Andy Byron and Kristin Cabot were caught on Coldplay’s “kiss cam.” Credits: Grace Springer via Storyful What was your reaction on seeing that viral video? I was disgusted. It was supposed to be a fun night out. A Coldplay concert. A kiss cam. A playful tradition. But for former Astronomer CEO Andy Byron and HR head … Continue reading When the Camera Doesn’t Lie: A Frank Analysis of Andy Byron’s Viral Moment
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I have been in a comatose (literally!)
https://videopress.com/v/qTeDwcw3?resizeToParent=true&cover=true&preloadContent=metadata&useAverageColor=true I have been sleeping all these years (or was it comatose?) and finally woke up by a word I read. Yes, you got that right - a word! Well, maybe six words which said “died at 39, buried at 70!” It hit home like thunder striking at my heart and fire shot through my … Continue reading I have been in a comatose (literally!)
When Power Dated Wealth: Lessons from a Relationship Gone Wrong
They were unstoppable. One wanted to change the world with rockets.The other wanted to rule it with laws. But like so many relationships — romantic or otherwise — it all started with admiration … and ended in memes, silence, and passive-aggressive tweets. In our fictional satire, Max Titan and Preston Valor symbolized what happens when … Continue reading When Power Dated Wealth: Lessons from a Relationship Gone Wrong
“So You Think You’re Ready …”
eBook Cover I’m passionate about many things, particularly, marriage, family, and relationships. I’ve blogged tons about it and have been working on a book to share my experiences. The book is taking much longer than anticipated, but this eBook marks the first step. If we all “prepared” for marriage, I’m sure there’d be fewer divorces, … Continue reading “So You Think You’re Ready …”
Is Being Nice Costing You?
In a world that often values boldness and assertiveness, being kind and agreeable is seen as a virtue. However, what if that kindness comes at a hidden cost? While being nice can build connections and help maintain harmony, the reality is that it may come with unexpected emotional, mental, and even financial costs. Let’s explore … Continue reading Is Being Nice Costing You?
Irresponsible Procreation
I once met a young African-American couple. The lady was pregnant and excited. I was excited for her. In her excitement, she disclosed that the guy already had eight children by four different women. The conversation took a different turn. I thought out loud that if my daughters were present, they’d cringe at what I … Continue reading Irresponsible Procreation
The Case for Monogamy in Relationships —Particularly in Marriage
In a world where commitment is increasingly viewed as optional, where “open” relationships and polyamory are gaining cultural traction, the case for monogamy (aka one man, one woman) remains as strong as ever — especially in marriage. Monogamy is more than just a societal norm or religious principle; it is the foundation upon which deep … Continue reading The Case for Monogamy in Relationships —Particularly in Marriage
Spring Clean Your Relationship: A Fresh Start for Love
Ways to spring-clean your relationship As winter fades and spring emerges, there’s a collective urge to declutter, refresh, and start anew. Just as we deep-clean our homes and clear out the dust of the past season, our relationships also deserve a reset. Today, March 20, is the arrival of spring and marks not only a … Continue reading Spring Clean Your Relationship: A Fresh Start for Love
Polyamory and Polygamy: A Disrespect to the Women Involved
In recent years, polyamory and polygamy have gained attention as alternative relationship structures. Some argue that these practices offer freedom, personal fulfillment, and unconventional expressions of love. However, beneath the surface, these arrangements often reveal a stark reality: they thrive at the expense of the women involved. A man cannot engage in multiple relationships unless … Continue reading Polyamory and Polygamy: A Disrespect to the Women Involved
Empowering Women in Relationships:
The month of March has been declared Women’s Month. What better month to serve as a reminder to talk/write about empowering women in every aspect of life: in business, marriage/family, work space, education, politics, governance, STEAM, etc. This post is however about empowering women in relationships, especially in marriage. Empowerment in relationships isn’t about control … Continue reading Empowering Women in Relationships:
Satan Fights Potential Power Couples the Fiercest: The Outcome depends on Who’s in Your Inner Circle?
Power couples and the terms that define them Power Couples Who are Power Couples? We all know them, but probably don’t address them as such. They are two individuals who are both very successful or influential in their own right, and together, they create a dynamic duo that has an even greater impact. They’re often … Continue reading Satan Fights Potential Power Couples the Fiercest: The Outcome depends on Who’s in Your Inner Circle?
Part 3: Polyamorous Men: Why Do Men Have Tons of Children?
A man surrounded by his children This is the third in this Series. We’re talking about men and their multiple relationships, especially in marriages, and the women who aide them. We acknowledge that it’s an age-long issue. But, should we allow it to remain forever? Jump in and let’s have a conversation to understand all … Continue reading Part 3: Polyamorous Men: Why Do Men Have Tons of Children?
A Series: Are men naturally wired polyamorous?
An illustration of a man surrounded by several different women, each with unique appearances and expressions. This is a three-part Series (could be more) delving into men, their multiple relationships, and the women who aide them. Polyamorous by Nature? The question of whether men are naturally wired to be polyamorous is a complex one, involving … Continue reading A Series: Are men naturally wired polyamorous?
The Power of Choice: Why Choosing Wisely Whom You Marry Is Essential
How do you know who it’s going to be? Marriage is one of the most significant decisions anyone can make. It is not merely a social contract or a romantic endeavor; it is a life-altering commitment that can either elevate your existence or become a source of profound sorrow. The adage, “Divorce is evil so … Continue reading The Power of Choice: Why Choosing Wisely Whom You Marry Is Essential
Love & Marriage: 30 Things You Won’t Do—And 30 You’ll Be Compelled to Do, Just Because
Ah, love and marriage! They say love makes the world go round, but in marriage, it also makes the dishes get done, the car mysteriously refill with gas, and the last slice of cake magically end up on your spouse’s plate (even when you really wanted it). ************************************** 🤍❤️💗 Happy Valentine’s Day! To all lovebirds … Continue reading Love & Marriage: 30 Things You Won’t Do—And 30 You’ll Be Compelled to Do, Just Because
Happy Valentine’s Day
Oh, Valentine, a day so bright,Where hearts take wing in love’s sweet light.The air is laced with joy and cheer,A whispered promise, warm and near. Red, white, and pink roses bloom with silent speech,Their petals soft, their fragrance sweet.A token sent, a love confessed,A beating heart, a soul caressed. But love, dear love, is more … Continue reading Happy Valentine’s Day
Self-Love Focus: Loving Yourself First to Love Your Spouse
Many people enter relationships hoping to find fulfillment, validation, and happiness through their spouses. However, the truth is that a strong, healthy relationship starts with self-love. You cannot fully love someone else if you don’t love yourself first. When you cultivate self-love, you bring confidence, emotional stability, and a sense of completeness into the relationship … Continue reading Self-Love Focus: Loving Yourself First to Love Your Spouse
National Marriage Week (February 7–14): Strengthening Your Bond
Wedding/Marriage The National Marriage Week started on February 7th and ends on Valentine’s Day; the 14th of February. Yours truly has been extremely busy with moving, hence just posting this. Anyhow, Shout out to all married couples in the WordPress Community and my subscribers. May the love between you and yours grow stronger and stronger. … Continue reading National Marriage Week (February 7–14): Strengthening Your Bond
Challenges and Outcomes of Marrying the Wrong Person: A Three-Part Series
Different married couples Marriage is often portrayed as a union of love, trust, and mutual respect, but the reality is that not every marital journey unfolds as smoothly as expected. For some individuals, saying “I do” to the wrong person can lead to a myriad of challenges and outcomes that profoundly impact their lives. From … Continue reading Challenges and Outcomes of Marrying the Wrong Person: A Three-Part Series
What Does Freedom and Equity Look Like in Marriage? Should They Exist?
Marriage, at its core, is a partnership. It’s a union where two individuals come together, bringing their unique perspectives, values, and strengths to create a life together. But what happens when questions of freedom and equity arise? Are they essential to a healthy marriage, or do they undermine its foundation? It all depends on which … Continue reading What Does Freedom and Equity Look Like in Marriage? Should They Exist?
Towards Financial Freedom: A Married Couple’s Guide to Unity in Finances
Marriage and Money Introduction “When two become one” isn’t just about sharing a last name or a home. It’s about uniting every aspect of your lives, including finances. For many couples, navigating money matters can be one of the most challenging and rewarding parts of marriage. Whether you’re newlyweds or seasoned partners, building a solid … Continue reading Towards Financial Freedom: A Married Couple’s Guide to Unity in Finances
Marriage Wellness Quiz Series
How strong is your marriage? 💍 “Marriage is to be held in honor among all [that is, regarded as something of great value] ...”Hebrews 13:4 AMP Every relationship has its own rhythm, but have you ever wondered where yours really stands? Don’t take each other for granted this New Year. Treat each other with mutual … Continue reading Marriage Wellness Quiz Series
New Year, New Beginnings: New Year’s Relationship Resolutions
The dawn of a new year brings with it a sense of renewal, fresh opportunities, and the chance to redefine our lives, especially our relationships. Whether you’re single or in a committed partnership, the start of the year offers a unique chance to reflect on your relationship goals and take action to nurture the connections … Continue reading New Year, New Beginnings: New Year’s Relationship Resolutions
Of Incubus and Succubus
An incubus and a succubus with their seductive, demonic allure in a dark, intimate setting Read The Spiritual Perspective of Sex in Dreams to fully understand this post. While the concepts of Incubus and Succubus originated from folklore and mythology, they have become significant in Christian deliverance ministries. This shift stems from the recognition … Continue reading Of Incubus and Succubus
Part 3: Should a Man Listen to His Mom’s Advice About His Relationship?
The man in the middle of a relationship triangle This is our final post of our article on whether sons should listen to their mothers regarding their relationships. In Part 1, we reviewed the Pros and Cons of men taking relationship advice from their mothers and gave advice to mothers who have unresolved feelings about … Continue reading Part 3: Should a Man Listen to His Mom’s Advice About His Relationship?
Part 2: Should a Man Listen to His Mom’s Advice About His Relationship?
A messy triangle of mother-son-wife Continuing our article on whether sons should listen to their mothers regarding their relationships. In Part 1, we reviewed the Pros and Cons of men taking relationship advice from their mothers and gave advice to mothers who have unresolved feelings about their son’s choice of woman. Read Part 1 here. … Continue reading Part 2: Should a Man Listen to His Mom’s Advice About His Relationship?
Should a Man Listen to His Mom’s Advice About His Relationship? Weighing the Pros and Cons
Man torn between the women in his life Counseling a man, supposedly, in love is a tricky issue for anyone to dabble into. Same for women. However, and generally speaking, women are more levelheaded in receiving relationship advices than men. But what happens when the counseling or advice is coming from the man’s mother or … Continue reading Should a Man Listen to His Mom’s Advice About His Relationship? Weighing the Pros and Cons
Part II – Separation
Is there a place for Separation when a marriage is in distress? The answer is: Maybe. Separation, like Divorce, is hard on the Family Separation can work in very specific cases—when both parties genuinely want to reconcile but need a break from the conflict to refocus on themselves and what they want from the marriage. … Continue reading Part II – Separation
Giannis Antetokounmpo!
Hey all. I know. I know. I know that the NBA Season hasn’t started. So, why are we talking about Giannis, the only Giannis in the NBA, or should I say, in America?! 🙂 Giannis is no longer available 🥹 https://youtu.be/OSBan_sH_b8?feature=shared Nigerian acclaimed artist, Davido’s video of “Unavailable” Yes, a year after being officially engaged, … Continue reading Giannis Antetokounmpo!
Hommes Fatales
Hommes Fatales are like deadly pills to Women I describe men who act abusively or neglectfully in relationships as "hommes fatales." These types of men tend to operate from a place of ignorance, entitlement, or deep-seated insecurities using (or rather, dangling), their money power as a means or bait. It is ignorance and manifests as … Continue reading Hommes Fatales
Ignorance Is No Excuse
Ignorance is a two-edged sword We are all too familiar with the phrase "ignorance is no excuse" which is often used in legal, professional, and personal settings to emphasize that not knowing something doesn't absolve you from the consequences of your actions. Whether in the workplace, relationships, or everyday life, we all encounter situations where … Continue reading Ignorance Is No Excuse
There are still …
Has divorce become a calculated harm and marriage now at your own risk? There are still good-to-great guys and ladies out there who desire a good-to-great marriage. Why did I say that? I had an interesting conversation with a young lady who I’ll call Tara. She started by sharing with me that she recently got … Continue reading There are still …
Effective Communication Strategies in Relationships
Active listening is part of Effective Communication Introduction Effective communication is the cornerstone of a healthy relationship. It allows couples to connect, understand each other, and resolve conflicts. However, many couples struggle with communication, leading to misunderstandings and emotional distance. In this article, we'll explore common communication challenges and offer strategies to help couples communicate … Continue reading Effective Communication Strategies in Relationships
Relationship Myths Debunked: The Truth Behind Common Misconceptions
Myths Debunked Happy Friday to you all. Relationships are like fingerprints—each one is unique. Yet, despite their diversity, certain myths about love, relationships, and/or marriages seem to persist across cultures and generations. Let’s have some lighthearted fun debunking these common myths and shedding light on what really makes relationships tick. Myth #1: “Never Go to … Continue reading Relationship Myths Debunked: The Truth Behind Common Misconceptions
Values and Core Values: In Marriage
A married couple thinking of their Values and Core Values The Vacuum Metaphor Your Values and Core Values must have been known, understood, and worn like a futuristic collar around your neck way before marriage. This is necessary so you don’t enter into marriage and lose yourself. If there is a vacuum in one’s life, … Continue reading Values and Core Values: In Marriage
Where does Married Couples’ arguments come from?
Beauty and the Beast arguing The consensus is that finance and sex are the culprits for most arguments and divorces. Do you agree? Maybe. I strongly believe though that finance and sex are by-products. If all other things are right, the marriage can survive. Take for example, if the one who desires more sex suddenly … Continue reading Where does Married Couples’ arguments come from?
Of In-Laws and Out-Laws
In-laws and Out-lawsEvery where and no whereWhere did they come fromAnd why are they so named? Is’t all about benefits?One thinkingYou brought moreWhile the otherSupposed you’re taking benefits away. Whose benefits anyways? Didn’t God sayHe or sheWould leave you some day.That some day is now. But In-laws and Out-lawsSuppose they’re neverComing back again Why make … Continue reading Of In-Laws and Out-Laws
Of Marriage and Divorce
They found each otherafter experiencing others On the dating field of romance, heartaches, and false promisesNo other could match up It was nice thatThey experienced thoseJust to wait for each otherAnd to know that they wanted none of the others. They were meant for each other foreverThey were meant to be, to meet, and to … Continue reading Of Marriage and Divorce
My dear, so you think you’re ready for marriage. How do you fair in these areas?
Credits: Pexels There was a time when there were no books on marriages nor on pregnancy and having children. Now there are ample books, including scholarly non-fictions and numerous blogs, on both topics to choose from. I join to blog my perspectives, and to propose areas of development, for ladies before embarking on the journey … Continue reading My dear, so you think you’re ready for marriage. How do you fair in these areas?
Ladies and Their Last Names
Credits: Unsplash / @austinkirk Is’t necessary for ladies to change their last name on marriage? Credits: Unsplash / @beatriz_perez First, what’s in a last name? Or, put another way, what’s in your last name? Some regions call it surname. Your last name/surname is your legacy. Your DNA. Traditions In researching for this post, I found … Continue reading Ladies and Their Last Names
What makes a man marry several women?
Libido? Cupidity? Power (Clout) and Control, Social Status, Shortage of men, or simply because they can and the women allow it? Your answer is as good as mine. . . . Polygamy is the act of marrying multiple spouses, simultaneously or sequentially, without first divorcing the other spouse. Sociologists have different terms when the man … Continue reading What makes a man marry several women?
Fair Fighting Rules for Relationships
Written by Dr. Eric Perry Image Credit: Pixabay “An eye for an eye will only make the world blind” ~Mahatma Gandhi Arguments and relationships go …Fair Fighting Rules for Relationships I’m sharing Dr. Eric Perry’s blog on Fair Fighting Rules for Relationships. Click on the above link to read it. The Rules are shared with … Continue reading Fair Fighting Rules for Relationships
If men only knew … 5 Things men ought to know
Credits: Pexels If only men knew the gift of God that He gave them, men would handle their wives with utmost care and treat them as precious jewels. Out of the bones of Adam (Genesis 2:21-23), Eve, the mother of all living (Genesis 20:3), was formed. And His Word said, “..., ye husbands, dwell with … Continue reading If men only knew … 5 Things men ought to know
Love-first model for marriage and relationships
Credits: Tenor We posed the question, in our previous blog, should-love-or-marriage-be-based-on-a-business-or-love-first-model. We talked about the business-first model and what relationships would be like if we adopted that model. If you missed it, click bit.ly/2Czm55T to read it. Today, we review the other type of relationship; love-first model. It should be a no-brainer that relationships are … Continue reading Love-first model for marriage and relationships
Should love or marriage be based on a business- or love-first model?
Credits: Tenor “What’s in it for me?” “You rub my back and I rub yours (or scratch or poke yours depending on how I’m feeling about you! Lol). Sounds so cold, unh? Yet, these selfish and shamefacedly statements have now become cliches in households. Why does anything have to be in it for you? What … Continue reading Should love or marriage be based on a business- or love-first model?
Housewife – Part Two: To be or not to be
Photo by Retha Ferguson on Pexels.comPhoto by Andrea Piacquadio on Pexels.comPhoto by Andrea Piacquadio on Pexels.com This is a second part of the blog series Housewife. In my previous blog, [Housewife: A Case for the Title], I made a case for the housewife and included the benefits and disadvantages of being one. As stated in … Continue reading Housewife – Part Two: To be or not to be
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