Failure turned into Success We’ve all had some kind of failure or the other in life. If you haven’t; it’s just a matter of time. Whether it’s a bad grade in school or college, a failed business venture or a relationship, terminated from a job or a marriage (aka divorced), the outcome can be devastating. … Continue reading Turn Failure into a Stepping Stone for Success
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Paradox of Being a Christian
The paradox of being a Christian Introduction Christianity, one of the world's major religions, calls its followers to a life that often appears paradoxical. These paradoxes challenge believers to see beyond the surface and embrace deeper truths. Christians are asked to embrace seemingly contradictory principles: strength in weakness, freedom in submission, and joy in suffering. … Continue reading Paradox of Being a Christian
12 Paradoxes of Life
Some Paradoxes of Life DEFINITION Paradox/par-uh-doks /noun• a statement that seems self-contradictory or absurd but in reality expresses a possible truth: “Less is more” is a paradox often repeated in the arts and other fields.It is a paradox of healthy grief that we must work at it while surrendering to it.• any person, thing, or … Continue reading 12 Paradoxes of Life
Vulnerability in Relationships: The Key to Genuine Connection
Vulnerability in Relationships builds deeper Intimacy In a world where strength and independence are often celebrated, vulnerability can sometimes be perceived as a weakness. However, in the realm of relationships, vulnerability is not only a strength but a crucial component for fostering deep and meaningful connections. Embracing vulnerability in relationships can lead to greater intimacy, … Continue reading Vulnerability in Relationships: The Key to Genuine Connection
Why Are We Generally Prone to Being Reactive Rather Than Proactive?
Being reactive we tend to fold our arms; while proactivity forges us to take action! Human behavior is a fascinating subject, and one particular aspect that stands out is our tendency to be reactive rather than proactive. While being proactive involves anticipating and preparing for future events, being reactive means responding to events as, or … Continue reading Why Are We Generally Prone to Being Reactive Rather Than Proactive?
The Influence of Parents’ Clout on Children’s Opportunities: A Fair Advantage or Unjust Practice?
A mother’s clout In today's competitive world, the selection of candidates for various positions often raises questions about fairness and meritocracy. One of the contentious issues is whether parents' influence or clout should play a part in their child's selection for a position, rather than basing it solely on the child's merit. This topic warrants … Continue reading The Influence of Parents’ Clout on Children’s Opportunities: A Fair Advantage or Unjust Practice?
The Silent Signals: Hold, Touch, and Look
Different Silent Signals There’s an unspoken language in the way a man holds a woman—those small, tender gestures that speak volumes about his feelings. A gentle touch, a protective arm around her shoulders, or a reassuring handhold can convey love, care, and a promise of protection. But what about the men who don’t show these … Continue reading The Silent Signals: Hold, Touch, and Look
The Lifesaving Benefits of Wearing Life Jackets
Life Jackets One of my birthday weekend activity was jet skiing with my daughters. We’d all been looking forward to it.We arrived at the San Diego Mission Bay Resort, Yamaha Waverunner Sports Rental. Read and signed all waivers, watched a six-minute video for shore instructions which included knowing the speed limits and shore boundaries … … Continue reading The Lifesaving Benefits of Wearing Life Jackets
When Trust is Broken
Broken Trust Have you ever trusted someone who betrayed you? Or have you broken/betrayed another? What was the outcome of such relationship/friendship? I’ve been on both sides of the Trust coin. I have been betrayed and I have also, unintentionally, betrayed a friend. I realized that whether it is intentional or unintentional, the one betrayed … Continue reading When Trust is Broken
Of Deception and Deceivers
Deception and Deceivers Have you ever been deceived? It’s possible to be deceived without knowing it. In such cases, we take the person and relationship as “gospel,” that is, we have no reason to doubt or think otherwise. But, once we are aware of a/the deceit, having the knowledge, especially with proof, of being deceived, … Continue reading Of Deception and Deceivers
Spiritual Fatigue
Spiritual Fatigue We crown The Fatigue Series with today’s post which I believe is the biggest deal of all the fatigues. Spiritual Fatigue is the biggest deal. Why? Because anything spiritual is not seen with the naked (or physical) eyes. You merely see the effect (outcome) but not the cause. This becomes a greatert deal … Continue reading Spiritual Fatigue
Mental Fatigue
Mental Fatigue Mental fatigue, often referred to as cognitive fatigue, is a state of tiredness that can affect an individual's cognitive functions. Unlike physical fatigue, which impacts the body's muscles and energy levels, mental fatigue primarily affects the brain and its ability to process information. This condition is becoming increasingly common in today's fast-paced, high-demand … Continue reading Mental Fatigue
Emotional Fatigue vs. Physical Fatigue
Emotional and Physical Fatigue are not the same While emotional fatigue and physical fatigue can often coexist, they are distinct experiences that affect the body and mind in different ways. Understanding the differences between the two can help in identifying the right strategies for management and recovery. Definition and Nature Emotional Fatigue: Origin: Emotional fatigue … Continue reading Emotional Fatigue vs. Physical Fatigue
Physical Fatigue
Physical Fatigue What is Physical Fatigue? Physical fatigue is a state of extreme tiredness and decreased capacity to perform physical activities. It occurs when the muscles and the body are overworked or under significant strain, leading to a reduction in performance and an increase in the perception of effort required to perform tasks. Causes of … Continue reading Physical Fatigue
Understanding Fatigue
Fatigue Have you ever felt simultaneously drained, tired, and weak, and it’s not because you’re sick or you’ve overworked yourself? That kind of feeling when you have tons of things to do, know what to do, but can’t get up to do anything. That kind of feeling is not a good one and it can … Continue reading Understanding Fatigue
God’s Perspective on Common Misconceptions: Relationship Myths Debunked
Myths or God? Marriages, love, and relationships are unique, and while certain myths about each persist, it’s essential to understand them through the lens of biblical wisdom. Let’s hear God’s perspective on marriage, love, and relationships and debunk some common myths with insights from scripture. Myth #1: “Never Go to Bed Angry" Ephesians 4:26 says, … Continue reading God’s Perspective on Common Misconceptions: Relationship Myths Debunked
Relationship Myths Debunked: The Truth Behind Common Misconceptions
Myths Debunked Happy Friday to you all. Relationships are like fingerprints—each one is unique. Yet, despite their diversity, certain myths about love, relationships, and/or marriages seem to persist across cultures and generations. Let’s have some lighthearted fun debunking these common myths and shedding light on what really makes relationships tick. Myth #1: “Never Go to … Continue reading Relationship Myths Debunked: The Truth Behind Common Misconceptions
The Umbrella of Life: Tips for Shielding Oneself from Life’s Storms
Umbrella of Life Life can be unpredictable, much like a sudden downpour on a seemingly sunny day. We can't control the weather, but we can carry an umbrella to protect ourselves. Similarly, we can equip ourselves with tools and strategies to navigate life's storms. What do you do when en the storms of life rage … Continue reading The Umbrella of Life: Tips for Shielding Oneself from Life’s Storms
What is the right approach to handling a wrong done to you?
Wrongdoing and Forgiveness Glitch Most, if not all of us, have been dealt some kind of wrong at some point or the other in our lives. How did you deal with it? We wait endlessly for the wrongdoer to step up and apologize. But, the longer we tend to wait, the more hurtful the deed … Continue reading What is the right approach to handling a wrong done to you?
Navigating the Crossroads of Life
Crossroads of Life At some point in our life journey, we find ourselves standing at a crossroad, faced with the daunting choice between the familiar and the unknown. We ask ourselves and none in particular, “which way to go?” It's a moment that tests our courage, challenges our resolve, and ultimately shapes our destiny. Do … Continue reading Navigating the Crossroads of Life
DNA and Our Life Predispositions
DNA and Life Predispositions DNA plays a significant role in shaping our disposition and traits, influencing everything from our physical appearance to our personality traits. Through inheritance, DNA carries information passed down from our parents, determining aspects like eye color, hair texture, and susceptibility to certain diseases. Additionally, emerging research suggests that genetics can influence … Continue reading DNA and Our Life Predispositions
The Subtle Magic of Shared Moments and How It Shapes Our Mannerisms
Who will you hangout with this week? In the tapestry of human relationships, there exists a subtle yet profound phenomenon: the adoption of mannerisms through shared quality time. It's as if spending significant moments with someone grants us access to their unique behavioral lexicon, weaving their gestures, speech patterns, and quirks into our own tapestry … Continue reading The Subtle Magic of Shared Moments and How It Shapes Our Mannerisms
Blessed Sunday to You … You shall be like a Tree
Tree “Blessed is the man Who walks not in the counsel of the ungodly,Nor stands in the path of sinners,Nor sits in the seat of the scornful;But his delight is in the law of the Lord, And in His law he meditates day and night. He shall be like a tree Planted by the rivers … Continue reading Blessed Sunday to You … You shall be like a Tree
Of Lovers and Liars
An abstract of a lover and a liar [ A new TV show started today with the above title. I thought it makes a good title for my post. ] This is the time Of lovers and liars, tales spun in the night, Where friendship dances with truth in the fading light. In the tapestry … Continue reading Of Lovers and Liars
Which would you rather be and why?
Credits to Kh-ali-l i on Pexels Life Options An employee or an employer? A tenured employee (> 5 years) with one company or an experienced employee with multiple companies? Spend 30+ years with one company or spend the 30+ years with 3 or more companies? Be a lump sum lottery winner or a spread-out 30-year … Continue reading Which would you rather be and why?
Why Being a Christian is so Hard
Credits: Pixabay It’s so hard being a ChristianWhen so much wrong is done to youBy family members, close friends, or colleagues, and just about everyoneThat you have to live life ignoring their wrongdoingsAnd choose instead to continue loving and praying for themBut I’ll trade no other placeBut to be known as a Christian Being a … Continue reading Why Being a Christian is so Hard
How did I get here 🤔
Credits: Pexel She woke up after several years of unintentional and uninterrupted slumber.And asked, speaking to none in particular but herself and her Maker, “how did I get here?!” She’s being in the Adam-kind of slumber(remember, the biblical Adam and Eve story?)Only for her, no Adam came from her hips. Still trying to figure out … Continue reading How did I get here 🤔
Choices
Today, you are a product of the choices of your yesteryearsTomorrow, you will be a product of the choices you make today. If you don’t like who you areOr where you are todayChoose this day what tomorrow will be by making an intentional choice today Our lives revolve around choices Just like this blog’s image … Continue reading Choices
Choices
People with “Choice” Signs You have a Choice. I have a Choice. We all have Choices. We need to remind ourselves that we are never boxed in or locked up in any unfavorable situation or circumstance. None should ever say or feel that they never have a Choice. It is a matter of whether you … Continue reading Choices
Missed Shots
Credits: Pixel Most of us have had them. If you haven’t yet, it’s a great thing to be reading this today because it will help you prepare to recognize and grasp them. But, I must warn you, it is imperative to have at least one in your lifetime. That one will be your trigger or … Continue reading Missed Shots
The Sun Shone Brightest
The sun shone brightest in my neighborhood yesterdayWas I so glad to see and feelThe sun so hot andThe sky so clear And all so calm. The little things we take for granted. Just the day beforeThe sky was gloomyand early pitch darknessAt a timewhen it ought to have been clear and bright The rain … Continue reading The Sun Shone Brightest
One thing I know for sure …
Credits: Unsplash / Pro Church Media No matter who you are and how many people rave about you, about your cookies or cooking or style or looks or you-name-it, one thing I now definitely know for sure is that there is always someone somewhere who doesn’t give a hoot about you, still can’t stand you … Continue reading One thing I know for sure …
The Antagonist
Credits: Unsplash / Callum Skelton Have you ever encountered an antagonist? I’m not talking about a storyline or drama-type antagonist. I’m talking about the one who is passive-aggressive, subtly malicious, unkind, intentionally does things to hurt you, and pretends that it was done unintentionally, in error, without bias, or were just trying to help you. … Continue reading The Antagonist
Saint Francis’s Prayer
Credits: Unsplash / Chris Liverani I had some personal decisions to make that will change the trajectory of my life. As such, it has been a two weeks of mental fatigue for many reasons. I haven’t posted as a result. Sorry. I truly missed not posting nor reading any of my favorite peoples’ posts. During … Continue reading Saint Francis’s Prayer
WISDOM (I)
Credits: Unsplash / Left, Tim Wildsmith. Right, Brett Jordan Each block/paragraph below is a verse. Absolutely no indigestion nor congestion. Simply enjoy, digest, ingest all you can, and egest the ones you can’t. At the end, I hope you badly desire Wisdom. From the Holy Bible: Proverbs 8:1-36 “Does not wisdom call out? Does not … Continue reading WISDOM (I)
Blindsides
Credits: Unsplash / David Olubaji Blindside has only two definitions in each of the dictionaries (Collins, dictionary.com, Oxford, and Merriam-Webster). This is a little surprising considering that most words usually have various definitions. One meaning of Blindside relates to sports, “to tackle, hit, or attack (an opponent) from the blind side.” The other, is considered … Continue reading Blindsides
Is your Heart healthy? Or Are you on a Verge of a Heart Attack?
There are devices we can use at home to check our blood pressure, our temperature, and blood sugar for glucose level? But how does one check the heart? I do not suppose that there is a home device yet for the heart. We all need a heart check up. And I don’t mean medically. That … Continue reading Is your Heart healthy? Or Are you on a Verge of a Heart Attack?
Unrequited Love
Credits: Unsplash / S. Ruvalcaba How do you feel when you love someone who does not love you back? Thanks to Think Written for the writing prompt. Love ought to be reciprocal. Yes? Right? Remember Teddy Pendergrass’s 50/50 (or is’t 70/30 or 60/40) love song? Who wants to be the one holding on to the … Continue reading Unrequited Love
So you think you’re ready … how is your E-Emotional Development
Credits: Unsplash / Left, Robina Weermeijer. Right, Tengyart PEMFESS+P: The First E-Emotional Development A lot can be unpacked as regards Emotions. Your emotions impact every area of your life. It is your brain and feelings connection. When fully grounded in the emotions, other areas will be positive. Similarly, out-of-control emotions negatively impact other areas of … Continue reading So you think you’re ready … how is your E-Emotional Development
“I was busy but not fulfilled.” Are you, too?
Anyone could have said that statement and it probably wouldn’t have made such an impact as it did when I had it from the 43rd President. To say that I was stunned was an understatement! I just heard Mr. George W. Bush, former President of the United States of America and former Texas State Governor, … Continue reading “I was busy but not fulfilled.” Are you, too?
Of God The Creator and Satan The Imitator
We’ve all heard and probably know or acknowledge the deity of the Almighty Creator of the universe. He goes by different names, in the Christian spheres, among which are: I AM. Elohim. Yahweh. Alpha.Omega. Omnipresent, Omniscient, Omnipotent. Ancient of Days. Jehovah El Roi, Nissi, Tsidkenu, etc. Other religious spheres call Him by other names. This … Continue reading Of God The Creator and Satan The Imitator
Monday Financial Nuggets: 10 things I wish I knew about Insurance
Keeping the life insurance I had when I was younger. Generally speaking, we are all more agile and healthier at 20-30 years old than we are at 40 and over. Buying life insurance at an older age is more expensive. I realized that if I had retained the whole life insurance, I could have locked … Continue reading Monday Financial Nuggets: 10 things I wish I knew about Insurance
Jesus Ministry: Peace
Credits: Unsplash / Sunyu Peace is a state of stillness, tranquility, harmony, or serenity. A freedom of the mind from agitation, annoyance, distraction, anxiety, warring, or obsession. It is also a state or condition available to people and nations, but not all possesses it. In the absence of Peace, chaos, or agitation, anxiety, fear, and … Continue reading Jesus Ministry: Peace
Of Girls and Daughters
Why do nations and parents treat or elevate boys over girls, sons over daughters, or males over females? Do they think that The Creator made a mistake? The One who made them, made them male and female. At creation, He did not state nor gave a divine preference or importance for their roles. Granted that … Continue reading Of Girls and Daughters
Ladies and Their Last Names
Credits: Unsplash / @austinkirk Is’t necessary for ladies to change their last name on marriage? Credits: Unsplash / @beatriz_perez First, what’s in a last name? Or, put another way, what’s in your last name? Some regions call it surname. Your last name/surname is your legacy. Your DNA. Traditions In researching for this post, I found … Continue reading Ladies and Their Last Names
The Mystery is Over
I self-award myself The Mystery Blogger Award as I have blogged anonymously over the year. During the period, I have been asked “what’s your name?” to which I had (I hope, politely) requested to simply be addressed as “ThinkTalk.” I also use Thinker-Talker as my name on most sites. But I did consider revealing a … Continue reading The Mystery is Over
Quadrant
A quadrant (quad) among other definitions, is “the area included between such an arc and two radii drawn one to each extremity.” What quadrant do you belong to? Which quadrant are you presently operating in? And which should you truly be in? Other terms have been used. Terms such as buckets, sections, structure, quarter, etc. … Continue reading Quadrant
It’s Nothing
If everyone believes in youBut you don’t,It’s nothing If God says you are and canBut you don’t think so,Agree or feel itIt’s nothing No matter how many peopleTell you the qualities they love in youStill, it’s nothingIf you don’t believe you possess those qualities Until you know, that you knowThat you know, that you knowWho … Continue reading It’s Nothing
What is your state – Happiness or Joy?
Credits: Tenor What determines your emotions or state of mind - people, things, family, events, - or your self? We all love and cherish our relationships. I hope that we all do. We cherish our family and families. I hope that we do. We love gifts when gifted. I hope that we do, else we’ll … Continue reading What is your state – Happiness or Joy?
Don’t condemn yourself, neither let any condemn you
Everyone makes mistakes, right? At one point in our lives, each one of us will do or say something regrettable and wish that we could retract or delete or just wished that it was a bad dream? There’s none that hasn’t made a mistake at least once in their lifetime, right? If you haven’t, raise … Continue reading Don’t condemn yourself, neither let any condemn you
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