwise — it all started with admiration … and ended in memes, silence, and passive-aggressive tweets. In our fictional satire, Max Titan and Preston Valor symbolized what happens when … Continue reading When Power Dated Wealth: Lessons from a Relationship Gone Wrong
“So You Think You’re Ready …”
eBook Cover I’m passionate about many things, particularly, marriage, family, and relationships. I’ve blogged tons about it and have been working on a book to share my experiences. The book is taking much longer than anticipated, but this eBook marks the first step. If we all “prepared” for marriage, I’m sure there’d be fewer divorces, … Continue reading “So You Think You’re Ready …”
Mental Wellness for Families: Building a Home That Heals, Not Hurts
Mentally Aware Happy families Welcome to the Family Wellness Series—a heartfelt journey into creating mentally and emotionally healthy homes. Whether you’re a parent, caregiver, spouse, or sibling, these posts are designed to help you foster connection, heal wounds, and build a legacy of love and stability. Because when the home is whole, everyone inside it … Continue reading Mental Wellness for Families: Building a Home That Heals, Not Hurts
Is Being Nice Costing You?
In a world that often values boldness and assertiveness, being kind and agreeable is seen as a virtue. However, what if that kindness comes at a hidden cost? While being nice can build connections and help maintain harmony, the reality is that it may come with unexpected emotional, mental, and even financial costs. Let’s explore … Continue reading Is Being Nice Costing You?
The Case for Monogamy in Relationships —Particularly in Marriage
In a world where commitment is increasingly viewed as optional, where “open” relationships and polyamory are gaining cultural traction, the case for monogamy (aka one man, one woman) remains as strong as ever — especially in marriage. Monogamy is more than just a societal norm or religious principle; it is the foundation upon which deep … Continue reading The Case for Monogamy in Relationships —Particularly in Marriage
Spring Clean Your Relationship: A Fresh Start for Love
Ways to spring-clean your relationship As winter fades and spring emerges, there’s a collective urge to declutter, refresh, and start anew. Just as we deep-clean our homes and clear out the dust of the past season, our relationships also deserve a reset. Today, March 20, is the arrival of spring and marks not only a … Continue reading Spring Clean Your Relationship: A Fresh Start for Love
Empowering Women in Relationships:
The month of March has been declared Women’s Month. What better month to serve as a reminder to talk/write about empowering women in every aspect of life: in business, marriage/family, work space, education, politics, governance, STEAM, etc. This post is however about empowering women in relationships, especially in marriage. Empowerment in relationships isn’t about control … Continue reading Empowering Women in Relationships:
A Series: Are men naturally wired polyamorous?
An illustration of a man surrounded by several different women, each with unique appearances and expressions. This is a three-part Series (could be more) delving into men, their multiple relationships, and the women who aide them. Polyamorous by Nature? The question of whether men are naturally wired to be polyamorous is a complex one, involving … Continue reading A Series: Are men naturally wired polyamorous?
Photos from the Debut Art Show
In the art world, anything and everything makes for art! All is well in love and peace, including Art Shows; especially when it is your daughter’s very first. It makes it extra specially in love and peace and joy. I can’t say how proud I am of this resilient young lady who is a chip … Continue reading Photos from the Debut Art Show
Love & Marriage: 30 Things You Won’t Do—And 30 You’ll Be Compelled to Do, Just Because
Ah, love and marriage! They say love makes the world go round, but in marriage, it also makes the dishes get done, the car mysteriously refill with gas, and the last slice of cake magically end up on your spouse’s plate (even when you really wanted it). ************************************** 🤍❤️💗 Happy Valentine’s Day! To all lovebirds … Continue reading Love & Marriage: 30 Things You Won’t Do—And 30 You’ll Be Compelled to Do, Just Because
Happy Valentine’s Day
Oh, Valentine, a day so bright,Where hearts take wing in love’s sweet light.The air is laced with joy and cheer,A whispered promise, warm and near. Red, white, and pink roses bloom with silent speech,Their petals soft, their fragrance sweet.A token sent, a love confessed,A beating heart, a soul caressed. But love, dear love, is more … Continue reading Happy Valentine’s Day
National Marriage Week (February 7–14): Strengthening Your Bond
Wedding/Marriage The National Marriage Week started on February 7th and ends on Valentine’s Day; the 14th of February. Yours truly has been extremely busy with moving, hence just posting this. Anyhow, Shout out to all married couples in the WordPress Community and my subscribers. May the love between you and yours grow stronger and stronger. … Continue reading National Marriage Week (February 7–14): Strengthening Your Bond
The Fine Balance Between Bluntness, Honesty, Tact, and Wisdom
The Rungs of the Ladder We all know someone who is so blunt that they alienate people away from, with their bluntness and truthfulness, than they draw towards themselves. I used to be and once fell at the bottom rung of that ladder. But, thank God, that I am no longer there. I moved up … Continue reading The Fine Balance Between Bluntness, Honesty, Tact, and Wisdom
The Weavers of False Tales
The Weaver spinning their false tales, capturing the surreal and dramatic essence of their deceptive craft. Know a Weaver There’s always one in every corner. In the shadowed corners of the human soul, There lie the weavers of stories untold. Their tongues are silver, their words a snare, They spin false yarns to make hearts … Continue reading The Weavers of False Tales
What Does Freedom and Equity Look Like in Marriage? Should They Exist?
Marriage, at its core, is a partnership. It’s a union where two individuals come together, bringing their unique perspectives, values, and strengths to create a life together. But what happens when questions of freedom and equity arise? Are they essential to a healthy marriage, or do they undermine its foundation? It all depends on which … Continue reading What Does Freedom and Equity Look Like in Marriage? Should They Exist?
The Abortion Debate: Reframing From A Biblical Perspective on Accountability and Responsibility
Abortion is not only the Woman’s Choice or Issue Abortion is one of the most polarizing topics in our society today, often debated from moral, ethical, and spiritual perspectives. However, much of the conversation tends to focus on the consequences—whether to permit or prohibit abortion—while neglecting the root causes that lead to these situations. At … Continue reading The Abortion Debate: Reframing From A Biblical Perspective on Accountability and Responsibility
Will you Support a Great Cause?
http://www.instagram.com/reel/DE7yJuBv1rz/ Support a great cause while carrying a meaningful reminder! Purchase art keychains designed with love, and know that every donation goes directly to supporting the victims of the California wildfires. These unique keychains feature vibrant artwork and symbolize hope, resilience, and community spirit. Your contribution counts and can make a difference in providing immediate … Continue reading Will you Support a Great Cause?
New Year, New Beginnings: New Year’s Relationship Resolutions
The dawn of a new year brings with it a sense of renewal, fresh opportunities, and the chance to redefine our lives, especially our relationships. Whether you’re single or in a committed partnership, the start of the year offers a unique chance to reflect on your relationship goals and take action to nurture the connections … Continue reading New Year, New Beginnings: New Year’s Relationship Resolutions
Of Incubus and Succubus
An incubus and a succubus with their seductive, demonic allure in a dark, intimate setting Read The Spiritual Perspective of Sex in Dreams to fully understand this post. While the concepts of Incubus and Succubus originated from folklore and mythology, they have become significant in Christian deliverance ministries. This shift stems from the recognition … Continue reading Of Incubus and Succubus
Advent: A Season of Reflection and Preparation
The Advent Wreath with the Four Candles of Hope, Joy, Peace, and Love As December ushers in the festive season, it’s easy to become overwhelmed by the glittering lights, endless shopping lists, and the anticipation of holiday celebrations. However, for Christians around the world, this time holds a deeper significance—it is the season of Advent. … Continue reading Advent: A Season of Reflection and Preparation
Part 3: Should a Man Listen to His Mom’s Advice About His Relationship?
The man in the middle of a relationship triangle This is our final post of our article on whether sons should listen to their mothers regarding their relationships. In Part 1, we reviewed the Pros and Cons of men taking relationship advice from their mothers and gave advice to mothers who have unresolved feelings about … Continue reading Part 3: Should a Man Listen to His Mom’s Advice About His Relationship?
Part 2: Should a Man Listen to His Mom’s Advice About His Relationship?
A messy triangle of mother-son-wife Continuing our article on whether sons should listen to their mothers regarding their relationships. In Part 1, we reviewed the Pros and Cons of men taking relationship advice from their mothers and gave advice to mothers who have unresolved feelings about their son’s choice of woman. Read Part 1 here. … Continue reading Part 2: Should a Man Listen to His Mom’s Advice About His Relationship?
Should a Man Listen to His Mom’s Advice About His Relationship? Weighing the Pros and Cons
Man torn between the women in his life Counseling a man, supposedly, in love is a tricky issue for anyone to dabble into. Same for women. However, and generally speaking, women are more levelheaded in receiving relationship advices than men. But what happens when the counseling or advice is coming from the man’s mother or … Continue reading Should a Man Listen to His Mom’s Advice About His Relationship? Weighing the Pros and Cons
Quincy Jones: The Legendary Maestro. 1933-2024
Credits: Wikipedia. Quincy Jones I was a teenager in London, U.K., when I first heard about Quincy Jones, popularly known in the music industry simply as “Q.” My aunt, who once lived in San Francisco, CA for many years, adores him. I learned about Q long before I smelled the shores of the USA. Sadly, … Continue reading Quincy Jones: The Legendary Maestro. 1933-2024
Witchcraft is Real – Part II: Awareness and Protecting Yourself and Loved Ones
Learn about witchcraft not to fear it but to understand how it operates today. We’re continuing the post on witchcraft. In Part I, we listed the forms and effects if witchcraft. The forms of witchcraft listed are merely the common ones and not limited in any sense. The Spirit of God is the greatest discerner … Continue reading Witchcraft is Real – Part II: Awareness and Protecting Yourself and Loved Ones
Equity with Kindness
https://youtu.be/fXAlfh6QKQs?feature=shared Credits: YouTube Reelblack OneStevie Wonder and Paul Macartney’s Song was so apropos in 1982 as it is in 2024; 40+ years after. Treating each other equitably and with kindness is the foundation of a more harmonious and just society. Nobody wants to be on the receiving end of negativity, especially when it comes in … Continue reading Equity with Kindness
Imprecatory Prayers
People praying Imprecatory prayers are prayers that invoke judgment, calamity, or curses upon one's enemies or those perceived as the enemies of God. I have prayed those prayers. You probably have, too. Such prayers have been highly controversial and condemned by many stating that they are unscriptural and un-Chrstlike. Biblical Precedents You might, however, be … Continue reading Imprecatory Prayers
Vulnerability in Relationships: The Key to Genuine Connection
Vulnerability in Relationships builds deeper Intimacy In a world where strength and independence are often celebrated, vulnerability can sometimes be perceived as a weakness. However, in the realm of relationships, vulnerability is not only a strength but a crucial component for fostering deep and meaningful connections. Embracing vulnerability in relationships can lead to greater intimacy, … Continue reading Vulnerability in Relationships: The Key to Genuine Connection
The Silent Signals: Hold, Touch, and Look
Different Silent Signals There’s an unspoken language in the way a man holds a woman—those small, tender gestures that speak volumes about his feelings. A gentle touch, a protective arm around her shoulders, or a reassuring handhold can convey love, care, and a promise of protection. But what about the men who don’t show these … Continue reading The Silent Signals: Hold, Touch, and Look
God’s Perspective on Common Misconceptions: Relationship Myths Debunked
Myths or God? Marriages, love, and relationships are unique, and while certain myths about each persist, it’s essential to understand them through the lens of biblical wisdom. Let’s hear God’s perspective on marriage, love, and relationships and debunk some common myths with insights from scripture. Myth #1: “Never Go to Bed Angry" Ephesians 4:26 says, … Continue reading God’s Perspective on Common Misconceptions: Relationship Myths Debunked
Peace, Love, and Joy (PLJ)
Peace, Love, and Joy. Created on Canva What would I do without the Peace, Love, and Joy of God? Life would be miserable. Some folks don’t know peaceSo they want to shred you to pieces. Some have no loveSo they spread evil about you, hate you for no causecan’t stand or watch to see you … Continue reading Peace, Love, and Joy (PLJ)
The Love Framework
There it is. For us all who don’t know what love is, let the above, culled from the biblical love chapter, 1 Corinthians 13, be our framework in 2024 and beyond. May God help us.
Oscars Night: Did that just happened …?!!!
Credits: Pexels It appeared to be a stunt, a dramatization of sorts. It happened in Hollywood and involved two of Hollywood’s finest comedian/actors during Oscars’ 94th Academy Award this past weekend. In Hollywood, anything can happen, everything sells and makes news. So we thought it was one of those. Until the Oscars management provided a … Continue reading Oscars Night: Did that just happened …?!!!
Unrequited Love
Credits: Unsplash / S. Ruvalcaba How do you feel when you love someone who does not love you back? Thanks to Think Written for the writing prompt. Love ought to be reciprocal. Yes? Right? Remember Teddy Pendergrass’s 50/50 (or is’t 70/30 or 60/40) love song? Who wants to be the one holding on to the … Continue reading Unrequited Love
Don’t condemn yourself, neither let any condemn you
Everyone makes mistakes, right? At one point in our lives, each one of us will do or say something regrettable and wish that we could retract or delete or just wished that it was a bad dream? There’s none that hasn’t made a mistake at least once in their lifetime, right? If you haven’t, raise … Continue reading Don’t condemn yourself, neither let any condemn you
Love and Loving Yourself
Credits: Annie Spratt / Unsplash Valentines Day I believe that Valentines Day is a global celebration. Its origin, though still unknown, has been alluded to the Romans. Read here for a brief history. Valentines Day, like several other holidays, have been grossly abused. Why wait till February 14th to show love? And why show love … Continue reading Love and Loving Yourself
Fair Fighting Rules for Relationships
Written by Dr. Eric Perry Image Credit: Pixabay “An eye for an eye will only make the world blind” ~Mahatma Gandhi Arguments and relationships go …Fair Fighting Rules for Relationships I’m sharing Dr. Eric Perry’s blog on Fair Fighting Rules for Relationships. Click on the above link to read it. The Rules are shared with … Continue reading Fair Fighting Rules for Relationships
If men only knew … 5 Things men ought to know
Credits: Pexels If only men knew the gift of God that He gave them, men would handle their wives with utmost care and treat them as precious jewels. Out of the bones of Adam (Genesis 2:21-23), Eve, the mother of all living (Genesis 20:3), was formed. And His Word said, “..., ye husbands, dwell with … Continue reading If men only knew … 5 Things men ought to know
Love-first model for marriage and relationships
Credits: Tenor We posed the question, in our previous blog, should-love-or-marriage-be-based-on-a-business-or-love-first-model. We talked about the business-first model and what relationships would be like if we adopted that model. If you missed it, click bit.ly/2Czm55T to read it. Today, we review the other type of relationship; love-first model. It should be a no-brainer that relationships are … Continue reading Love-first model for marriage and relationships
Should love or marriage be based on a business- or love-first model?
Credits: Tenor “What’s in it for me?” “You rub my back and I rub yours (or scratch or poke yours depending on how I’m feeling about you! Lol). Sounds so cold, unh? Yet, these selfish and shamefacedly statements have now become cliches in households. Why does anything have to be in it for you? What … Continue reading Should love or marriage be based on a business- or love-first model?
Love me
Caption by Think-Talk Love me Not for my looks ‘Cause those will soon fade away; Not for my smarts For those were given to me And could be taken away; Not for my money ‘Cause you might detest me when it’s gone. Love me Just for me. If for my looks you came Know that … Continue reading Love me
Love and Love Languages
How do you love yourself or allow yourself to be loved? Are you the flower person, chocolates, wine and dine, just-hold-my-hands kind of person? Or do you prefer the long (phone/face-to-face) conversations? Whatever your preference, wouldn’t you like your significant other to know, or you knowing your children’s; if you have any? Wouldn’t you also … Continue reading Love and Love Languages
Happy Father’s Day
Girl Daddy Click here https://www.aljazeera.com/news/2019/06/father-day-celebrates-today-190616060505310.html for the history of Father’s Day . . . To all fathers worldwideBut particularly to fathersin the countries celebrating Father’s Day today; Thank you for the patriarchal leadingand gathering of all your children under your armsThat are so broad and strongYet so caring and stern Thank you for your guidanceAnd … Continue reading Happy Father’s Day
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