Ignorance is a two-edged sword We are all too familiar with the phrase "ignorance is no excuse" which is often used in legal, professional, and personal settings to emphasize that not knowing something doesn't absolve you from the consequences of your actions. Whether in the workplace, relationships, or everyday life, we all encounter situations where … Continue reading Ignorance Is No Excuse
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There are still …
Has divorce become a calculated harm and marriage now at your own risk? There are still good-to-great guys and ladies out there who desire a good-to-great marriage. Why did I say that? I had an interesting conversation with a young lady who I’ll call Tara. She started by sharing with me that she recently got … Continue reading There are still …
African Men and Relationships in the Western World: A Culture Clash
African couples in different postures Moving to a new country often brings with it a whirlwind of experiences. I‘m unsure of other cultures. But, for my African brothers settling in the Western world, the transition can be particularly challenging. Cultural norms and societal expectations in the West can differ significantly from those back home, creating … Continue reading African Men and Relationships in the Western World: A Culture Clash
Who You Start With Can Impact the Rest of Your Life: Why It’s Imperative to Choose Right
In the journey of life, the people we surround ourselves with—friends, partners, mentors—can have a profound impact on our trajectory. The saying “you are the average of the five people you spend the most time with” holds a significant truth. The influence of those who walk with you during crucial stages of your life can … Continue reading Who You Start With Can Impact the Rest of Your Life: Why It’s Imperative to Choose Right
12 Paradoxes of Life
Some Paradoxes of Life DEFINITION Paradox/par-uh-doks /noun• a statement that seems self-contradictory or absurd but in reality expresses a possible truth: “Less is more” is a paradox often repeated in the arts and other fields.It is a paradox of healthy grief that we must work at it while surrendering to it.• any person, thing, or … Continue reading 12 Paradoxes of Life
Vulnerability in Relationships: The Key to Genuine Connection
Vulnerability in Relationships builds deeper Intimacy In a world where strength and independence are often celebrated, vulnerability can sometimes be perceived as a weakness. However, in the realm of relationships, vulnerability is not only a strength but a crucial component for fostering deep and meaningful connections. Embracing vulnerability in relationships can lead to greater intimacy, … Continue reading Vulnerability in Relationships: The Key to Genuine Connection
Effective Communication Strategies in Relationships
Active listening is part of Effective Communication Introduction Effective communication is the cornerstone of a healthy relationship. It allows couples to connect, understand each other, and resolve conflicts. However, many couples struggle with communication, leading to misunderstandings and emotional distance. In this article, we'll explore common communication challenges and offer strategies to help couples communicate … Continue reading Effective Communication Strategies in Relationships
The Silent Signals: Hold, Touch, and Look
Different Silent Signals There’s an unspoken language in the way a man holds a woman—those small, tender gestures that speak volumes about his feelings. A gentle touch, a protective arm around her shoulders, or a reassuring handhold can convey love, care, and a promise of protection. But what about the men who don’t show these … Continue reading The Silent Signals: Hold, Touch, and Look
God’s Perspective on Common Misconceptions: Relationship Myths Debunked
Myths or God? Marriages, love, and relationships are unique, and while certain myths about each persist, it’s essential to understand them through the lens of biblical wisdom. Let’s hear God’s perspective on marriage, love, and relationships and debunk some common myths with insights from scripture. Myth #1: “Never Go to Bed Angry" Ephesians 4:26 says, … Continue reading God’s Perspective on Common Misconceptions: Relationship Myths Debunked
Relationship Myths Debunked: The Truth Behind Common Misconceptions
Myths Debunked Happy Friday to you all. Relationships are like fingerprints—each one is unique. Yet, despite their diversity, certain myths about love, relationships, and/or marriages seem to persist across cultures and generations. Let’s have some lighthearted fun debunking these common myths and shedding light on what really makes relationships tick. Myth #1: “Never Go to … Continue reading Relationship Myths Debunked: The Truth Behind Common Misconceptions
Of Lovers and Liars
An abstract of a lover and a liar [ A new TV show started today with the above title. I thought it makes a good title for my post. ] This is the time Of lovers and liars, tales spun in the night, Where friendship dances with truth in the fading light. In the tapestry … Continue reading Of Lovers and Liars
Where does Married Couples’ arguments come from?
Beauty and the Beast arguing The consensus is that finance and sex are the culprits for most arguments and divorces. Do you agree? Maybe. I strongly believe though that finance and sex are by-products. If all other things are right, the marriage can survive. Take for example, if the one who desires more sex suddenly … Continue reading Where does Married Couples’ arguments come from?
Like poles attract and unlike poles repel: Relationship compatibility and incompatibility
Credits: Unsplash In magnets, like poles attract and unlike poles repel. This principle can be metaphorically applied to relationships as well. In relationships, compatibility often play a significant role in attraction and the overall dynamics between individuals. When two people share similar values, beliefs, interests, and goals, they tend to be drawn to each other … Continue reading Like poles attract and unlike poles repel: Relationship compatibility and incompatibility
Ladies, Never Pursue a Man!
youtube.com/watch Don't shoot me, please. Yes, I'm not your Mama, but as a mother of two inwardly-beautiful young ladies (to God’s Glory), I'm also concerned as this man, R.C. Blakes, is. I just found and watched his video, totally resonate with all he says, and I believe it’s apropos to share. Though it’s addressed to … Continue reading Ladies, Never Pursue a Man!
Unrequited Love
Credits: Unsplash / S. Ruvalcaba How do you feel when you love someone who does not love you back? Thanks to Think Written for the writing prompt. Love ought to be reciprocal. Yes? Right? Remember Teddy Pendergrass’s 50/50 (or is’t 70/30 or 60/40) love song? Who wants to be the one holding on to the … Continue reading Unrequited Love
Of Fathers and Daughters: Part 1 – Daddy’s Girls
Credits: Pexels Know any man who adores his daughter such that not only his whole family (immediate and extended) knows it, but his friends and the world are equally aware of the father-daughter lovely relationship? Such was the love that occurred between late and former NBA Laker Star Kobe Bryant and his daughter, Gianna. Such … Continue reading Of Fathers and Daughters: Part 1 – Daddy’s Girls
The D-Day has come and gone – 2
Credits: NBC [Last paragraph from the previous post:] “The Constitution of the United States of America states that “the results won’t be official until each state fully canvasses and certifies its presidential election results, which occurs on a different timeline in every state.” The Electoral College has to declare the Presidential winner after the electors … Continue reading The D-Day has come and gone – 2
Real friends: 5 Things They Are And Are Not
Credits: Pexels I stated in my earlier post, Pyramid of Friendship, that the issue of friends/friendships has been togging at my heart. I’ve had to deal with some folks lately on the issue too. Some things that we assume are no-brainers surprisingly have been loosely handled and often misinterpreted. Friends and friendships fall into one … Continue reading Real friends: 5 Things They Are And Are Not
Pyramid of Friendship
Pyramid of Friendship (C) ThinkTalk I created the above Pyramid of Friendship but had a hard time uploading the file so I did the next best thing I could think of to do; took a photograph of it. If anyone has a better solution for me on how to upload the file, I’d be glad … Continue reading Pyramid of Friendship
Dating and Checking Each Other Out
Credits: Pexels I love to see the youngsters in love; I’m talking about the latter millennials/Gen Zs,. You know how we know and what they do, right? Prior to Covid-19, they talk/text all day and night on the phone, hang out too often, visit one another endlessly, go to movies, visit mutual friends, hardly stay … Continue reading Dating and Checking Each Other Out
What makes a man marry several women?
Libido? Cupidity? Power (Clout) and Control, Social Status, Shortage of men, or simply because they can and the women allow it? Your answer is as good as mine. . . . Polygamy is the act of marrying multiple spouses, simultaneously or sequentially, without first divorcing the other spouse. Sociologists have different terms when the man … Continue reading What makes a man marry several women?
Fair Fighting Rules for Relationships
Written by Dr. Eric Perry Image Credit: Pixabay “An eye for an eye will only make the world blind” ~Mahatma Gandhi Arguments and relationships go …Fair Fighting Rules for Relationships I’m sharing Dr. Eric Perry’s blog on Fair Fighting Rules for Relationships. Click on the above link to read it. The Rules are shared with … Continue reading Fair Fighting Rules for Relationships
If men only knew … 5 Things men ought to know
Credits: Pexels If only men knew the gift of God that He gave them, men would handle their wives with utmost care and treat them as precious jewels. Out of the bones of Adam (Genesis 2:21-23), Eve, the mother of all living (Genesis 20:3), was formed. And His Word said, “..., ye husbands, dwell with … Continue reading If men only knew … 5 Things men ought to know
Help, Lord!
Bible in One Year 2020 with Nicky Gumbel - Day 203 - Devotional Sharing the Devotional from the Bible in One Year 2020. To read more and read daily, click this url https://www.bible.com/reading-plans/17704/day/203?segment=0 One of my most frequent prayers is ‘Help!’ It is also one of the most common prayers in the Bible. It is … Continue reading Help, Lord!
Love and Love Languages
How do you love yourself or allow yourself to be loved? Are you the flower person, chocolates, wine and dine, just-hold-my-hands kind of person? Or do you prefer the long (phone/face-to-face) conversations? Whatever your preference, wouldn’t you like your significant other to know, or you knowing your children’s; if you have any? Wouldn’t you also … Continue reading Love and Love Languages
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